Lithini ikati ngomzimba walo?

Uma ikati lakho like lashaya umlenze wakho ngomsila noma latshekisela ikhanda eceleni futhi likugqolozela ngaphandle kwesizathu esizwakalayo, cishe uye wazibuza, “Uzama ukungitshelani? Kusho ukuthini konke lokhu?”

Izindlela zokuxhumana ezikhulunywayo ngendlela yokuhayiza, ukugquma kanye nokukhala (kukho konke ukuvezwa kwakho okuhlukahlukene) izindlela ezijwayelekile isilwane sakho esifuywayo esixhumana ngayo nawe. Ngemva kokuhlala nekati okwesikhashana, uqala ukuqonda kangcono lokho azama ukukutshela kona. Kodwa-ke, ukucacisa ulimi lomzimba lwekati olungakhulumi kungaba nzima kakhulu. Njengoba abanikazi bezilwane ezifuywayo bazi kahle, amakati anobuqili futhi alindele ukuthi ufunde ingqondo yawo yezilwane.

Njengoba ziyizidalwa eziveza imizwa, zingadlulisa imizwa eminingi buthule. Ungachitha ingxenye yempilo yakho ubuka izithombe zekati ezihlekisayo nezihlekisayo ezifakwe kumasayithi amaningi ku-inthanethi. Kumagama-ncazo ezithombe ezinjalo, abanikazi abathandekayo basho lokho abacabanga ukuthi ikati lizama ukubatshela khona. Nakisisa izinkomba zakhe ezingakhulumi, futhi uzokwazi ukuqonda ukuthi yini ngempela ubuhle bakho obunoboya obufuna ukukutshela.

Amehlo

Njengoba isisho sakudala sithi, "amehlo ayifasitela emphefumulweni," futhi lokhu kuyasebenza kumakati. UVetstreet uyaphawula: “Amehlo ekati lakho azokusiza uqonde isimo salo sangaphakathi.” Ngokuvamile ungabona ukuthi ikati lihlala kanjani, libheke iphuzu elilodwa futhi licabanga ngokujulile, isikhathi eside. Mhlawumbe uzama ukuxazulula izimfihlakalo ezinkulu zomhlaba… noma ukuphupha emini ngegundane alithandayo.

Uma abafundi bomngane wakho onoboya bejwayelekile (okungukuthi abanwetshiwe), qiniseka ukuthi ukhululekile futhi ulungele ukuphumula. “Lapho ikati lakho likhululekile, lingase likubuke,” kuqhuba uVetstreet, “futhi libheke emehlweni akho isikhashana ngaphambi kokuba libheke eceleni ngokunganaki noma licwayize kancane.” Ngokuvamile ungakubona lokhu kubukeka okuthambile, ngezinye izikhathi ngaphansi kwezinkophe ezehlisiwe ngemva kokuba isilwane esifuywayo sidle kahle, noma ngaphambi nje kokuba silale.

Ukuma kweso lekati nakho kungatshela okuningi ngemicabango yesilwane. Njengabantu, amehlo ekati avuleka ngokumangala, okubonisa ukuthi liqaphe kakhulu. Uma amehlo akhe efinyela futhi abafundi bakhe banwebeka, qaphela, ngoba inkinga iyafufusa. Abafundi bayanwebeka lapho kukhishwa i-adrenaline, futhi endabeni yekati, lokhu kusho ukuthi selilungele ukubhodla, ukuhlasela, ukubusa, noma ukukwenza konke ngesikhathi esisodwa.

Izindlebe

Amadlebe ekati, ayindilinga futhi acijile, empeleni ayizimpondo ezixhumene ngqo nemizwelo yalo futhi zifanelana nomhlaba olizungezile - konke sibonga ikhono lazo lokunyakaza ngokuzimela, kuhlanganiswe nekhono lalo lokuzwa elimangalisayo. “Njengoba liqhele ngemitha emthonjeni womsindo, ikati lingakwazi ukunquma indawo elikuyo libe phakathi kwamasentimitha angu-5 ngezingxenye ezingamakhulu ayisithupha zomzuzwana,” kuchaza i-Animal Planet. Amakati angakwazi nokuzwa imisindo kude—ubude obuphindwe kane noma kahlanu kunabantu.” Ikhono lekati elimangalisayo nelingenakuqhathaniswa lokuzwa lokho indlebe yakho engakwazi ukufinyelela kuyo lingase lilenze lingakhululeki mayelana nezenzakalo ezingavamile endlini, kodwa cishe lizwa nje umsindo wamapulangwe aphansi kude namakamelo ambalwa.

Uma izindlebe zekati lakho "zikwimodi yendiza", okungukuthi, zisakazwa ezinhlangothini noma zicindezelwe emuva, kusho ukuthi unovalo, ukwesaba noma ukucasuka. Lena imodi yokulwa noma yendiza, ngakho-ke zilungiselele noma yisiphi salezi zenzo. Ungabona lokhu kuziphatha lapho ikati lakho lethulwa kumuntu omusha noma esilwaneni. Izindlebe ezicindezelwe emuva ekhanda zibonisa imizwa eyingozi kakhulu noma enolaka, kodwa lokhu kuma kwezindlebe kungasho nokuthi ikati lakho liyesaba. Kunoma yikuphi, yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukumkhipha ngokuphepha kulesi simo.

Kodwa zibukeka kanjani izindlebe zekati elijabulisayo? Yebo-ke, bathatha isimo sokumomotheka, kusho i-PetMD, "ngezihloko zezindlebe phezulu naseceleni." Futhi manje lona umbono omuhle kakhulu!

Umsila

Kungani ikati ligoba iqolo futhi umsila phezulu? Ingabe kujwayelekile? Umsila mhlawumbe iyithuluzi elithakazelisa kakhulu neliyimfihlakalo kunawo wonke ulimi lomzimba wekati. Umsila wekati ungathatha izikhundla eziningi, okuyizinkomba zemizwa ehlukahlukene. Isibonelo, lapho umsila uthatha uhlobo lombuzo noma ihhuku, kusho ukuthi isilwane sisesimweni sokwenama futhi sifuna ukudlala kancane! Umsila wecilongo ubuye usho ukuthi unobungane.

Kodwa uma ubona ukuthi umsila wekati lakho uphansi phansi (ngaphandle uma lokhu kujwayelekile kulolu hlobo oluthile, njengePheresiya), impendulo yombuzo othi "Ikati lami lizama ukungitshelani?" kuyoba “uvutha ngolaka.” Uma uboya emsila wesilwane bumi ekugcineni (okuthiwa "umsila we-Halloween"), kuzodingeka ubhekane nekati eliye lahamba. “Uma ubona uboya emsileni wekati bumile,” kusho u-VetBabble, “kusho ukuthi ithukuthele noma yethukile futhi izama ukubukeka inkulu futhi izethemba ngokwengeziwe.” Uma uzithola ukulesi simo, ochwepheshe batusa ukuthi uhlale uzolile futhi wenze konke okusemandleni akho ukuze ukhiphe isilwane sakho esimweni esicindezelayo.

Ikati elanelisekile, elijabule ligoqa umsila walo kulokho elikuthanda kakhulu, njengomlenze womnikazi walo elimthandayo noma udadewabo wekati, futhi lizisonga umsila walo ukuze lithole imfudumalo nokunethezeka.

Ngaphandle

Njengoba lincane futhi lithule njengekati lasendlini (ingxenye enkulu), liyakwazi ukwenza ukuba khona kwalo kwaziwe. Uma efuna ukunaka kwakho, uzokwenza noma yini ukuze akuthole, okuhlanganisa ukuphusha ingilazi yakho etafuleni lasekhishini noma ukugxumela ngqo kukhibhodi yakho ephathekayo. Kulezi zimo, awudingi ukuzibuza, “Ikati lami lizama ukungitshelani?” Kusobala ukuthi ufunani: ukunaka kwakho - futhi ngangokunokwenzeka.

Kodwa-ke, yizo kanye izenzo ezinjalo ezikusiza ukuthi uqonde ukuthi kwenzekani ekhanda lekati lakhe elihlakaniphile. Ngaphezu kokuzwakalisa izidingo zabo nezifiso zabo, ikati lizokwenza izindlela ezingezona zamagama ukuxhumana nomnikazi wakhe othandekayo.

Ingemuva eligobile ngemva kokulala kahle ebusuku liyingxenye yenqubo yasekuseni yekati, kodwa uma lihambisana nekhanda elilula engalweni noma emlenzeni, kuwuphawu olucacile lokuthi uboya bakho bufuna ukuchitha isikhathi esisodwa nawe, okuyinto kufanele ifake ukuphulula okuningi. . Kodwa-ke, inguqulo ene-arched back and fluffy tail, ebizwa ngokuthi "i-Halloween pose", ibonisa ukuthi ikati lithukuthele, liyesaba noma linobudlova. Isilwane esifuywayo esethuke kakhulu singaya eceleni uma sixakwe isimanga esingasifuni.

Ikati elilele phansi isisu sibheke phezulu lisebenzisa amaqhinga amabili. Ezikhathini eziningi, uthatha lesi sikhundla esisengozini ukuze abonise ukwethemba anakho kubanikazi bakhe abathandayo, akubonise ukuthi uyazi ukuthi uyazi ukuthi uyakuthanda futhi uzizwa ephephile uma enawe. Ungambona futhi enza lokhu ngenkathi edlala ngamathoyizi akhe awathandayo.

Uma sekushiwo, ikati lingase lilale ngomhlane lapho lifuna ukudlala namanye amalungu omndeni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abantu noma izilwane, ngakho-ke zilungiselele ukuphumula okubonakala sengathi ukhululekile. isilwane esifuywayo sizogxuma ngokuzumayo futhi "sihlasele" wena. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lesi sikhundla singavame ukubonakala ekati elihlala endlini namanye amakati. Futhi nakuba isimo esinjalo singakhuphuka ngokuzumayo, ngokuvamile konke lokhu akuyona into engaphezu kwengxenye yomdlalo ojabulisayo.

Ikhono lokuqonda ulimi lomzimba wesilwane lidinga ukunakwa nokubekezela, kodwa umphumela uwufanele. Ukwazi ukuthi ikati lakho lizama ukukutshela ini kuqinisekisa ukucaca okukhulu kokuxhumana kanye nesibopho esiseduze nesilwane sakho esinoboya. Ukuqonda izimpawu zakhe ezingasho lutho kuzokusiza uqaphele lapho udinga ukumnaka kakhulu nalapho efuna ukusala yedwa.