Ungakumisa kanjani ukuziphatha okunolaka komdlwane wakho

Ungavumeli umdlwane wakho uphenduke inja enolaka

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi izinja ziyaluma ngoba “zenzelwe yona.” Kodwa inja ayibi nolaka ngaphandle kwesizathu esizwakalayo. Izinja eziningi zibonisa izimpawu zolaka lapho zicindezelekile. Ngakho-ke, ukuze uvimbele umdlwane wakho ukuthi ungakhuli uthukuthele noma unolaka, gwema izimo ezicindezelayo noma ufundise isilwane sakho ukuze sizibekezelele ngokuthula. Udinga ukwazi ukubona izimpawu zokwesaba ku-puppy yakho lapho, isibonelo, efihla ekhoneni noma edonsa i-leash.

Ukwesaba kuvamile

Inja akudingeki ibe nesipiliyoni esibi ukuze yesabe. Izinja ziyesaba uma zingalitholi ithuba lokuhlangana nabantu abanele. Uma umdlwane wakho ujwayela ukubona abantu (abadala nezingane) njengomthombo wokuzijabulisa, udumo nokuphatha, ngeke besaba usongo kuye.

Udinga futhi ukujwayela umdlwane wakho ukuzwa imisindo nezimo ezingase zimethuse lapho usemncane, futhi ngaleyo ndlela umsize ukuba anqobe lokho kwesaba. Bese izinto ezingase zethuse njengesicoci se-vacuum cleaner, ithrafikhi, noma i-postman iba yingxenye yempilo yansuku zonke.

Umdlwane wakho nabanye abantu

Abantu beza ngazo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu—abangane, amalungu omndeni, nabantu ongabazi—abaneminyaka ehlukene, izakhiwo, nosayizi—kulula ngomdlwane wakho ukuba udideke. Umdlwane wakho udinga ukuwafunda wonke, futhi ngokushesha kuba ngcono. Khona-ke abantu ngeke babonakale bengajwayelekile, futhi umdlwane uzofunda ngokushesha ukuziphatha ngokuzola nokuthembela. Vele wenze isiqiniseko sokuthi abamesabi ngokunaka kwabo eduze.

Kubalulekile ukuthi umdlwane wakho wazane nezingane. Zimbalwa izingane ezingakwazi ukumelana nokuphulula nokudlala nomdlwane, futhi azifuni nhlobo ukumlimaza, kodwa kungase kujabulise kumdlwane. Isibonelo, ungathatha umdlwane wakho uyoshaywa umoya eduze kwesikole. Izingane azidingi ukuncengwa - zona ngokwazo zizokujabulela ukungcolisa isilwane sakho. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi imidlwane isheshe ikhathale, ngakho qiniseka ukuthi imihlangano nabantu ongabazi imifushane futhi unikeze umdlwane wakho ithuba lokuphumula.

Ungavumeli umdlwane wakho ukulume ngenkathi udlala.

Ngaphambi kokuthi uthathe umdlwane wakho uye nawo ekhaya, ubedlala nezingane zakubo futhi ukuluma kuyingxenye yemvelo yokudlala kwakhe. Ekhaya elisha, uzoqhubeka nokuluma, ngakho-ke udinga ukufunda izindlela zokusiza ukulungisa ukuziphatha komdlwane. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuguqula ukunaka kwengane ezandleni zakho bese ushintshela kumathoyizi.

Noma nini lapho udlala nomdlwane wakho, uwuphulule futhi uwumbambathe, kufika isikhathi lapho efuna ukunambitha isandla sakho. Ngakho hlala ulungile elinye lamathoyizi akhe. Kwenze kube nzima kuye ukukuluma isandla sakho (ngokwesibonelo, ngokusifingqa sibe isibhakela) futhi unikeze ithoyizi ngokubuyisela ngokulinyakazisa phambi kwekhala lakhe. Umdlwane wakho uzobona ngokushesha ukuthi kulula kakhulu futhi kumnandi kakhulu ukudlala ngethoyizi kunokusebenzisa isibhakela sakho.

Umdlwane wakho wazi lokho omfundise kona.

Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi noma yini oyifundisa umdlwane wakho manje izoba yingxenye yokuziphatha kwayo okuvamile esikhathini esizayo. Ngakho lapho udlala nomdlwane wakho, zama ukumcabangela njengenja endala futhi uhlole ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe kwamukelekile yini noma cha. Uma ngesikhathi somdlalo eqala ukugquma, ezama ukuluma isandla esibambe ithoyizi, noma exosha ingane, amise ngokushesha umdlalo bese ehamba, ethatha ithoyizi. Ngokushesha uzoqonda ukuthi kungani ubumnandi buphelile futhi kusukela manje uzogwema ukuziphatha okubangele ukusabela okunjalo.

Uma unokukhathazeka mayelana nokuziphatha komdlwane wakho noma udinga ulwazi olwengeziwe ngesifundo, izifundo nezikole zokuqeqesha, thintana nodokotela wakho wezilwane - uzokujabulela ukukusiza.