“Ngikhuluma nenja…”

Abantu abaningi bakhuluma nezinja zabo njengabantu. ESweden, kwenziwa ucwaningo (L. Thorkellson), kuxoxwa nabantu abane. U-4% wabo uvumile ukuthi abagcini nje ngokukhuluma nezinja, kodwa bayazethemba ngezimfihlo zabo ezijulile. Futhi abangu-000% baxoxa ngokungathi sína ngezinkinga nezilwane ezifuywayo, abazibheka njengeziphathimandla zokuziphatha, futhi izingxoxo ezinjalo zisiza ekwenzeni izinqumo ezibalulekile. Kungani sithanda ukukhuluma nezinja kangaka?

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Okokuqala, inja icishe ibe isilaleli esiphelele. Ngeke akuphazamise ngokunyakazisa isandla sakhe bese esho ngokudelela: “Kuyini lokhu? Lapha ngine ... "- noma, ngaphandle kokulalela isiphetho, qala ukukulahla inqwaba yezinkinga zabo, okwamanje ezingakuthakazelisi nhlobo.

Okwesibili, inja isinikeza ukwamukelwa okungenamibandela, okungukuthi, ayigxeki noma ibuze umbono wethu. Kuyena, umuntu amthandayo uphelele ngazo zonke izindlela, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani. Basithanda ngazo zonke izindlela: abacebile nabampofu, abagulayo nabanempilo, abahle futhi akunjalo...

Okwesithathu, ngesikhathi sokuxhumana nenja, kokubili isilwane nomuntu bakhiqiza i-hormone yokunamathisela - i-oxytocin, esisiza ukuba sijabulele ukuphila futhi sizizwe siqiniseka ngokwengeziwe futhi sijabule.

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Abanye abantu banamahloni okuvuma ukuthi bakhuluma nezinja, bakubheka njengophawu lobuwula. Nokho, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuye kwafakazelwa ukuthi abantu abakhuluma nezilwane banezinga eliphakeme lokuhlakanipha. 

Izinja zincike ngokuphelele kithi. Kodwa nathi sincike kuzo. Ziyasijabulisa, zikhuthaza ukuzethemba, zisiza ekugcineni impilo futhi zisenze sijabule. Ngakho kungani ungakhulumi nabo ngokusuka enhliziyweni?

Ingabe ukhuluma nenja?