Abesifazane abanehhashi baphila iminyaka engu-15 ngaphezu kwalabo abangenawo.

Ukuba nesilwane esifuywayo kuhlala kujabulisa. Ucwaningo oluningi lubonisa ukuthi abantu abadala abanesilwane esifuywayo bazizwa bengcono. Kuvele ukuthi ukuxhumana nehhashi nakho kungaba yinzuzo.

Ukuhlolwa kwenziwa eNyakatho Virginia, Western North Carolina naseNyakatho Florida. Abacwaningi sebelandele abesifazane asebenamahhashi amashumi eminyaka ukuthola ukuthi ukusebenzisana nehhashi kuyithinta kanjani impilo yomnikazi wawo. 

Kuvele ukuthi abanikazi balezi zilwane baphila iminyaka engu-15 isikhathi eside kunabesifazane abangenawo amahhashi. Amahhashi alungele impilo yakho.

Imiphumela yayimangalisa. Abacwaningi basebenzise indlela eyi-double blind lapho abesifazane babehlukaniswa ngamaqembu amabili. Abahloli sebeneminyaka engu-40 bebuka ukuthi ukuxhumana namahhashi kuyithinta kanjani impilo yabesifazane. Ekupheleni kocwaningo, kwatholakala amaqiniso amangalisayo. Abesifazane ababenamahhashi baphila iminyaka engu-15 ngaphezulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umphumela wawungaxhomeki ngeminyaka nobuzwe. Abahloli baze bathola idatha evela emazweni angu-50 ukuze baqiniseke ukuthi imiphumela yabo inembile. Kuvele ukuthi ukuba nehhashi kungaba yinzuzo kakhulu empilweni yakho.

Abanye besifazane bebenamahhashi iminyaka embalwa kuphela, futhi abacwaningi banquma ukucacisa ukuthi yini ngempela ebaluleke “njengokuba nehhashi.” Owesifazane wayebhekwa njengomnikazi wehhashi kuphela uma ephethe ihhashi iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-5. E-Spain, abesifazane baphila isikhathi eside ngo-16,5% uma benehhashi. Kwabesifazane baseMelika, umehluko wesikhathi sokuphila wawucishe ube ngu-14,7%.

Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?

Nakuba ososayensi babazi ukuthi ukuba nehhashi kuyinzuzo empilweni, babengaqiniseki ukuthi kungani. Siyethemba ukuthi odokotela, ongoti bengqondo nongoti bebhayoloji bazoqhubeka nocwaningo lwabo ukuze bathole ukuthi kungani lokhu kwenzeka.

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Kunemibono eminingana yokuthi kungani amahhashi enethonya elihle kangaka kithi.

Uma unehhashi, uba nethuba lokuba ngaphandle njalo. Ungaqeqesha ihhashi lakho futhi uhlanganyele nabanye abanikazi bamahhashi. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi abesifazane abanamahhashi ayemancane amathuba okuba bahlaselwe isifo senhliziyo, umfutho wegazi ophakeme, noma isifo sikashukela. Noma yimuphi umnikazi wehhashi uzokutshela ukuthi lezi zilwane zibenza bajabule.

Abahloli abakwazi ukunquma ukuthi kungani imiphumela yocwaningo ihlaba umxhwele kangaka. Isizathu cishe siyinhlanganisela yezici eziningana. Ukuzivocavoca okwengeziwe, ukuzijabulisa, kanye nokuba ngaphandle kungezinye zezizathu ezimbalwa zokuthi kungani ukuba nehhashi kunenzuzo.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siyini isizathu, ucwaningo luwubufakazi obengeziwe bokuthi kuhle kangakanani ukuba nesilwane esifuywayo.

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