Umyalo othi “Woza kimi” ukuthi ungaziqeqesha ngokushesha kangakanani

Ingabe kungenzeka ukuqeqesha leli qembu ezinsukwini ezingu-2-3? Mhlawumbe, yebo, kungenzeka ukuqeqesha inja noma umdlwane ukugijima ngomyalo wokushaya izinsuku ezingu-2-3 endaweni ngaphandle kokucasula, lapho enesithukuthezi futhi azi ukuthi uzothola ukuphatha okuningi ngomyalo wocingo. .

Kodwa, ngeshwa, imiyalo enjalo ebonakala ilula futhi iyisisekelo kithi ivame ukuhlotshaniswa nezidingo zemvelo zezilwane ezifuywayo kanye nezithakazelo eziyisisekelo, okungukuthi, ukufundisa inja yethu ukuyeka ukudlala nezinye izilwane futhi igijime umyalo wokubiza umnikazi…

Kungani kufanele ngokuzumayo abe nesithakazelo sokuphendukela kumnikazi, lapho enabangane bakhe lapha futhi manje edlala ithegi noma i-wrestling, noma ethole igwababa elifile futhi lizama ukulishwabadela, bese umniniyo endaweni ethile ekude ememeza "Woza mina !”, negwababa selikhona, selikhona. Futhi lokhu uhlobo lwemvelo-ukuziphatha okuvamile kwesilwane esifuywayo.

Futhi uma inja yethu yahamba nathi ensimini, yathatha unogwaja futhi manje iyajaha, inomuzwa wokuzingela, inesithakazelo futhi inhle, ithola i-dopamines (i-hormone yenjabulo emangalisayo), futhi kungazelelwe umnikazi ubiza inja ngomyalo wocingo, kungani ngokuzumayo inja yethu kufanele ishiye unogwaja futhi igijimele kumnikazi?

Yiqiniso, kungenzeka ukufundisa lo myalo ukuze inja iyenze endaweni eyinkimbinkimbi, endaweni enezisusa ezinamandla, kodwa lokhu kuzodinga ukubandakanyeka kwethu. Kuzodinga ukusebenza inombolo ethile yemidlalo, uma sikhuluma ngokusebenza ngokuhambisana nendlela yokufunda esebenzayo, ngokuhambisana nokufunda ngosizo lokuqiniswa okuhle, sikhuluma ngokuthi asijezisi inja. ngenxa yokungalaleli, sikhuluma ngalokho esikunikeza inja uhlelo lonke lwemidlalo ehlukene kusukela kokulula kuya kokuyinkimbinkimbi. Lapho sifundisa inja, okokuqala: uyini umyalo wokushaya, kusho ukuthini ngokwawo. Ngokuzayo, siqala ukwenza izimo eziyinkimbinkimbi futhi sifundise inja ukuthi ikhethe umsingathi noma isikhuthazo, noma ikhethe umsingathi phambi kwesisusa. Sibe sesifundisa inja ukuthi ikwazi ukuma lapho inja igijima ibheke ku-stimus bese ibuyela kumnikazi.

Kukhona isikhathi sayo yonke into futhi, yiqiniso, ezinsukwini ezingu-2-3 ngeke sikwazi ukufundisa ngisho nenja ehlakaniphile ukubuya endaweni enzima kakhulu. Kodwa kungenzeka. Kepha kuzodinga isikhathi, imizamo, kanye nokutshalwa kwezimali kokuqeqeshwa kwethu ngokwengqondo, ukuqeqeshwa okufanele, njll.