Ikati lihlasela umnikazi: yini okufanele uyenze?

Izigidi zabantu zigcina amakati ekhaya - lezi zilwane ezifuywayo ezinomsila obukeka ziletha injabulo nenjabulo kuphela. Kodwa-ke, indawo ene-purr enomsila ingase ingabi mnandi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ikakhulukazi uma amakati ehlasela abanikazi bawo. Njengoba kunikezwe ukuthi ama-mustachioed-striped ahlome ngezinzipho namazinyo, ukuxabana okunjalo kubangela ukungakhululeki okukhulu. 

Ake sibhale izimpawu eziyinhloko zokuthi kungani isilwane esifuywayo singazingela imilenze nezingalo zakho futhi sigxume sizungeze ekhoneni ngezinzipho zaso ziye phambili.

• Ukukhokha

Lesi isizathu esivame kakhulu sentshisekelo yekati kuwe. Amakati angase aswele ukunakwa, umsebenzi womzimba kanye nemidlalo ejabulisayo. Ukulungiswa kwalokhu kulula kakhulu: qala ukunaka kakhulu i-ponytail, futhi ukuhlaselwa cishe kuzoyeka ngokushesha.

• Ukucindezeleka

Njengoba nje singakwazi ukuklabalasa futhi sibambe othile ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka, amakati angaziphatha ngendlela engafanele futhi ejabule uma kukhona okubakhathazayo. Mhlawumbe usanda kuthutha, waya kudokotela wezilwane, wavakashela, wageza noma wamane wahlela kabusha ifenisha.

Kubalulekile ukunaka kakhulu isilwane esifuywayo, ukusiphulula kaningi, ukusiphulula futhi usiphathe ngokudla okulula okunempilo. Kodwa ungaphoqeleli inkampani yakho ngemilenze emine: uma ikati lifuna ukuba yedwa, makube njalo. Yehlisa umoya usezoqala ukukuphulula.

• Umzwelo wemvelo wokuzingela

Abameleli bomndeni wamakati bayizilwane ezidla ezinye ngokwemvelo. Ngakho-ke, akumangazi ukuthi banomqondo wemvelo wokuzingela othuthuke kakhulu. Kodwa uma amakati edolobhana ezulazula ngokukhululekile emgwaqeni futhi eqaphela lo mkhuba ezinyonini namagundane, khona-ke izihlobo zawo ezifuywayo ziyalincishwa ithuba elinjalo.

Ngokushesha noma kamuva, ikati lizoqala ukuhlasela imilenze yomnikazi idlula, okuyinto umuntu angeke ayithande nakanjani. Kodwa kunendlela eyodwa kuphela yokuphuma: ukulungisa ukuziphatha kwesilwane ukuze imilenze eklwetshiwe nezingubo ezilimele zingabi yinto evamile. Vumela ikati libone imvelo yalo ngamathoyizi, futhi ulisize ngalokhu.

• Ulaka

Umuzwa onjalo onamandla ngeke uvele ekuqaleni. Uma ilungu lomndeni wakho elinemilenze emine like lahlala emgwaqweni noma emndenini ongasebenzi kahle, kungenzeka lihlangabezane nesiyaluyalu esikhulu kanye nonya oluvela kwabanye noma abantu. Ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kubangela amakati abe nolaka ukuze azivikele.

Kuyadingeka ukusebenzisana ne-psyche yesilwane futhi ufune usizo ku-zoopsychologist. Noma vele ubonise isineke, ubonise ku-purr ukuthi uhlala endaweni ephephile lapho ethandwa khona kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, inhliziyo yakhe enonya ngokuqinisekile izothamba.

Ulaka lungaqondiswa kabusha. Yilapho ikati, lithi, libone elinye ikati efasiteleni elingena endaweni yalo. Isilwane esifuywayo siqala ukucasuka futhi sihayize. Uzobe useduze ngalesi sikhathi futhi uwe ngaphansi kwesidladla esishisayo: i-barbel nakanjani izokhipha ulaka lwakhe kuwe.

• Izifo

Uma uzama ukufuya noma ukucosha ikati bese liqala ukukhala, lihayize, lilume futhi lizinwaye kabuhlungu, lokhu kungase kube uphawu lokugula. Sizwa ubuhlungu, isilwane sizama ukuzivikela ekuthinteni kwakho ukuze singabi nakakhulu. Esikhathini esizayo, ikati lingase lihlasele, ngisho nalapho udlula nje. Wenza lokhu ukuze akwazise kusengaphambili: kungcono ukungasondeli kuye.

Ungacasulwa yiwadi yakho futhi ungamphenduli ngokuphindisela. Myise emtholampilo ngokushesha! Mababheke ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle yini ngempilo yemilenze emine.

Qaphela: uma ngesikhathi sokuziphatha okunolaka ikati lesaba ukukhanya futhi lihlahle amathe, lingase libe ngumthwali wamarabi. Isilwane esifuywayo sidinga ukuhlukaniswa ngokushesha futhi uchwepheshe abizelwe endlini. Futhi noma kunjalo ungavumeli ikati elinjalo likulume. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, phakathi kwezinsuku eziyi-14 (noma okungcono ngokushesha), thintana nomnyango wokuhlukumezeka ukuze uthole umgomo.

• Ukuzivikela

Uma kuyisiko emndenini wakho ukubamba ikati futhi ulibambe ngenkani, ukwephula indawo yalo yomuntu siqu, ukulikhahlela lapho lingena ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakho futhi wenze okunye ukunyakaza okubukhali nokungathandeki kwesilwane esifuywayo - ukuhlaselwa kungaba ngenxa yokuzivikela.

Ungalithinti ikati uma lilele, liphumula, lidla, noma lenza ezinye izinto. Lapho ilungu lomndeni wakho elinomsila lifuna ukuxhumana, lizoza kuwe. Kodwa cishe akekho ofuna ukusondela kubanikazi abanobubi nabangenanhlonipho.

• Ukuchichima kwemizwa

Amakati adlalayo angadlala futhi akhohlwe kangangokuthi aqala ukuluma nokunwaya umnikazi. Amanye ama-purrs awakwazi ukubala amandla futhi angaluma kabuhlungu - hhayi ngenxa yobubi, kunjalo.

• Inkumbulo Yesijeziso

Amakati ahlala ezindaweni ezingenampilo aba yingozi futhi abe nodlame. Isibonelo, umnikazi angashaya isilwane nganoma yiliphi ithuba. Ekuqaleni, ikati lizozama ukubalekela ukuhlaselwa komuntu futhi lifihle. Kepha uMurka osekhoneni ngeke abubekezelele udlame, kodwa uzokwenza konke ukuzivikela. Zonke izikhali zakhe zizosetshenziswa, futhi ngeke neze aziyeke.

• ukuphulula ngokweqile

Isimo siphambene nesedlule: umnikazi uthanda ikati lakhe kangangokuthi ulungele ukukhuluma naye amahora, ukushaya futhi amgone. Ububele obudlulele bungamane bumkhathaze omfishane, khona-ke ngeke angabaze ukushaya ubuso bakhe izikhathi ezimbalwa ngezidladla zakhe futhi aze alume ikhala noma umunwe, ukuze nje alulame kancane othandweni oluncisha umoya.

• Ama-hormone

Ukuhlaselwa kolaka kungaba sezilwaneni ezingathenwa. Ukuqhuma kwama-Hormonal ngezinye izikhathi kwenza amakati angalawuleki futhi angalindeleki, futhi ukuhlaselwa komnikazi kuleli cala kuyinto evamile.

Ngokusekelwe kuzizathu, izindlela zokubhekana nokuziphatha okunolaka kwesilwane esifuywayo ziyacaca. Kodwa ake sikufingqe:

1. Thenga amathoyizi ahlukahlukene ekati lakho ukuze lingadinwa futhi lithole indawo yokuphuma yezifiso zalo zokuzingela.

2. Nikeza isilwane sakho isikhathi esanele, ngoba amakati ahlupheka kakhulu ngenxa yokunganakwa komnikazi.

3. Thatha ikati lakho uye kudokotela wezilwane njalo ukuze lihlolwe, futhi uma kukhona ukuziphatha okungajwayelekile, bhalisela emtholampilo ngokushesha.

4. Ukwehliswa kwamahomoni kungaqedwa etafuleni lokusebenza kudokotela wezilwane.

5. Izinkinga zengqondo nokucindezeleka kungabhekwana nakho ngosizo lwe-zoopsychologist.

6. Ungalithinti ikati uma lingekho esimweni sothando nokuxhumana. Amakati ayizilwane ezinhlanhlathayo nezizimele, azithandi ukuthweswa icala.

7. Lungisa ukuziphatha kwekati noma lilincane. Ungamvumeli umntwana alume izandla zabantu, azinwaye azilahle ngezinyawo, kungenjalo uzokhula aqhubeke nokwenza lokhu.

8. Hlonipha futhi uthande ikati, uliphathe ngomusa, khona-ke ngeke libe nezizathu zobudlova nokuzivikela.

Ungazama ukubhekana nokuziphatha okungafunwa kwekati uwedwa, kodwa uma kungasebenzi, qiniseka ukuthi ufuna usizo kuchwepheshe.