I-Personal Therapist - Cat Martin

Umhlangano wokuqala

Ngesinye isikhathi, indodakazi u-Irina yangitshela ocingweni: "Mama, ulindelwe isimanga ekhaya ..."

Lapho ngihamba ngemoto ngibuyela ekhaya, ngangilokhu ngicabanga ukuthi kungaba yini. Futhi lapho nje ngiwela umbundu, ngambona masinyane - ikati elincane elibomvu elinamehlo amakhulu aluhlaza. Futhi nxazonke - amathreyi, izitsha, amabhola ahlukene, amabhola ...

Ngikhumbula ngiphethe izinyane lekati ezingalweni zakhe, futhi u-Ira wangitshela imininingwane yempilo yakhe enzima, inyanga ende. UMartin wethu ungumsunguli. Abantu abanomusa bathatha isigaxa esinesizungu esineshwa emgwaqweni futhi basidlulisela endaweni yokukhosela amakati. Ukusuka lapho, u-Ira wathatha kitten.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, abagqugquzeli bendawo yokukhosela isikhathi eside babenesithakazelo esiphethweni sabasindisiwe, baphendula yonke imibuzo yethu, banikeza iseluleko ekunakekeleni izinyane lekati, ukujwayela itreyi, ukudlulisa kusuka kufomula yobisi kuya ekudleni okuqinile, kanye nesikhathi. wokugoma.

Lokhu kubonisana kwakungeyona into engafanele: UMartin uyikati lokuqala emndenini wethu. Lapho izingane zisencane, sasinama hamster, Guinea pig nopholi.

Ngokushesha uMartin waba intandokazi yawo wonke umuntu  

Ngokubona ikati, ngibheka emehlweni akhe, mina, ngokumangalisayo, ngangingahambisani neze nokuthi wahlala nathi. Nakuba, uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, mina ngokwami ​​ngangingeke nginqume ukuthatha lesi sinyathelo. Futhi lapha - kwabekwa ngaphambi kweqiniso!

Ngokushesha, indodakazi yayiyinkosikazi efanele yekati. Wadlala naye kakhulu, wadlala, waya kudokotela wezilwane. Ikati ligonyiwe futhi alinikiwe. Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, u-Irina wathuthela eCzech Republic. Konke ukunakekela isilwane kwawela kimi nendodana yami. Kunzima ukusho ukuthi ubani ombheka njengenkosi yakhe, emthanda kakhulu. U-Alexey uqine kakhulu kuMartin. Uma indodana ithi “Cha”, kusho ukuthi “cha”. Ikati alikuthathi ngokungathí sina njalo ukwenqatshelwa kwami. Sobabili nendodana yami sithanda ukuyinyakazisa. Uma ngiphulula ikati lapho isilwane silahlwa kuso, uLesha uyafuna lapho efuna. Ezimweni ezinjalo, u-Martin angakwazi ukukhulula izinzipho, athi “Meow” ngokwesabisa futhi abaleke.

Ikati lilula kakhulu futhi alithobekile ekunakekeleni.

UMartin kusukela ebuntwaneni wabonisa zonke izimfanelo zakhe ezinhle kakhulu. Uhlakaniphile! Ngokushesha waqala ukuya ethreyini. Futhi akukaze kube khona "ukuphuthelwa"!

Washintsha kalula ubisi obisini wafaka ukudla okomile, washeshe wajwayela iposi lokuklwebheka. Ngokuvamile, uMartin uyindoda enkulu ehlanzekile, ehlanzekile, ethanda ukuhleleka. 

Kuyiqiniso, eliheha ukunaka kwami, ikati liyakwazi ukukhuhla kusofa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokumfunza noma ukumbamba.

Imikhuba yekati okufanele ibalwe nayo 

UMartin ungu-100% wasekhaya. Ubukhulu lapho angakwazi ukufinyelela khona kuye ukufika lapho efika khona. Ukumyisa kudokotela wezilwane kuyisivivinyo sangempela kithi kanye nokucindezeleka okukhulu kwesilwane. Umemeza ukuze umnyango wonke ugijime uzobuka ukuthi senzani nekati. Ngakho-ke, lapho uhamba eholidini, sicela unakekele omakhelwane bakaMartin. Akunangqondo ukumyisa ezihlotsheni noma ehhotela lezilwane ezifuywayo.

Ikati elihlukanayo likhuthazela ngesibindi. Lapho sibuya, angabonisa ukuthi wayecasukile ... Kodwa noma kunjalo, ubonisa injabulo eyengeziwe. "Isakazeka" ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakho, iyaduma ... Futhi udinga ukuyiphulula, ukuyiphulula ... Isikhathi eside, eside kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imihlangano enjalo isivele iyisiko kithi. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi ushiye isonto, noma ushiye indlu ihora nje.

Uthule kakhulu futhi uzimele. Kufanele uzame ukuyidlala. Ngesinye isikhathi, uMartin wayengamvumeli ukuba alale ebusuku, futhi kusihlwa sazama “ukumqeqesha” kancane ukuze akhathale. Bamjikijela ngebhola. UMartin wamgijimisa kathathu, wabe eselala phansi wamlinda ukuthi aphume.

Kodwa uma isidalwa esithile esiphilayo sindiza ngefasitela - inundu, uvemvane, impukane - khona-ke ukukhalipha kwaso kuyazibonakalisa! Mhlawumbe kwakukhona abazingeli emndenini wakhe. Uma uMartin exosha othile, qaphela: konke kushanelwa endleleni!

Kodwa ikati alithandi ukudlala nezingane. Uncamela ukucasha ngaphansi kokugeza kunokuba abavumele bamdabule!

Yiziphi izinkinga owabhekana nazo lapho unakekela ikati? 

Empeleni, uMartin uyikati elingenazinkinga. Unempilo ngokwanele. Lapho eselashelwa amazeze: wageza izikhathi eziningana nge-shampoo ekhethekile. Bengizibuza ukuthi aqhamukaphi amazeze ekati elingaphumi endlini. Udokotela wezilwane uthe thina ngokwethu singaziletha ezicathulweni ...

Futhi ngandlela-thile kwakukhona ukungezwani komzimba. Ikati ladabula izindlebe nesisu. Kwadingeka ngishintshe ukudla. Kushintshwe kusukela komile kuya kwemvelo. Manje ngimphekela iphalishi ikakhulukazi, ngiyolise ngenyama noma ngenhlanzi. Ngitshala i-oats efasiteleni lami.

Ubuye abe noboya obuningi. Kufanele uwashe phansi njalo. Kodwa yena Fluffy nathi, futhi, ngenhlanhla, asisibona iguliswa!

Purring - ngenjongo yokuzijabulisa: eyakhe neyami

Ngaphambilini, ikati lalilala ngaso sonke isikhathi nami noma nendodana yami. Kodwa kuleli hlobo kungazelelwe kuma. Mhlawumbe ngenxa yokushisa. Muva nje, ngagula kakhulu, futhi ikati laphinde lafika kimi. Kubonakala sengathi wazizwa ukuthi ngimubi kangakanani, wazama ukuphulukisa ngemfudumalo yakhe.

UMartin naye unomphumela wokuzola. Uma ngiba novalo, ngikhathazeka ngokuthile, ngiligaxe ikati ezingalweni zami, ngiliphulule, bese liyaduma futhi liyaduma ... Kulokhu kuduma, izinkinga ngandlela thize ziyancibilika, bese ngithula.

Ngezinye izikhathi ngiyazibuza: ingabe uyavungama ngoba ezizwa ejabule noma ukuze ngijabule? Ngokusobala, ngemva kwakho konke, sobabili siyathola injabulo: ngiyamshaya, ngiyazisola, uyaphendula.

Iqiniso elihehayo

Amehlo kaMartin wekati ayeluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Futhi manje aphuzi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi aphenduka aluhlaza noma abe nsundu ngokukhanyayo. Kulokho okuncike, angazi. Mhlawumbe ngokushintsha kwesimo sezulu noma isimo...