ukuziphatha komdlwane

Kumele kufundiswe ukuziphatha okuhle

Umdlwane wakho awunalo ikhono ozalwa nalo lokuziphatha kahle. Umfuyi angaqeqeshela umdlwane endlini yangasese, kodwa ukuthi isilwane sakho esifuywayo sikhula kanjani kukuwe ngokuphelele. Imidlwane ifunda ngokushesha, ngakho-ke lapho uqala ukuqeqeshwa, kuba ngcono. Ngokulandela imithetho elula, uzoqinisa ubuhlobo bakho iminyaka ezayo.  

Njalo vuza ukuziphatha okuhle

Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho umdlwane wakho wenza okuthile okuhle, wuvuze. Izinja zabo bonke ubudala zisabela kahle emiklomelweni efana nokudumisa noma ukuphatha. Uma njalo uvuza umdlwane ngokuziphatha okuhle, uzoqhubeka ezama ukuba “umdlwane omuhle” esikhathini esizayo. Kodwa-ke, isici sesikhathi sibaluleke kakhulu lapha - umvuzo kufanele ulandele phakathi nemizuzwana embalwa ngemva kwesenzo esihle, ngaphandle kwalokho umdlwane ungase uwuhlobanise nokunye ukuziphatha.

Ukuziphatha Okubi: Xwayisa noma Unganaki?

Eqinisweni, udinga ukwenza kokubili.

Ngokwesibonelo, thatha isifiso sokuhlafuna okuthile. Yilokhu okufanele ukulindele kumdlwane wakho njengoba kuyingxenye yokuziphatha kwakhe kokuhlola. Izizathu zalesi senzo zingahluka: kusukela ekucikekeni kanye namazinyo kuya ekucindezelekeni kokuba wedwa ekhaya. Izinto eziyintandokazi imidlwane ethanda ukuzihlafuna zihlanganisa imicamelo, izicathulo, impahla ehlukahlukene (isb, imilenze yesitulo.), Kubalulekile ukuchazela umdlwane ukuthi yini engadlala ngayo nokuthi yini engeyiyo. Umdlwane awazi kwasekuzalweni ukuthi akufanele uthinte amaslippers endlu yakho.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, emasontweni ambalwa okuqala kufanele unciphise ukufinyelela kwakhe kulezo zindawo lapho engabangela khona umonakalo, ngakolunye uhlangothi, umdlwane wakho kufanele ube namathoyizi akhe ongawahlafuna. Uma edlala ngamathoyizi akhe, mdumise futhi ukhuthaze lokhu kuziphatha ngayo yonke indlela.

Kodwa kuthiwani uma eqala ukuququda lokho okungafanele akwenze? Unganaki. Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuziba ukuziphatha "okubi": ungaklami, ungajezi, ungenzi ubuso obuthukuthele. Vele wenze sengathi umdlwane wakho awukho futhi uzosheshe athole ukuthi yini engalungile.

Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele ungawunaki umthetho othi "ziba"

Kunezikhathi lapho ukuziba ukuziphatha “okubi” komdlwane wakho kuyingozi nje. Isibonelo, ungathola isilwane sakho esifuywayo sihlafuna intambo kagesi ephilayo. Akazi ukuthi kuyingozi noma "akulungile" - kufanele ukumise ngokushesha ngokuthi "cha". Ungamemezi noma ukhulume kabi—ukuthi “cha” kafushane kufanele kube ngokwanele ukuze amnake. Uma eyeka, mdumise futhi umnike ubumnandi.

Ungavumeli igxolo likuhlanyise

Uyazi ukuthi yonke imidlwane, lapho ifinyelela izinyanga ezingu-6-7, iqala ukuvikela insimu? Ngakho, yilokhu. Futhi abanikazi abangaqapheli le nkinga futhi bakhuthaze izilwane ezifuywayo ukuthi zikhonkothe ​​bazogcina benenja ekhonkotha ngawo wonke amathuba - futhi ngeke kwenzeke ukubhekana nayo kamuva.

Ngakho uma ufuna ukuphila okunokuthula, okunokuthula, ungakhuthazi inja yakho ukuba ikhonkothe. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ngeke anake izinsongo ezinzima - uzomane aziphathe ngendlela efanele isimo futhi ngeke kudingeke umtshele lutho. Futhi sicela, ungalokothi ukhuthaze ukukhonkotha okunomdlandla. Umdlwane wakho ungase ukhonkothe ​​ngenjabulo ulindele ukuhamba. Kulokhu yima ungamnaki. Ethi nje ukuma, aqhubeke nokulungiselela uhambo.