Ngathola inja futhi yashintsha impilo yami

Ukuba nesilwane esifuywayo kuhle kakhulu, futhi akumangalisi ukuthi abantu abaningi bathola imidlwane. Izinja ziyizilwane ezithembekile nezinothando ezisiza abanikazi bazo ukuba bazivocavoce, baqinise izibopho zomphakathi, futhi bathuthukise ngisho nokuzizwa kwabo. Uma, ngemva kokuthola inja, ucabange, “Hawu, inja yami yashintsha impilo yami,” yazi ukuthi awuwedwa! Nazi izindaba ezine ezivela kwabesifazane abane abamangalisayo izimpilo zabo zashintshwa unomphela ngemva kokuthatha inja.

Usizo ekunqobeni ukwesaba

Hlangana no-Kayla no-Odin

Ukusebenzisana kokuqala okungekuhle nenja kungakwenza wesabe ukuphila. Uma umuntu ehlangana nesilwane esinolaka, esingenasimilo futhi kukhona okungahambi kahle, angase abe nokwesaba nokukhathazeka okunzima ukukunqoba. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi inkinga ayinakuxazululeka.

“Lapho ngisemncane, inja yangiluma kakhulu ebusweni. Ubeyinja esekhulile futhi eyinja enhle kunazo zonke endaweni. Ngancika kuye ukuze ngimtotose, kodwa ngesizathu esithile akazange athande futhi wangiluma,” kusho uKayla. Impilo yami yonke bengilokhu ngesaba izinja. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zazingakanani, zineminyaka emingaki noma zazizalwa kanjani, ngangivele ngithuke.”

Lapho isoka likaKayla uBruce lizama ukumethula kumdlwane wakhe waseGreat Dane, wayengakhululekile. Nokho, umdlwane awuzange uvumele ukwesaba kukaKayla konakalise ubuhlobo babo ngaphambi kokuba buqale. “Njengoba umdlwane ukhula, ngaqala ukuqonda ukuthi uyayazi imikhuba yami, uyazi ukuthi ngiyesaba, uyayazi imithetho yami, kodwa usafuna ukuba umngane nami.” Wathandana nenja kaBruce, futhi ngemva konyaka wathola eyakhe umdlwane. “Impilo yami isishintshe ngokuphelele ngenxa yalokhu futhi ngicabanga ukuthi kube yisinqumo esihle kunazo zonke engake ngazenza. Umdlwane wami u-Odin manje ucishe ube neminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ukumthatha kwakuyisinqumo esihle kunazo zonke mina noBruce esake senza. Angithandi yena kuphela, kodwa zonke izinja. Ngiyiloya muntu oyinqaba epaki lezinja ozodlala futhi agone nazo zonke izinja.”

Ufuna izinto zokuzilibazisa ezintsha

Hlangana noDory kanye noChloe

Isinqumo esisodwa singashintsha impilo yakho ngezindlela obungazilindele. Lapho uDory efuna inja ekahle, wayengacabangi ukuthi izoshintsha impilo yakhe ngezindlela eziningi kangaka. “Lapho ngithatha uChloe, wayeneminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye nengxenye ubudala. Bengingazi ukuthi ukusindisa izinja ezindala kwakuwumsebenzi ophelele. Ngangifuna inja endala, ezolile,” kusho uDory. - Isinqumo sokuthola inja endala siyiguqule ngokuphelele impilo yami. Ngihlangane nomphakathi omusha wabangani kokubili ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kanye nasempilweni yangempela. Ngitshela abantu ngezinkinga zezinja ezindala ezidinga ikhaya, futhi ngisiza nezinye izilwane zithole ikhaya.”

Njengoba umnikazi wangaphambili kaChloe wayengasakwazi ukumnakekela, u-Dory waqala i-akhawunti ye-Instagram ngalokho inja eyenzayo ukuze umndeni wangaphambili ukwazi ukulandela ukuphila kwakhe, ngisho nokude. UDori uthi: “I-Instagram kaChloe yaqala ukusebenza ngokushesha, futhi ngaba matasa kakhulu ekutakuleni izinja, ikakhulukazi ezindala, lapho ngizwa ngesimo samanje. Lapho i-Instagram ka-Chloe ifinyelela abalandeli be-100, wanyusa ama- $ 000 ngohlelo oludala kakhulu noma olugulela ukufa lwezilwane - enye yezindlela eziningi izimpilo zethu eziye zashintsha ngayo. Ngagcina ngijabule kakhulu ngokwenza lokho kangangokuthi ngawuyeka umsebenzi wami wosuku njengomklami wezithombe futhi manje ngisebenza ekhaya ngakho nginesikhathi esiningi namandla alokho esikwenzayo noChloe.”

“Ukusebenza ekhaya kungivumele ukuthi ngithathe enye inja endala, uCupid. Sichitha isikhathi sethu esiningi sikhuluma ngezinselele zokuhlenga izinja ezindala, futhi ikakhulukazi sigxile enkingeni yamaChihuahua amadala ezindaweni zokukhosela, lapho ngokuvamile agcina khona lapho abanikazi bazo bengasakwazi ukuzinakekela. Ngaphambi kokuba ngibe no-Chloe, angikaze ngizizwe sengathi ngangenzela umphakathi okuningi ngendlela okufanele ngiyenze. Manje ngizwa sengathi impilo yami igcwele ngempela engingathanda - nginendlu egcwele nenhliziyo egcwele, ”kusho uDory.

Ushintsho lomsebenzi

USarah kanye no Woody

NjengoDory, uSarah waba nesithakazelo enhlalakahleni yezilwane ngemva kokuthola inja endaweni yokukhosela. “Ngesikhathi ngiyosebenza, ngavolontiya enhlanganweni yendawo yokuhlenga izilwane. Ngangingeke ngikwazi “ukuchayeka ngokweqile” (okusho ukuthi kwakufanele agcine inja isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukuze omunye umkhaya uyithole) futhi ngigcine inyoni engazalwanga, kusho uSarah, owayesenezinja ezimbili kakade eze nazo. - Ukuze

yashintsha impilo yami? Ngabona ukuthi lapho ngizibandakanya kakhulu nalezi zinja kanye nenkinga yezilwane ezingenamakhaya e-US, ngithola ukwaneliseka okwengeziwe ebuhlotsheni nezinja kanye nomsebenzi engiwenzela wona - kungcono kunanoma yimuphi umsebenzi wokumaketha. Ngakho-ke lapho ngineminyaka engu-50, ngashintsha kakhulu umsebenzi ngase ngiyofundela umsizi wezilwane ngethemba lokuthi ngelinye ilanga ngizosebenza nenhlangano kazwelonke yokuhlenga izilwane. Yebo, konke lokhu kungenxa yalesi sinqe esincane esacwila enhliziyweni yami ngemva kokuba sibuyiselwe endaweni yokukhosela ngoba sesaba ukuhlala endlini yezinyoni.

USarah okwamanje ufunda eMiller-Mott College kanye namavolontiya aneSaving Grace NC kanye neCarolina Basset Hound Rescue. Uthi: “Lapho ngibheka emuva ekuphileni kwami ​​nendawo yami kukho, ngabona ukuthi ngisondelene kakhulu nabantu abahileleke ekusindiseni nasekunakekeleni izilwane. Cishe bonke abangani engibenze kusukela ngisuka eNew York ngo-2010 abantu engihlangane nabo ngamaqembu abatakuli noma imindeni ethathe izinja engizigadile. Kungokomuntu siqu kakhulu, kuyakhuthaza kakhulu, futhi lapho ngenze isinqumo sokushiya ngokuphelele ithrekhi yebhizinisi, angikaze ngijabule ngale ndlela. Ngaya esikoleni futhi ngijabulela ukuya ekilasini. Lesi isipiliyoni esibaluleke kakhulu engake ngaba nakho.

Ngemva kweminyaka emibili, lapho ngiqeda izifundo zami, ngizoba nethuba lokuthatha izinja zami, ngiqoqe izinto zami futhi ngiye lapho izilwane zidinga usizo lwami. Futhi ngihlela ukukwenza lokhu impilo yami yonke.”

Shiya ubudlelwano obuhlukumezayo ngemuva

Hlangana noJenna kanye noDany

Ukuphila kwashintsha kakhulu kuJenna ngaphambi kokuba athole inja. “Emva konyaka ngihlukene nomyeni wami owayengihlukumeza, ngangisenezinkinga eziningi zempilo yengqondo. Ngangiphaphama phakathi kwamabili ngenxa yokwethuka, ngicabanga ukuthi usendlini yami. Ngehla ngomgwaqo, ngilokhu ngibheka phezu kwehlombe lami noma ngithuthumela ngomsindo omncane, nganginenkinga yokukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka kanye ne-PTSD. Ngaphuza imithi ngaya kumelaphi, kodwa kwakunzima ukuthi ngiye emsebenzini. Bengizicekela phansi,” kusho uJenna.

Othile wasikisela ukuba athole inja ezomsiza ajwayele ukuphila kwakhe okusha. “Ngacabanga ukuthi kwakuwumbono omubi kakhulu: angikwazanga nokuzinakekela mina.” Kodwa uJenna wathatha umdlwane ogama lakhe linguDany - ngemuva kukaDaenerys ovela ku-"Game of Thrones", nakuba, njengoba uJenna esho, uvame ukumbiza ngokuthi uDan.

Impilo yaphinde yashintsha ngokufika komdlwane emzini wakhe. “Ngayeka ukubhema ngaso leso sikhathi ngoba wayemncane futhi ngingafuni ukuthi agule,” kusho uJenna. UDany kwaba yisizathu sokuthi ngivuke ekuseni. Ukububula kwakhe lapho ecela ukuphumela ngaphandle kwaba yisizathu sami sokuvuka. Kodwa kwakungekona konke lokhu. UDan wayehlale enami nomaphi lapho ngiya khona. Kungazelelwe, ngabona ukuthi ngayeka ukuphaphama ebusuku futhi angibange ngisahamba, ngilokhu ngiqalaza. Ukuphila kwaqala ukuba ngcono.”

Izinja zinekhono elimangalisayo lokuletha izinguquko ezimpilweni zethu esingakaze siziphuphe. Lezi yizibonelo ezine zokuthi ukuba nesilwane esifuywayo kube nomthelela omkhulu kanjani empilweni yomuntu, futhi kunezindaba eziningi ezinjalo. Uke wazithola ucabanga, "Ingabe inja yami iyishintshile impilo yami?" Uma kunjalo, khumbula nje ukuthi nawe wenze umehluko omkhulu empilweni yakhe. Nobabili nithole umndeni wenu wangempela!