“Angikwazi ukushiya inja yami yodwa!”

Kukhona izinja ezingakwazi ukushiywa zodwa: ziyakhala, zikhonkothe, zonakalisa izinto, zidabula umnyango, zishiya amachibi nezinqwaba ... Futhi kwenzeka ukuthi umnikazi akakwazi ukushiya inja yodwa, ngisho noma izizwa iyodwa. Futhi ukushiya ikhaya, umuntu uhlushwa umuzwa wecala: kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi umngane omkhulu ahlale yedwa ...

Ingabe ubuzazi wena? Bese ufunda, mhlawumbe uzozizwa ungcono.

Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukuhlaziya ukuthi kungani ungakwazi ukubekezelela ukushiya isilwane sakho sodwa.

Ingabe ukhathazekile ngokuphepha kwempahla yakho? Khona-ke udinga ukuqonda ukuthi kungani inja yonaka izinto, futhi usebenze ngesizathu.

Ingabe uyesaba ukuthi kukhona okuzokwenzeka enjeni yakho? Khona-ke kufanele ucabange ukuthi ungaqinisekisa kanjani ukuphepha kwayo lapho ungekho. Isibonelo, vala izintambo.

Ucabanga ukuthi awunikezi inja yakho ukuxhumana nokunaka? Futhi lapha kuyadingeka ukuyeka ngokuningiliziwe.

Uma inja inezinkinga zempilo eziyisisekelo, leyo yinto eyodwa. Isibonelo, unesithukuthezi ngenxa yokuntuleka kokusebenza ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, noma impilo yesilwane esifuywayo ibikezelwa kakhulu futhi ayinakho ukuhlukahluka. Kulokhu, kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi ungasilungisa kanjani isimo futhi unikeze umngane onemilenze emine ngezimo ezidingekayo. 

Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle ngenja empilweni, okungukuthi, umuntu umnikeza inhlalakahle eyisisekelo - inkululeko engu-5, kodwa usahlupheka lapho ehamba ekhaya. Umuzwa wecala ngenxa yokuthi inja ishiywe yodwa iyisici sabanikazi abanomthwalo wemfanelo futhi abakhathazekile ngenhlalakahle yesilwane. Kodwa umuzwa wecala ezimweni ezinjalo awuthetheleleki ngokuphelele.

Izinja zilala kakhulu kunabantu. Futhi, cishe, eshiywe yedwa, umngane wakho onemilenze emine, ehamba kahle futhi egcwele okuvelayo, enethuba lokubona amandla akhe okusebenza ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, uzomane alale kahle. Ngokunokwenzeka, ngisho nokuthola impumuzo ethubeni lokuba nokuthula nokuzola.

Uma ngisho nokuqonda lokhu kungakusindisi ekuhlushweni nasekuhlazekeni, akukhona ngenja. Futhi, mhlawumbe, kufanelekile ukuxhumana nodokotela wezengqondo ukuze uqonde ukuthi yini ekuvimbela ngempela, ngisho nokwenza inja ijabule, ukujabulela ukuphila ngokwakho.