Ukuhlalisana komdlwane: ukuhlangana neminye imidlwane

Ukuhlalisana kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakamuva yenja. Kuphela uma unikeza umdlwane ngokuhlalisana okunekhono, uzokhula ephephile kwabanye futhi azethemba.

Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi isikhathi sokuhlalisana sinqunyelwe emidlwaneni eminingi kumaviki okuqala ayi-12 - 16. Okusho ukuthi, ngesikhathi esifushane, umntwana udinga ukwaziswa ngezinto eziningi. Futhi enye yezingxenye ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuhlalisana komdlwane ukuhlangana neminye imidlwane.

Ungayenza kanjani le mihlangano ukuthi isebenziseke kubo bonke abahlanganyeli? Mhlawumbe kufanele ulalele iseluleko somqeqeshi wezinja odumile emhlabeni uVictoria Stilwell.

Amathiphu ayi-6 Wokuhlangana Neminye Imidlwane Yokujabulisa Umdlwane Wakho ngu-Victoria Stilwell

1. Qinisekisa ukuthi lapho uhlangana nomunye umdlwane, imichilo yazo zombili izingane iyagoqa. Kunoma yikuphi, ungadonsi i-leash futhi ungavumeli i-leash ihlangane!
2. Idedele imidlwane ihogelane. Ngakho-ke, izinja zithola ulwazi mayelana neminyaka, ubulili kanye nesimo somzwelo "se-interlocutor".
3. Uma ama-puppies ebonakala ekhululekile futhi ejabule ngokusebenzisana ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa yokuqala, ungaphonsa ama-leashes phansi, kodwa ungawasusi ngokuphelele okwamanje. Ngemva kwesikhashana, ungakwazi ukususa leashes.
4. Buka ulimi lwemidlwane, ungajabuli ngokweqile. Ngokushesha nje lapho umdlalo uba nodlame kakhulu noma unodlame futhi okungenani oyedwa wabahlanganyeli eyeka ukuwujabulela, kufanelekile ukuphazamisa le nqubo futhi ume kancane kuze kube yilapho imidlwane izolile futhi ikwazi ukuphinde ihlanganyele ngokunethezeka nangokuphephile. Shintshela ukunaka komdlwane kuwe okwesikhashana. Ungavumeli umdlwane ukuba ube nobudlelwane obungalungile mayelana nokuxhumana nemidlalo nezihlobo.
5. Umsebenzi oyinhloko wokuxhumana komdlwane neminye imidlwane ukuthola ulwazi oluhle lokuxhumana nemidlalo neminye imidlwane, ukukhulisa ikhono “lokukhuluma” “ngolimi lwendabuko”. Ungakhohlwa lokhu umzuzwana.
6. Ngezikhathi ezithile shintsha ukunaka komdlwane kube ngokwakho, bese uwuyeka udlale futhi. Ngale ndlela ufundisa ingane yakho ukuthi noma idlala nezihlobo, kufanele iphendule ucingo lwakho, futhi lokhu akusho ukuphela kobumnandi.

Ungafunda kabanzi mayelana nokukhulisa nokuqeqesha umdlwane ngezindlela zobuntu esifundweni sethu sevidiyo “Umdlwane olalelayo ngaphandle kokuhlupheka”.