Izinsuku zokuqala zekati ekhaya elisha

 Ngakho-ke, wenze wonke amalungiselelo adingekayo, futhi konke sekumi ngomumo endlini ngomhlangano onesizotha womuzi omusha. Leli yiphuzu elibalulekile, futhi injabulo yakho iyaqondakala, kodwa umdlandla owedlulele kufanele "uthuliswe" kancane ukuze ungadali ukucindezeleka okwengeziwe kwekati. Phela, ngokuqinisekile, ekubeni endaweni entsha, kude nomama nabafowabo, ingane izoba novalo. Kuhle uma ezinsukwini zokuqala zekati endlini entsha ingane izoba nethuba lokufihla, uma ifunwa, endaweni ethule. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, izinyane lekati kufanele libe nokufinyelela kukho konke okudingekayo: ithreyi, umbhede, amanzi nokudla. 

Thatha isiqephu sokulala ekhaya lakho kumfuyi usibeke esofeni. Ingane izohogela iphunga elijwayelekile, futhi lokhu kuzomnika ukuzethemba nethemba.

 Cabanga kusengaphambili ukuthi yiziphi izindawo ezigcwele ingozi. Isibonelo, amakhemikhali asekhaya anobuthi avame ukugcinwa endlini yokugezela. Khawulela ukufinyelela kwekati lapho kusukela osukwini lokuqala. Okufanayo kusebenza emithethweni yehostela. Uma ngokushesha "Cha!" yeka imizamo yokugibela amakhethini, emva kwalokho ngeke kudingeke ube nezingxoxo ezinde nezikhathazayo ngalesi sihloko. Uma uhlela ukugcina ikati lakho lingaphakathi, ungalivumeli ukuthi lishelele ngaphandle. Uma unengadi ebiyelwe kahle (noma ungashiyi isilwane sakho singagadiwe lapho), ungavumela ikati lakho lizulazule lapho selijwayele indlu. Kodwa-ke, qiniseka ukuthi usebenzisa umanyolo wemvelo kuphela ukuze isilwane esifuywayo singafakwa ubuthi ngezibulala-zinambuzane noma izibulala-zinambuzane nokuthi ubuthi bamagundane bungaboli lapho. 

Abanye abanikazi babeka iwashi eliwumshini eduze kombhede wekati (kodwa hhayi iwashi le-alamu!) Ukumaka kwabo, okusikhumbuza ukushaya kwenhliziyo, kuyayithobisa ingane.

 Uma isilwane esisha, sesaba, sigibela phezulu noma sicashe endaweni yokukhosela, ungazami ukusikhipha ngenkani. Uzomenza abe novalo. Zama ukuyenga ikati ngokuphatha noma uvele ulishiye isikhashana - lapho lizolile, lizophuma lodwa. Ungagxambukeli ezinsukwini zokuqala zekati lakho ekhaya elisha, kodwa yiba khona lapho ingane yekati isinqobe amahloni ayo kanye nemizamo yokukwazi kangcono noma ukuhlola izindawo ezintsha. Njengoba ikati lakho likujwayela, ligone izingalo zakho kaningi. Kodwa hhayi ngokhololo! Yebo, unina wenza lokho kanye, kodwa awulona ikati, futhi ungalimaza ingane ngokungazi. Ikati lithathwa ngesandla esisodwa ngaphansi kwebele, okwesibili - ngaphansi kwemilenze yangemuva. Uma uqaphela ukuthi isilwane esisha sikhathazekile (sinyakazisa umsila, sisonta izindlebe noma sicindezele, sibambe isandla ngezidladla zangaphambili, sikhulule izinzipho), kungcono ukusishiya sodwa. Ezindabeni zokufuywa kwasekhaya, okuningi akuncono. Bonisa ukubekezela okuncane ezinsukwini zokuqala zekati ekhaya elisha, futhi maduze isilwane esifuywayo sizoba umngane omangalisayo nomngane wakho.