ukuqeqeshwa kusenesikhathi

Ufunda kanjani umdlwane wakho?

Wonke umnikazi ufuna umdlwane wabo ujabule, ukhululeke futhi ube nobudlelwane obuhle. Kodwa uphuma enjeni yakho kuphela lokho okufaka kukho. Yingakho kubalulekile ukuqala ukuqeqesha isilwane sakho kusenesikhathi. Yiqiniso, ngaphambi kokuba umyise ekhaya, kwenziwa umsebenzi othile naye: angakwazi ukuqeqeshwa endlini yangasese, kanye nezisekelo zokulalela. Kodwa manje konke kusezandleni zakho. Umdlwane wakho ufunda ngokushesha okukhulu, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi uqonde ngokushesha ukuthi kufanele uziphathe kanjani ngendlela efanele. Kusobala, kodwa umdlwane wakho awukwazi ukufunda wodwa ngaphandle kokuthi uwuchaze. Ngakho kusukela ngosuku lokuqala udinga ukumfundisa indlela yokuziphatha. 

Ziningi izincwadi ezikhuluma ngale ndaba, futhi ungathola kalula izifundo zokuqeqesha umdlwane. Udokotela wakho wezilwane angakweluleka ngokuthi yini elungele umdlwane wakho, noma akuchazele nokuthi ungazisetha kanjani izifundo ezinjalo ngokwakho. Kunezindlela eziningi zokuqeqesha izinja, kodwa kunemithetho embalwa yegolide wonke umnikazi wezinja okufanele azi:

Umdlwane omuhle:Ezinjeni, inqubo yokufunda yakhelwe phezu kwezinhlangano, ngakho-ke uma umdlwane wakho wenza okuthile okuhle, mnike umvuzo njalo. Khona-ke lesi senzo cishe sizophinda. Umklomelo kufanele uhlale uhlobene nesenzo esithile futhi ulandele ngokushesha, phakathi kwamasekhondi angu-1-2. Imiklomelo ingabandakanya ukuphatha, ukudumisa, noma imidlalo. Ukuqeqeshwa akufanele kube isikhathi eside: kungcono ukuqhuba izikhathi zemizuzu emi-2, kodwa izikhathi ezingu-5-6 ngosuku. Qeqesha umdlwane wakho ezimweni ezihlukahlukene: endlini, ngaphandle kwayo, ekuhambeni, kodwa ngendlela yokuthi kungabikho iziphazamiso nxazonke - khona-ke umdlwane uzoqonda kangcono imiyalo yakho.

Hhayi umdlwane omuhle kakhulu Umdlwane udinga ukutshelwa ukuthi yini ongayenza nokuthi yini ongayenzi. Isibonelo, isifiso sokuququda okuthile kuyingxenye yokuziphatha kwakhe kokuhlola futhi akanalo ulwazi azalwa nalo lwalokho okukhona nokungavunyelwe ukuququda. Unganaki ukuziphatha okungafuneki okunjalo. Ungawuthethisi umdlwane, ungawushayi futhi ungabonakali uthukuthele. Kunalokho, zenze sengathi akekho eduze. Kodwa-ke, ezinye izenzo zingaba yingozi futhi akufanele zinganakwa - isibonelo, uma umdlwane wakho uhlafuna ikhebula likagesi. Futhi, ukuklabalasa noma ukujeziswa ngokomzimba akuyona inketho. Mmise ngokuthi “cha” kafushane, shintshela kuwena futhi, uma ekulalela, unikeze umvuzo.

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Uma kukhona igama umdlwane wakho okudingeka ulifunde, igama elithi cha. Uma umdlwane wakho wenza okuthile okungaba yingozi noma okulimazayo, mmise nge-cha eqinile. Asikho isidingo sokumemeza, khulumela phansi futhi uqine. Wathi nje ukuma, mdumise.