Ukufuywa konogwaja

Uma unquma ukuthola unogwaja wokuhlobisa, udinga ukuthenga konke okudingayo ukuze umenze azizwe ekhululekile. Ngemva kokuthenga, mnike isikhathi esithile sokuhlola indawo entsha yokuhlala futhi aqalaze. Kumele ukhumbule ukuthi udinga ukuxhumana nesilwane, ukuze sikwethembe wena nomndeni wonke. Okokuqala nje, wukuthintana okuthintekayo, okusiza ukuthambisa isilwane.

Yiba nesineke futhi uqaphele, zama ukukhombisa unogwaja ukuthi unobungane futhi awufuni ukulimaza. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhombisa lokhu ngokunyakaza nokushaywa, njengoba izilwane zihlale zizwa isimo somuntu. Uma uzama ukubamba isilwane ngenkani, ngaleyo ndlela umbangele ukungakhululeki, ngeke akwethembe futhi uzozama ukushiya "indawo eyingozi" ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ngokushesha lapho ebona ithuba elincane lokwenza kanjalo. Qala ngezingxoxo. Khuluma nesilwane sakho, mvumele ajwayele izwi lakho kuqala, mvumele ahogele izandla zakho, akubone ngephunga.

Ungakwazi futhi ukondla isilwane sakho esandleni sakho, lokhu kuzokwehlisa umgoqo wokuvikela wesilwane futhi kumsize ukuba aphumule.

Nakanjani uzosethusa isilwane uma usikhipha ngenkani ehhokweni. Vula ihhoko, vumela unogwaja aphume kulo, bese uwuphulula, kodwa ngobumnene, ungenzi ukunyakaza okuzumayo nokubi. Khona-ke ungamphakamisa ngobumnene, kodwa uma ubona ukuthi akafuni ukukuhlalisa ezingalweni zakho, myeke ahambe, ake ajwayele kancane, uzame futhi ngemva kwesikhashana. Buka ukuziphatha kwesilwane, uma sishwabana noma siqhaqhazela ekuthinteni kwakho, khona-ke asikuthandi okwenzayo.

Onogwaja kwesinye isikhathi bakhombisa ulaka. Kufanele uthathe izinguquko ezicashile ekuziphatheni kwakhe ukuze ukwazi ukunquma ukuthi kwenzekani ngempela ngaye. Ngezinye izikhathi ulaka luwuphawu lokuziveza kwesilwane. Ungamenza umdlalo onomdlandla, ngaleyo ndlela umnikeze ithuba lokuphuma ulaka ngaphandle kokuzilimaza yena noma wena.

Uma unogwaja uluma emilenzeni lapho udedelwa ekhejini, kungase kusho ukuthi uvuthiwe ngokobulili futhi udinga umngane womshado.

Njengoba onogwaja bekwazi ukubona kude, izandla zakho ezihlale zicwayiza phambi kobuso bakhe zingamcasula futhi angase abaxoshe. Ukuze ungabangeli ukusabela okunjalo kwesilwane, zama ukugcina izandla zakho ngaphezu kwekhanda lakhe, hhayi phambi kwamehlo akhe. Uma ubona inhloso yesilwane ukukuluma, zama ukusicindezela ngobumnene phansi futhi sizoqonda konke ngokushesha.

Futhi, onogwaja babonisa ulaka lapho bevinjelwa ekoneni iphepha lodonga, izintambo, nanoma yiziphi ezinye izinto zasendlini endlini. Kufanele wazi ukuthi balola amazinyo abo futhi babonisa ukuqonda, akufanele ushaye izilwane ezincane! Vele ucindezele kancane ikhanda lakhe phansi, bese ukhwaza uthi “cha”. Ngemva kwalokho, mthathe futhi umyise endaweni lapho engeke akwenze khona. Uma ekuluma ngaleso sikhathi, mbonise ukuthi kubuhlungu futhi akujabulisi kuwe, memeza, phinda igama elithi "cha", futhi umyise emgodini. Ngemva kwesikhashana, ngemva kwemizamo eminingana yokuba "naughty", unogwaja uzojwayela imithetho futhi ayeke ukuyenza.

Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi uma uthambisa unogwaja, zama ukuthi ungabeki ikheji phansi ngenkathi umile uqondile. Ngokuzenzakalelayo ungase ubonwe unogwaja njengesilwane esizingelayo, ngoba umkhulu kakhulu kunaye. Zama ukusungula ukuxhumana naye ezingeni lamehlo akho.

Khumbula ukuthi awudingi ukuthinta ikhala likanogwaja, akujabulisi kubo, njengoba lokhu kuyiphuzu elibucayi kakhulu lomzimba wabo. Uma uzame, ungamangali ukuthi ukulume, mhlawumbe kwaze kwaba seqophelweni legazi. Ngenxa yalokhu, akakwazi ukujeziswa, kodwa udinga ukufunda indlela yokuziphatha naye.

Uma uletha unogwaja ekhaya, mnike isikhathi sokuzijwayeza ehhokweni ngokwalo, bese umvumela ukuba agijime endlini. Lokhu ngokuvamile kuthatha izinsuku ezimbalwa. Ngemuva - ungazama ukuheha ngosizo lwezinto ezinhle. Ungamshiyi yedwa, ube seduze, futhi uzame ukushintsha ukunaka kwakhe kumathoyizi. Uma uthenge ama-labyrinths kanye nezindawo zokukhosela ngokushesha, ungafaki ngosuku lokuqala, linda kuze kube yilapho isilwane sijwayela ikhaya lakho.

Kunconywa ukubeka ikheji efasiteleni noma etafuleni, lapho ungahlala khona ngokuphepha eduze futhi uchithe isikhathi nesilwane. Uma uhlela ukuhamba unogwaja wakho ngentambo, yiqeqeshe kancane kancane. Qala ngemizuzu emi-5 bese usebenza ngendlela yakho ufike ngesikhathi osifisayo. Zama ukuvikela isilwane emisindweni enokhahlo ukuze ungamesabi. Uzobona ukuthi unogwaja uyakwethemba lapho eqala ukuza kuwe futhi egibela ezandleni zakhe.