Ingabe izinja zingathanda?

Lo mbuzo ungase ubonakale uyinqaba, ngisho nakubathandi bezinja abayiziphukuphuku. Kodwa-ke, ake sithole ukuthi izinto zimi kanjani ngokombono webhayoloji nangokwengqondo. Ngakho-ke, ingabe izinja zingathanda ngokujwayelekile futhi abanikazi ikakhulukazi?

Ososayensi sebevele bathola ukuthi ukwakheka kwesimiso sezinzwa zazo zonke izilwane ezincelisayo kufana kakhulu, kucishe kufane. Futhi imizwelo eyisisekelo etholakala kubantu nayo itholwa izilwane. Lena imizwa efana nenjabulo, ukumangala, ukudabuka, intukuthelo, ukunengeka, ukwesaba. Futhi eminye imizwelo ababa nayo inamandla kunathi.

Umehluko phakathi kwethu uphambi kwenkulumo, okungukuthi, uhlelo lwezimpawu lwesibili. Ngenxa yakhe, siyakwazi ukuqonda imizwa futhi siyihlole. Izilwane azikwazi lokhu.

Kodwa-ke, kuye kwafakazelwa ukuthi phambi kwesidalwa isilwane esizizwa kahle kuso (futhi isidalwa esinjalo singaba umuntu, yebo), sithola imizwa enamandla emihle. Futhi uma singekho isidalwa esinjalo, banegetive.

Nokho, maqondana nezilwane, igama elithi “uthando” lisasetshenziswa kaningi, hhayi uthando. Futhi yini okunamathiselwe, ukuthi kulinganiswa kanjani nokuthi kwenzekani, sesibhale kakade.

Noma kunjalo, uma sicabangela ukuthi uthando luyinjabulo yokukhulumisana, singasho ngokuphepha ukuthi izinja ziyakwazi ukuthanda. Futhi basibonisa ngazo zonke izindlela.