Ukuzijwayeza kwekati ngemva kwendawo yokukhosela

Ukuhamba nezinsuku zokuqala ekhaya elisha

Ingabe uphumelele ekusesheni kwakho umngane wakho oyedwa nonemilenze emine kuphela endaweni yokukhosela? Kuyamangalisa. Nokho, ngaphambi kokuyisa isigceme esisha ekhaya, kubalulekile ukwenza amalungiselelo athile.

Hlela indawo yomuntu siqu yekati endlini. Vumela umbhede, izitsha, ithreyi eline-filler, iposi lokunwaya, amathoyizi, izinto zokuhlanzeka nezinye izinto zomuntu siqu zizobe sezimlindile endaweni ethandekayo. Indawo ezungezile nayo idinga ukulungiswa. Ingabe akhona ama-anti-cat ensimbi avikelekile emafasiteleni? Ingabe konke okuncane, okuntekenteke, okucijile kususiwe? Ingabe zikhona izitshalo zasendlini ezingaba yingozi esilwaneni esifuywayo? Ingabe izitsha zomuthi, amabhodlela amakhemikhali asekhaya asendaweni okungafinyeleleki kuyo izilwane ezifuywayo? Uma kunjalo, hamba esinyathelweni esilandelayo.

Ngaphambi kokuthutha, ikati elivela endaweni yokukhosela kufanele liyiswe emtholampilo wezilwane ukuze lihlolwe ukuze kugwenywe izifo. Uma kungenjalo, umngane omusha onemilenze emine angase abe yingozi ezifuyweni ezisekhaya lakho.

Ikati kufanele lihanjiswe ngokukhethekile esiphathini esikhethekile. Ngisho noma ukude imizuzu emi-5 kuphela ekhaya.

Zilungiselele iqiniso lokuthi ikati noma ikati lizobonisa umlingiswa emahoreni okuqala ngemva kokushiya indawo yokukhosela. Yiba nesineke, cabanga ukuthi lokhu kujabulisa kangakanani kumngane wakho omusha. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ujabule kangakanani ngokufika kwesilwane esifuywayo endlini, sishiye amahora ambalwa okuqala wedwa nemicabango yakho ekhoneni elilungiselelwe yona. Vele ubeke ophethe umnyango uvuleke phansi. Isilwane esifuywayo sizophuma sodwa uma sesilungile.

Cishe ngemva kwamahora ayisithupha, isilwane sasekhaya singaziswa ngobumnene ekhaya, ngaphandle kokuphoqwa futhi sizame “ukugona ikati.” 

Akufanele ulindele ngokushesha ukukhishwa kothando nokunye ukubonakaliswa kothando kuye.

Ungazama ngokungabonakali ukudlala nge-mustachioed-striped. Futhi ungagcizeleli uma engafuni ukuxhumana naye. Kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuthi uvulekile ukuxhumana naye futhi ulinde, khona-ke uzokuvulela isifuba.

Ngosuku lokuqala, kungcono ukungasigezi isilwane sakho ngaphandle uma kunesidingo. Zama ukugcina ukucindezeleka nokungakhululeki kuphansi ngangokunokwenzeka.

Masisize isilwane sakho sizinze

• Yondla isilwane sakho esifuywayo ezinsukwini zokuqala eziyi-10 ngendlela efanayo naleyo yaphakelwa ngayo endaweni yokukhosela. Khona-ke, uma kunesidingo, ungaqala kancane kancane ukushintshela ekudleni okusha.

• Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokuqala ngemva kwephathi yokufudumala kwendlu, kungcono uhlale ekhaya ukuze lowo onemithende yamadevu akujwayele. Uma esimweni sekati kungcono ukulawula isimo njalo, khona-ke ukujwayela ikati elidala endlini entsha akujabulisi kangako kubanikazi. Ingashiywa yona ngokwayo isikhathi eside kakhulu.

• Vumela isigceme sibe namathoyizi akhe awathandayo, izindlu, imibhede kanye nesigxobo sokunwaya somumo awuthandayo. Lokhu kuzokwenza kube lula ukuzivumelanisa nezimo.

Uma unesinye isilwane esifuywayo

Uma usunayo inja noma ikati, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlela kahle ukwazana kwabo nekati noma ikati elisanda kufika. Dala isizathu sokuthi izilwane ezifuywayo ezimbili zibe mnandi komunye nomunye, ngaphandle kwalokho umuzwa wemvelo wendawo uzothatha izintambo. 

Ngosuku lokuqala, kungcono ukungethuli izilwane ngokuqondile. Ungakwazi ukubaphathela izingubo zokulala emibhedeni yomunye nomunye ukuze bajwayele iphunga elisha. Uma ubona ukuthi iphunga lesihlobo libonakala ngaphandle kwemizwa engemihle, qinisa lokhu kuziphatha ngokuphatha. Bese ushintshanisa izilwane ezifuywayo namagumbi, uzivumele zihlole futhi zihogele izinto zomunye nomunye. Ngemva kwamaseshini anjalo ambalwa endaweni yangaphandle, ungavumela izilwane ezifuywayo zikubone nge-slot yomnyango noma ngokufaka eyodwa yazo kunkampani yenethiwekhi. Isinyathelo sesithathu ukubanika ukudla ukuze babonane bekude. Uma ngemva kwamasonto ambalwa bengahlalisana ngokuthula futhi badle ezitsheni eziseduze, kuyimpumelelo.

Uma unenja endlini yakho, kufanele nakanjani ucabangele indawo eqondile, isigaba samashalofu nama-coasters. Ikati kufanele njalo libe nethuba lokuhlehla uma inja ngokuzumayo ifuna ukulungisa izinto.

Ukuzijwayeza kancane

Ngokuvamile kuthatha amasonto amabili kuya enyangeni eyodwa ukuze ikati lizijwayele ikhaya elisha. Kulokhu, okuningi kuncike enhlalakahleni nasezingeni lokuhlalisana kwewadi yakho. Ukuzijwayeza kancane kungenye yezinkinga ezingaba khona uma kuziwa ekatini elivela endaweni yokukhosela. Ngokuvamile, izilwane ezifuywayo ezinjalo zidinga isikhathi esengeziwe sokujwayela izinguquko. Ikati elinempilo ebuhlungu eliye laphila ngaphandle kokuxhumana nabantu noma endaweni engalungile lingathatha iminyaka eminingana ukwakha ubuhlobo obuthembekile nomnikazi.

Uma inyanga isidlulile, futhi ikati lisahlezi ngaphansi kombhede noma ngaphansi kokugeza, alifuni ukudlala, linqikaza ukudla, udinga ukukhombisa isilwane sakho kudokotela wezilwane. Kungenzeka ukuthi isilwane esifuywayo siyagula - hlobo luni lokuhlalisana olukhona.

Ukuhlolwa kwezilwane kungabonisa ukuthi ikati lakho liphilile ngokomzimba. Ngakho-ke, kuyindaba yokuhlukumezeka kwengqondo, isipiliyoni esibi sesikhathi esidlule. Funa usizo kudokotela wezilwane. Kulesi sigaba, ulwazi oluningiliziwe mayelana nezimo zokuphila ezidlule nezidlule zesilwane sakho esifuywayo kuzoba usizo kakhulu kuwe.

Ungaqala kanjani ukuthatha izinyathelo ubheke komunye nomunye nesilwane sakho esifuywayo? Khuluma newadi ehlezi noma elele phansi. Ukuma nokuphakama phezu komngane wakho onemilenze emine kungamethusa. Ngenkathi uhlezi noma ulele phansi, mema ikati lakho ukuthi lidlale ngethoyizi lamahlaya elinophaphe. Ngisho noma ikati lingakwazi ukudlala, ngokushesha noma kamuva ilukuluku lokwazi nokuzingela lizothatha umonakalo - futhi ikati lifakiwe emdlalweni.

Yondla isilwane sakho ezandleni zakho, ubikezele isikhathi lapho nakanjani silambile futhi ngeke senqabe ukudla. Okokuqala, ungaphonsa izingcezu zokudla okomile ngesandla sakho. Vumela ikati libone ukuthi okuthile okuhle kuhlobene nokubukeka kwakho. Ngemuva komdlalo, kanye nangemva kwanoma yisiphi isinyathelo esihle sekati ekuxhumaneni nawe, qinisa lokhu kuziphatha okufunayo ngokuphatha, dumisa umngane wakho onemilenze emine. Ngesikhathi sokuzivumelanisa nezimo, awudingi ukuphoqelela ikati ukwenza okuthile ngokusebenzisa amandla, ngaphandle kwezimo lapho ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha okuphuthumayo kuyadingeka. Kulesi sigaba, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ikati lijwayele wena.

Khumbula ukuthi isilwane sakho esisha siyisidalwa esiphilayo esinesiphetho saso, umlingiswa kanye nolwazi lwaso. Zama ukukhombisa ukuqonda, uzwela nokubekezela. Lokhu kuzosiza ekutholeni isihluthulelo senhliziyo yomuntu ompofu futhi kumenze ajabule ngempela.