Inja yenza konke ngaphandle kokuziphindiselela

Sifunda kabanzi mayelana nokuziphatha kwezinja. Futhi abangani bethu abanemilenze emine babonakala bemangalisa kakhulu kithi. Kodwa, ngeshwa, akubona bonke abanikazi bezinja abafuna ukufunda ukuqonda izilwane ezifuywayo. Futhi babanjwe ukukhohlisa okuyingozi nokuyingozi. Enye yalezi zinganekwane ezisabisayo ukuthi inja yenza okuthile “ngokungahloniphi” kanye “nokuziphindiselela”.

Esikhathini sethu, lapho kunokwaziswa okuningi okutholakalayo, imibono eyiphutha enjalo ayinakuthethelelwa. Inja ayilokothi yenze noma yini ngenxa yonya futhi ayiziphindiseleli. Ukunikeza izisusa ezinjalo kuye kuwukubonakaliswa okucacile kwe-anthropomorphism kanye nobufakazi bokungakwazi ukufunda nokubhala.

Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi izinja ziziphatha “kubi”.

Kungani inja iziphatha “kubi” uma ingakwenzi ngonya futhi ingaziphindiseli?

Konke ukuziphatha “okubi” kunesizathu. Kunezizathu eziyisi-6 ezingenzeka.

1. Inja ayizizwa kahle. Yilapho ukungcola, ulaka, ukungafuni ukulalela (isibonelo, ukushintsha ukuma lapho ufundisa inkimbinkimbi) nezinye izinkinga. Into yokuqala yokuhlola ukuthi inja iziphatha “kubi” (isibonelo, yenza i-puddle endaweni engafanele) yisimo sayo sempilo.
2. Ukuxhumana okunganele. Kusukela lapha kukhula izimpande zokwesaba umgwaqo, ubudlova obubhekiswe kwezinye izilwane nabantu kanye nezinye izinkinga.
3. Inja yaba nokuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle (ngokwesibonelo, yayithuke kakhulu). Kungase futhi kube imbangela yobudlova, ukwesaba nokunye ukubonakaliswa kokuziphatha "okubi".
4. Awuzange ufundise inja yakho indlela yokuziphatha kahle. Kukangaki betshela izwe ukuthi inja ayizalwa inolwazi lwesethi yemithetho yabantu, futhi abanye abanikazi abakwazi ukuqonda lokhu nganoma iyiphi indlela. Futhi bamangala kakhulu lapho bebhekene nezinkinga. Izilwane ezifuywayo zidinga ukufundiswa ukuziphatha okufanele.
5. Wena, ngokuphambene nalokho, ufundise umngane wakho onemilenze emine - kodwa hhayi lokho okuhlelile. Okusho ukuthi, ngaphandle kokuqaphela, baqinise ukuziphatha "okubi".
6. Inja ihlala ngaphansi kwezimo ezingafaneleki kuyo. Inja ephila ngaphansi kwezimo ezingavamile ayikwazi ukuziphatha ngendlela evamile - lena i-axiom. Futhi kulokhu, udinga ukuqinisekisa okungenani izinga elincane lenhlalakahle - inkululeko engu-5.

Njengoba ubona, azikho izimbangela zokuziphatha kwenja “okubi” okubangelwa ukuziphindiselela noma iqiniso lokuthi isilwane senza okuthile ngaphandle kwesizathu. Futhi uma umngane wakho onemilenze emine eziphatha “kubi”, umsebenzi wakho ukuthola imbangela futhi uyiqede. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukukwenza ngokwakho, ungakwazi njalo ukusebenzisa izinsizakalo zochwepheshe.