Inja nengane: imithetho yokuphila

 Noma ubani onenhlanhla yokukhula nenja uzovuma ukuthi kuhle lokhu. Unomngane othembekile nohambisana nemidlalo, umngane wokuhamba ngezinyawo kanye nomuntu omethembayo. Futhi abambalwa bazophikisana neqiniso lokuthi ukuxhumana phakathi kwengane nenja kufanele, okokuqala, kuphephe. Kulokhu kuphela kuzoletha injabulo kubo bonke ababambiqhaza. Kusemandleni akho ukwenza konke ongakwenza ukuze izingane kanye nesilwane esifuywayo babe abangane abangenakuhlukaniswa.

Indlela yokukhetha inja yomndeni onabantwana

Kubalulekile ukuthi inja ihambisane nendlela yakho yokuphila. Uma uzonda isithukuthezi, thola inja esebenzayo. Kodwa umngane onemilenze emine cishe ngeke akwenze umsubathi uma wena nomndeni wakho nithanda ngaphezu kwanoma yini ukuchitha isikhathi niphambi kwe-TV. Inja kufanele ikwazi ukubekezelela ukungakhululeki okuthile ekukhulumeni nezingane, ngokuthula ibone umsindo futhi ikwazi ukuthethelela. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ukwazi ukwehlisa umoya ngokushesha futhi uzilawule. Futhi-ke, inja "yengane" kufanele ithande abantu. 

Uma uthola umdlwane, khetha ohamba uqonde kuwe, kodwa ongalumi noma wenze ngobudlova kakhulu.

 Ungathatha futhi inja endala, kodwa kuphela uma wazi isikhathi sakhe esidlule futhi uqiniseka ukuthi wayehlala nezingane futhi uyabathanda. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi inja, okokuqala, umsebenzi. U-Lassie, ozikhulisayo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo engenasizotha ngokuphelele, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo angakusindisa ezindlekweni zomzanyana, utholakala kuphela kumafilimu. Futhi impilo, maye, ikude nezimo zaseHollywood.

Uyithola nini inja emndenini onabantwana

Kungcono ukulinda kuze kube yilapho ingane ineminyaka engu-4 noma engu-5 ubudala. Izingane ezincane zithatha ngamawala futhi azikwazi ukuziphatha kahle nenja. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukukhulisa isilwane esifuywayo kungafaniswa nokukhulisa enye ingane. Ingabe usukulungele ukuba namawele? 

Inja emndenini onabantwana: izinyathelo zokuphepha

1. Ungalokothi (ungalokothi!) ushiye inja yakho yodwa nengane encane. Ngisho nesilwane esifuywayo esithembeke kakhulu sizomelana uma ingane inquma ukukala ukujula kwendlebe yenja ngepensela. Gcina unoboya nengane emehlweni noma uzihlukanise ngokomzimba.
2. Landelela isimo senja yakho futhi ufundise ingane yakho ukuqonda "ulimi lomzimba" wesilwane. Inja ihlale ixwayisa ngokuthi ayikhululekile. Uma eseqede zonke izimpawu ezitholakalayo, okusele ukubhodla noma ukuluma. Ungalindeli ukuthi isilwane sakho sibekezelele izinto obungeke uzenze. Ngisho noma kwenzeka, kungcono ukuphepha.
3. Uma inja ifuna ukubalekela ingane, mnike ithuba. Nikeza uboya bakho indawo ephephile.
4. Vimbela izingane ukuthi ziphazamise isilwane lapho zidla futhi zilele.
5. Fundisa ingane yakho ngesibonelo. Ungayiphathi kabi inja futhi ungayivumeli ingane ukuthi ishaye umngane onemilenze emine, igcone noma nganoma iyiphi enye indlela ecasulayo.
6. Yabelana ngemithwalo yemfanelo yokunakekela isilwane esifuywayo nezingane zakho. Ungenza ishejuli - ukuze ucacise. Ngisho nezingane ezincane zingasiza ukuphakela inja noma ukugcwalisa indishi ngamanzi. Futhi ingane endala ingabamba iqhaza ekuqeqesheni umngane onemilenze emine - isibonelo, imfundise amaqhinga ahlekisayo.