Ungalifundisa kanjani ikati lakho imikhuba emihle

 Kunenganekwane yokuthi amakati awaqeqesheki futhi enza lokho akufunayo kuphela “lapha futhi manje.” Nokho, ukubekezela nokubekezela kuvumela, isibonelo, ukugxilisa imikhuba emihle ekatini: sebenzisa ithreyi esikhundleni sezicathulo zakho njengendlu yangasese, lola izinzipho zakho endaweni eklwebhayo, hhayi kusofa, ngisho nokuhamba ngehhanisi.

 Naphezu kokuzimela kwangaphandle, amakati asekhaya, njengomthetho, asaqondiswa umbono wabanikazi futhi alungele ukuphatha uhlelo oluyisisekelo. Into esemqoka akuyona "ukuphula" ikati, kodwa ukusebenzisa ukuthambekela kwayo kwemvelo. Isibonelo, ilukuluku lizokuvumela ukuthi ufundise isilwane sakho ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani okuthunyelwe okuklwebhayo. Ungakwazi ukugijima izinzipho zakho phezu kwale nto emangalisayo izikhathi eziningana - phambi kwesilwane sakho esifuywayo. I-kitten ngokuqinisekile izoba nesithakazelo emsindweni wokunwaya, ingase iphinde ukunyakaza kwakho futhi ithole ukuthi okuthunyelwe kokuklama, ngokuvamile, akukubi neze njengoba kungase kubonakale ekuqaleni.

Esithombeni: ikati eliklwebha okuthunyelwe Ukuze uvuse isithakazelo esikhulu nakakhulu, ungaphatha okuthunyelwe okuklwebhayo ngokuthile okukhangayo, njenge-catnip. Ungaphinda ukwelashwa ezinsukwini ezimbalwa. Elinye lamaphutha amakhulu ukuthatha ikati ngezidladla bese uzama "ukufundisa" iposi lokunwaya ngamandla. Impoqo yinto amakati azonda ngayo yonke inhliziyo yawo. Ikati lizocasuka, futhi kuyoba nzima kakhulu kuwe ukunqoba ukunengeka kwayo ngale ndaba. Ungakwazi ukujwayela ikati ihhanisi elifanele ngobukhulu. Baqale bawufake isikhashana ukuze omfishane ajwayele. Khona-ke ungaqala ukuhamba ngentambo - okokuqala uzungeze indlu, bese uphuma kafushane egcekeni. Into yakho eyinhloko ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuqinisekisa ukuphepha komngane onemilenze emine.

Kungcono ukuqala ukuqeqesha i-kitten kusukela esemncane, ngokushesha nje lapho evele ekhaya lakho.

 Amakati angabuye afundiswe amaqhinga ahlekisayo. Bheka imikhuba yesilwane sakho esifuywayo. Uma ikati lakho lithanda ukugxuma, ungalifundisa ukuthi ligxume ehlombe lakho noma ligxume phezu kwezithiyo ezincane. Uma i-purr ithanda ukuthwala amathoyizi emlonyeni wayo, ungafunda ukulanda. Kunamakati athanda ukusukuma ngemilenze yangemuva. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi ngeke ufundise isilwane sakho noma yini ngenkani. Khumbula ukuthi amakati akhathala ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, amakilasi kufanele abe mfushane (imizuzu embalwa), futhi isenzo esisodwa akufanele siphindwe izikhathi ezingaphezu kuka-2 - 3. Ukudumisa, ukuphatha noma ukuthandwa kungasebenza njengomvuzo - konke kuncike ekuthandweni kwekati. Khumbula ukuthi udinga ukukhuthaza ngaso leso sikhathi lapho enze isenzo esifanele. Thatha isinyathelo ngezigaba, ungafuni konke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Insiza yakho enkulu ukubekezela, gcina kukho.

 Uma ikati lenza into engcolile (ngokombono wakho), ungaliphazamisa ngokunikeza ukwelapha. Noma uthi cha ngokuqinile. Umsindo omfushane obukhali awujabulisi neze kumakati. Kodwa udinga ukulungisa izinyane lekati ngaso leso sikhathi lapho “lenza ubugebengu.” Ngoba noma ngabe kudlula imizuzwana emibili ngemuva kwesenzo esingafuneki, ngeke esaqonda ukuthi yini ngempela ongajabule ngayo.

Ukumemeza kakhulu, inhlamba, nokujezisa ngokomzimba kufanele kube yinto engafaneleki ngokuphelele.

 Amakati azwela kakhulu, futhi ukwenza lokhu ohlangothini lwakho kuzowenza esaba noma athukuthele. Uma ikati lisaba umnikazi, lihlale linokungabaza. Futhi lapho esele yedwa, uvele aphoqeleke ukuthi anyakaze njengoba ephuma, okuhlanganisa ukunwaya izinto noma ukukhipha esinyeni sakhe. Ikati alilokothi liziphindiselele kumuntu nganoma yini. Uma uvame ukusola isilwane sakho ngento efana nalena, kusho ukuthi sibhekene nokungakhululeki okukhulu futhi ngaleyo ndlela sikubonise ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle.