Kungani ikati lingaziphathi kahle ekhaya?

Ngaphambi kokuba sikhulume ngokususa ukuziphatha okuhlanekezelwe, ake sibone ukuthi ingabe isilwane sakho esifuywayo siyibhoklolo ngempela?

Isho ukuthini i-hooliganism? Lezi yizenzo zemvelo engalungile ezingachazwa futhi kutholwe isizathu sazo. Kodwa mhlawumbe kukhona isizathu?

Isibonelo, uma ikati lichitha ifenisha, inkinga ingase ibe ukuthi ayinayo impindiselo ethile kanye nokuthunyelwe okufanelekile kokuklama. Isifiso sokulola izinzipho singokwemvelo kumakati. Ngakho-ke, ukuklama okuthunyelwe kuyithuluzi elibaluleke kakhulu. Uma ingekho noma uma ikati lingakuthandi okuklwebhayo okukhona, lizosheshe lithole okuzothatha indawo yalo. Usofa wakho uphelele kule ndima!

Ukuya endlini yangasese endaweni engafanele akumele kuthathwe njengobuxhwanguxhwangu. Isilwane sakho singaba nezinkinga zempilo. Noma mhlawumbe awuhlanzi udoti wekati lakho njalo ngokwanele noma uthenge udoti ongalungile. Esikhundleni sokuphonsa ikati lakho emgodini (okuyinto, ngendlela, engenamsebenzi ngokuphelele), kungcono ukubukeza ukuhlanzeka kwendlu yangasese yekati futhi uthathe ikati kudokotela wezilwane ukuze ulawule izifo.

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izingane namakati amancane asebenza kakhulu. Bafunda umhlaba, bahlole wonke amagumbi awo futhi "bangadlala imigilingwane" ukuze banelise ilukuluku labo noma balahle amandla anqwabelene. Amanye amakati adlala kakhulu futhi ahamba, amanye aphansi kakhulu. Ezinye kulula ukuzinakekela, ezinye zinzima kakhulu. Ikati ngalinye lingumuntu ngamunye. Into eyinhloko ukuqonda ukuthi imigilingwane enjalo iyisici sokuziphatha kwesilwane sakho esifuywayo. Aziqondiswe kuwena uqobo. Ngokuphambene nenkolelo-mbono, amakati awazi ukuthi ahlela kanjani ukuziphindiselela noma enze okuthile ngaphandle kwesizathu.

Uma umtholampilo wezilwane ukuqinisekisile ukuthi isilwane esifuywayo sinempilo ngokuphelele, khona-ke imbangela yokuziphatha okulimazayo kufanele ifunwe ezimweni zokuboshwa, imvelo noma uhlobo lwesilwane.

Ake sibhekane nezimbangela zezinkinga ezidume kakhulu amakati athanda ukuletha.

• Ukulimala kwefenisha nezinto

Amakati ayizilwane ezidla ezinye ngokwemvelo, futhi ubukhali bezinzipho zabo kubaluleke kakhulu kuwo. Ukulola izinzipho kuyisidingo semvelo se-mustachioed-striped, okungenamsebenzi ukulwa nayo.

Ikati aliqondi ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukulola izinzipho kukhaphethi, izindawo zokubeka izandla zikasofa kanye nemilenze yetafula. Futhi uma uqala ukuthethisa isilwane sakho, cishe ngeke sifunde isifundo sakho, ngoba. Ucabanga ukuthi wenza konke kahle.

Isixazululo sisobala - ukuthenga isigxobo sokuklwebula ikati bese usibeka kulezo zindawo lapho isilwane esifuywayo sithanda ukusebenzisa izinzipho zaso kaningi. Kungcono uma kunezinhlobo eziningana nezihlukene zokuklwebha okuthunyelwe (okuvundlile nokuqondile).

Ikati alinaki izigxobo ezinwayayo? Sebenzisa iqhinga elilula: sebenzisa i-catnip ebusweni bokuklwebheka okuthunyelwe. Futhi ezindaweni lapho ikati lingeke libe nonya, fafaza ngesifutho esikhethekile esivela esitolo sezilwane esithusa amakati. Ungasebenzisa amakhambi esintu - amafutha abalulekile e-citrus: amakati awakwazi ukumelana nalawa maphunga.

Ungakhohlwa ukusika izinzipho zomngane wakho okhohlakele. Yenza lokhu ngokucophelela, ngaphandle kokuthinta imithambo yegazi.

• Ukugumbuqela izimbiza zezimbali

Uma ibhodwe lembali lingazinzile, khona-ke ngokushesha noma kamuva ikati lizoyilahla. Vumela le nkinga ibe yithuba lokuthi uhlele kabusha futhi ulungise amabhodwe ezimbali ezindaweni lapho amakati angafinyeleleki khona. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, hlola ukuthi izitshalo zakho zasendlini ziphephile yini esilwaneni sakho. Ingabe uzophatheka kabi uma enquma ukuwanambitha?

• Eya endlini yangasese edlula ithileyi

Iziliphu zezindlu zangasese zingabonisa ukugula, ngakho into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuhlola udokotela wakho wezilwane. Uma konke kuhamba kahle, khona-ke indaba iku-filler, ithreyi ngokwayo noma indawo lapho itholakala khona.

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi:

- indlu yangasese yekati kufanele ibe endaweni eseceleni futhi ezolile ukuze isilwane esifuywayo singatholi ukuphatheka kabi;

- kubalulekile ukuqapha njalo ukuhlanzeka kwethreyi;

- indlu yangasese kufanele ilingane nesilwane ngosayizi futhi ingabi mncane kakhulu;

- mhlawumbe ikati alithandi iphunga nokuthungwa kwe-filler. Zama ukuyibuyisela ngolunye uhlobo;

- uma amakati amaningana ehlala endlini, omunye wabo (noma wonke ngesikhathi esisodwa) angamaka insimu, amemezele ukuphakama kwawo;

- inkinga yamalebula ingaxazululwa ngokuthena okufika ngesikhathi.

Ukuze ukhiphe isilwane esifuywayo ekungeneni endlini yangasese ezindaweni ezingafanele, udinga, okokuqala, uqiniseke ukuthi konke kuhamba ngokuhlelekile ngethreyi futhi lilungele ikati. Okwesibili, zama nge-filler. Okwesithathu, qhubeka ngendlela efanayo nasesimweni sokulimala kwefenisha: fafaza izindawo ezizithandayo zesilwane sakho esifuywayo ngomuthi oxosha iphunga namamaki.

• Ukujaha ebusuku

Cishe wonke umnikazi wekati uzoqinisekisa ukuthi ebusuku isilwane sakhe asibekezeleleki. Angagijima kakhulu, amemeze ngokudabukisayo ngaphansi komnyango, enze umsindo ngamathoyizi nezinye izinto, futhi adanse emakhanda amalungu omndeni alele.

Isimo singalungiswa kalula ngalezi zenzo ezilandelayo:

Kuhle "ukukhipha" ikati ngosuku, futhi ngenxa yalokhu udinga ukudlala nayo ngenkuthalo. Uma usemsebenzini futhi ufika ekhaya kusihlwa kuphela, vumela amanye amalungu omndeni adlale nekati. Ingabe nabo baphumile usuku lonke? Bese uthola isihlobo sakho esifuywayo. Bazoxhumana usuku lonke futhi ngeke badinwe.

Thenga amathoyizi ahlukene ekati lakho. Eningawadlala ndawonye nalawo ikati lakho elingakwazi ukuwadlala ngokwalo. Isibonelo, ithrekhi yakudala yamakati anebhola noma amathoyizi asebenzisanayo aqaliswa lapho ikati lisondela. Kodwa kune-caveat eyodwa - ngaphambi kokulala, wonke amathoyizi kufanele asuswe endaweni lapho izilwane ezifuywayo zingafinyeleleki khona. Kumngane onoboya, lokhu kuzosebenza njengesignali - ukuzola nokulala.

Kunoma yikuphi, ungalandeli ukuhola kwekati uma enesifiso sokudla phakathi nobusuku. Phuma kanye embhedeni ngeke uphinde ulale ngokuthula. Ubuqili be-mustachioed bazoqonda ukuthi ungakhohliswa. Ziba zonke izenzo zekati futhi ufundise lokhu kwamanye amalungu omndeni. Khona-ke isilwane sizoqonda ukuthi udinga ukulinda ngokuthobeka ekuseni ukuze udle futhi udlale.

Qiniseka ukuthi indlu yakho imnyama bhuqe ebusuku. Azikho izibani zasebusuku, amathoyizi akhanyayo, izibani ngaphandle kwefasitela - lutho. Noma yikuphi ukukhanya okukhangayo kuzophazamisa imilenze emine ebuthongweni.

Ukwenyuka kwamaHormonal kwenza isilwane singaphumuli nje kuphela emini, kodwa nasebusuku. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthena noma ukuvala inzalo isilwane sakho ngesikhathi esifanele ukuze singakuhlukumezi wena noma ezinye izilwane ezisendlini. Ungalibali ngalokhu. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uthena isilwane esifuywayo, aba mancane amathuba okuba silungise ukuziphatha kwaso.

• Ukukhwela itafula

Ukuzama ukukhipha ikati ekugxumeni etafuleni nakwezinye izindawo eziphakeme akusizi ngalutho. Khumbula ukuthi amakati anikezwe amandla emvelo futhi ngokuvamile aziphatha njengezelamani zasendle. Ukuba segqumeni lamakati kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngakho isilwane sizama ukulawula isimo endlini, sibheka ukuthi ubani ongenile nokuthi ubani ophumile. Ungafaki ilukuluku le-banal: kunezinto ezithakazelisayo kakhulu etafuleni, isiqandisi kanye ne-mezzanine kunaphansi.

Ukwanelisa uthando lwekati ngamagquma, mhlomise indawo ekhululekile esiqandisini noma ekhabetheni: beka umcamelo noma umbhede lapho, isilwane esifuywayo sizokubonga kuphela. Ungase futhi uthenge umklamo ophakeme okhethekile, ohlanganisa ukuklwebheka okuthunyelwe namashalofu. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi uyibophe phansi futhi ucabangele isisindo somngane wakho onemilenze emine, ngaphandle kwalokho indlu yekati izowela phansi ngemva kokugxuma kokuqala.

• Ulaka nokuhlasela kusuka ekusithekeni

Abanikazi bamakati bacasulwe kakhulu ukuthi esikhundleni seqhubu elithambile, bathola isoka elibahlasela ekhoneni ngezikhathi ezingalindelekile.

Ulaka olungenangqondo lungakhuluma ngalokhu: ukucindezeleka, ukwesaba, udlame okuhlangenwe nakho noma ukulwa nesinye isilwane. Kulokhu, udinga ukulungisa ukuziphatha kwekati kanye nodokotela wezilwane noma i-zoopsychologist.

Ukuhlasela okuvela ekhoneni kuvame ukuboniswa amakati antula umsebenzi, ukunakwa nothando. Futhi lokhu kuziphatha kuyisici samakati amancane, anomqondo oqinile wokuzingela namandla aphuphumayo. Ungakhohlwa ukudlala nesilwane sakho kaningi, umnikeze amathoyizi amaningi athakazelisayo futhi unikeze isikhathi esengeziwe sokuzijabulisa.

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi nakuba amakati engakwazi ukukhuluma, ungakwazi ukuxoxisana nawo. Into esemqoka ukuba umnikazi ozwelayo, olalelayo futhi onothando.