Izikhathi eziyinhloko zokuphila kwamakati

 Ikati ekukhuleni kwalo lidlula ezikhathini eziningana: ubusana, ubuntwana, ubusha, ubudala, ukuguga. Udinga ukwazi ngalokhu ukuze uqonde kangcono isilwane sakho futhi usinakekele kahle kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila.

Umntwana wekati (kufika emavikini angu-4)

Lapho izinyane lekati lizalwa, linesisindo esingamagremu ayi-100. Umntwana uzalwa eyisithulu futhi eyimpumputhe, kodwa uzwa ukufudumala kukamama futhi uzama ukukhasa eduze. Ezinsukwini ezimbili zokuqala, kubalulekile ukuthi izinyane lekati liphuze "ubisi lokuqala" (colostrum), njengoba liqukethe amasosha omzimba adingekayo. Ngisho namakati lapho esenosuku olungu-1 ubudala angakwazi ukuxubha. Ngesonto lokuqala lokuphila, izingane zilala noma zincelise ubisi. Futhi ezinsukwini ezi-1 cishe isisindo sazo siphindwe kabili. Emasontweni ayi-7, amakati aqala ukuvula amehlo futhi aqondise izindlebe zawo. Kodwa namanje ababoni kahle. Amehlo ezingane aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka futhi ashintsha umbala kamuva. Kakade lapho uneminyaka engamaviki amabili kuyasiza ukuqala ukuzihlanganisa nekati: yithathe ngokucophelela futhi ukhulume ngezwi elinothando. Emasontweni ama-2, amakati afunda ukuma ngezidladla zawo futhi akhase. Izifundo zokuqala ezizimele zezemvelo ziyaqala. Emavikini ama-3, amehlo avuleka ngokugcwele futhi amazinyo obisi avele. Umqondo wokulinganisela uyakhula, amakati adlala wodwa, ahlele izingxabano zamahlaya. Izingane ezisacathula kule minyaka zifunda ukuzikhotha. 

Ubuntwana bekati (amaviki ama-5 - 10)

Emavikini angu-5, amakati athuthukisa umuzwa wawo wokulinganisela, futhi zonke izinzwa sezivele zisebenza ngamandla aphelele. Amakati aqala ukunambitha ukudla okuqinile, amazinyo obisi ayaqhubeka nokukhula. Izingane zizama ngokugqiba imiphumela yokuphila kwazo ethreyini futhi zikhuhla izindonga nangaphansi. Emasontweni ayisi-6 umama uqala "ukulumula" inzalo, futhi emasontweni ayi-9 amakati asuke esenomsoco ozimele. Isisindo sezinyane lekati elinamasonto ayi-7 licishe liphindwe kayisi-7 kwesisindo salo sokuzalwa. Emavikini angu-7, umntwana uthola isethi egcwele yamazinyo obisi. Amakati ahlela imidlalo yokuzingela, izimpi zamahlaya futhi aqale ukusungula isigaba sabaphathi. Emasontweni ayi-10, ikati selivele lizuza ukushesha kanye nomusa wekati elikhulile, ligijima ngokuzethemba, ligxuma futhi likhuphuka.

Ubuntwana bekati (izinyanga ezi-3 - 6)

Amehlo ekati ashintsha umbala abe “omdala”, futhi sekungenzeka ukucacisa ngokucacile umbala wejazi. Amazinyo obisi athathelwa indawo ahlala unomphela. Ezinyangeni ezi-4 (ngokusho kochwepheshe abathile, ngisho nangaphambili), "ifasitela le-socialization" liyavalwa, futhi uhlamvu nobuntu bekati busungulwa. Ezinyangeni ezi-5 ama-kittens aqala ukumaka insimu, eshiya "izimpawu" ezinukayo. Ezinyangeni eziyisi-6, izimpawu zokuvuthwa ngokocansi ziyavela. Abanye bakhetha ukusivala inzalo isilwane esifuywayo kule minyaka ukuze bagweme ukuzala okungafunwa.

Ubusha bekati (7 - 12 izinyanga)

Amakati asakhula, kodwa amazinga okukhula ehla. Amakati afinyelela ekuvuthweni ngokocansi. Amakati anezinwele ezinde athola ubude obugcwele, obuhlala njalo bejazi. Ikati lizibekela isimiso esicacile, lijwayela imvelo nezinye izilwane ezifuywayo.

Ikati elidala (ngaphezulu konyaka owodwa ubudala)

Njengomthetho, ikati lihlangabezana nezinsuku zokuphila kusukela onyakeni ongu-1 kuye kwengu-9. Kodwa-ke, lolu hlelo luyisilinganiso kuphela, futhi isilwane ngasinye sifanelwe "isilinganiso" somuntu ngamunye. Uma unakekela kahle ikati futhi unempilo, uzokujabulisa ngokujabula nokusebenza iminyaka eminingi. Izimpawu zempilo yekati: amehlo ahlanzekile, acacile, ijazi elicwebezelayo, umsebenzi, ubuciko, ukukhononda. Izinga lokushisa lomzimba wekati ngokuvamile lisukela ku-38,6 - 39,2 degrees. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi inhlalakahle yengqondo yekati ayibalulekile kangako kunomzimba. Endaweni yothando futhi kungekho ukucindezeleka, ikati linamathuba amaningi okuhlala liphilile futhi liqaphile isikhathi eside. Ukuze uqonde kangcono isimo sekati, ungakwazi ukuhlobanisa iminyaka yesilwane sakho esifuywayo nomuntu. Enye yezinketho zokubala: