ukukhonkotha okukhohlisayo

Ezinye izinja zikhonkotha kakhulu, futhi abanikazi babika ngokucasuka ukuthi izinja zizama “ukuxhaphaza” umniniyo ngale ndlela. Ingabe kunjalo? Futhi kuthiwani uma inja ikhonkotha ukuze “ilawule”?

Ingabe izinja ziyakhonkotha ukuze zilawule abanikazi bazo?

Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuchaza amagama. Izinja azikhohlisi abanikazi bazo. Bahlola kuphela ukuthi bangakuthola kanjani abakufunayo, bese besebenzisa le ndlela ngenjabulo. Ukungabi nalwazi (nokunganaki) ukuthi le ndlela isifanele yini. Uma kusebenza, kuyabafanela. Okusho ukuthi, akukhona ukukhohlisa ekuqondeni kwethu leli gama.

Futhi uma inja ifundile (okungukuthi, eqinisweni, umnikazi wayifundisa, nakuba engaboni) ukuthi ukukhonkotha kungadonsela ukunaka futhi kufinyelele lokho okufunayo, kungani isilwane kufanele senqabe indlela enjalo ephumelelayo? Kungaba okungenangqondo ngokwedlulele! Izinja ziyizidalwa ezinengqondo.

Ngakho-ke igama elithi "ukukhohlisa" kufanele lifakwe ezimpawu zokucaphuna lapha. Lokhu ukuziphatha okufundiwe, hhayi ukukhohlisa. Okusho ukuthi nguwe owafundisa inja ukukhonkotha.

Yini okufanele uyenze uma inja ikhonkotha "ikhohlisa"?

Enye indlela yokuyeka ukukhonkotha "ukukhohlisa" ukungakuvumeli kwasekuqaleni. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, qinisa ukuziphatha okufanele (isibonelo, inja yahlala phansi futhi yakubuka). Nokho, kuyasebenza uma umkhuba ungakalungiswa.

Uma inja ifunde isikhathi eside futhi iqinile ukuthi ukukhonkotha kuyindlela enhle yokuthola ukunakwa, akulula kakhulu ukungakunaki lokhu kuziphatha. Okokuqala, ukukhonkotha, ngokomthetho, kunzima kakhulu ukukushaya indiva. Okwesibili, kukhona into efana nokuqhuma kokunciphisa. Futhi ekuqaleni, ukunganaki kwakho kuzodala ukwanda kokukhonkotha. Futhi uma ungeke ukwazi ukuzibamba, vele ufundise inja ukuthi udinga nje ukuphikelela kakhudlwana - futhi umnikazi uzogcina engabi yisithulu.

Enye indlela yokulumula inja yakho ukuze ingakhonkothi kanje iwukubuka inja, uqaphele izimpawu zokuthi isizokhonkotha, futhi ulindele ukukhonkotha isikhashana, uqinisa ukunaka nezinye izinto ezijabulisa inja kunoma yikuphi ukuziphatha kwakho. njenge. Ngakho inja izoqonda ukuthi ukunaka kwakho akudingekile ukuklabalasa kulo lonke i-Ivanovo.

Ungakwazi ukufundisa inja yakho umyalo othi "Thula" futhi ngaleyo ndlela uqale unciphise isikhathi sokukhonkotha, bese unciphisa kancane kancane.

Ungasebenzisa ukuziphatha okungahambelani - isibonelo, nikeza umyalo "Phansi". Njengomthetho, kuba nzima kakhulu inja ukukhonkotha ngenkathi ilele, futhi izothula ngokushesha. Futhi ngemva kwesikhathi esithile (ekuqaleni esifushane), uzomvuza ngokunaka kwakho. Kancane kancane, isikhawu sesikhathi phakathi kokuphela kwegxolo nokunaka kwakho kuyanda. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, khumbula, awulokothi uyeke ukufundisa inja yakho ezinye izindlela zokuthola lokho ekufunayo.  

Yiqiniso, lezi zindlela zisebenza kuphela uma unikeza inja okungenani izinga elincane lenhlalakahle.