Kungani inja ikhala: izizathu, ekhaya, egcekeni, enyangeni, izimpawu

Izizathu eziyinhloko

Uma isilwane sakho sikhala ngokuzumayo ngaphandle kwesizathu, akufanele ulinde usizi olungenakugwenywa bese ugijimela kukhompyutha ukuze ubheke ku-inthanethi ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwenkathazo okufanele lwenzeke. Ngisho nasekukhaleni kwenja okuhlasimulisa umzimba, umuntu akufanele abheke incazelo “yamanye amazwe”. Ezikhathini eziningi, "ukucula" kwesilwane sakho esifuywayo kungenxa yezizathu eziqondakalayo ezingahlangene nemfihlakalo. Kodwa ziyini lezi zizathu? Nalu uhlu olufushane lweziyinhloko.

• Inja iqala ukukhala uma ihlushwa izidingo zemvelo. Ngokwesibonelo, umnikazi wamshiya yedwa isikhathi eside, futhi ufuna ukudla noma ukuya endlini yangasese. Noma inja ikhala futhi ikhala, iphunga iphakethe, ngaleyo ndlela ibonisa ukuthi ifuna ukujoyina izihlobo zayo. Eqhutshwa umzwelo wothando, usabela ngendlela efanayo nenja eshisayo.
• Isilwane esifuywayo sinamathele ngokuqinile kumnikazi waso, siyamkhumbula lapho engekho, okuvusa ukuziphatha okungathandeki. Ezinye izinja ezimweni ezinjalo ziqala ukunwaya umnyango noma ukuququda ifenisha. Kukhona abazwakalisa ukulangazelela ngomsindo omude wokulila.
• Izinja eziningi ziyakhala, ngisho nalapho abanikazi besekhaya, kodwa azinaki ngokwanele izilwane ezifuywayo. Okokuqala, lokhu kusebenza ezilwaneni ezinobungane, ezizikhumbuza ngale ndlela.
• Inja ayiyena umuntu, futhi uma iphatheke kabi, ayikwazi ukusho ngayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho nomnikazi onothando kakhulu akaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ngokushesha ukuthi isilwane sakhe siyagula. Umngane onemilenze emine akanakukhetha ngaphandle kokuheha ukunaka ngokuhhewula.
• Izinja zasegcekeni zivame ukuhlala phezu kweketango, kodwa futhi zifuna ukudlala nokudlala. Ukukhala kuyindlela yokudlulisa lokho okufunayo kumnikazi ohlakaniphile.
• Ukuhewula kuvame ukuba yindlela yokuxhumana. Ngezinja zakhe zixhumana nezinye izinja emapulazini azo noma angomakhelwane.
• Ngezinye izikhathi “umuzwa wemvelo wokucula” uvusa abafowethu abancane njengokubonakaliswa kwenjabulo. Ihlangana nomnikazi, inja imbingelela ngokuhhewula nangeminye imisindo.
• Ngokuvamile umthombo "wokuphefumulelwa" yinyanga egcwele, ngoba i-satellite yethu ayithinti abantu kuphela, kodwa futhi nezilwane ezifuywayo. Ihewula ngaye, ngaleyo ndlela inja isabela ekuqwaleni, ecasulwe umzimba okhanyayo wasezulwini. Ukuntuleka kokuphumula okufanele nakho kungabangela ulaka kuye.
• Inja ekhalayo ingaveza ukunganeliseki ngesimo esithile. Ake sithi akathandi ukugezwa, ukusikwa, ukuxutshwa noma ukubhandishwa. Ukwehluleka ukwamukela lezi zinqubo kuvame ukuvusa “ingoma” kangangokuthi kulula kumnikazi noma udokotela wezilwane ukuzihlehlisa kunokulalela nokubekezela.
• Izinja eziningi zikhalela umculo. Ziyakwazi ukuzwa ngokwemvelo, ebangeni lakho eliseduze nokomuntu. Bangakwazi nokuhlukanisa amanothi (umehluko ungaba ngu-1/8 wethoni). Kukholelwa ukuthi ku-cortex ye-cerebral yenja kukhona isikhungo sombono womculo, ofana nomuntu, ngenxa yokuthi akagcini nje ngokulalela, kodwa futhi uyayihlola ngokuvumelana "nokunambitha" kwayo. Ngokuvamile, ukukhetha kwezinja kuwela kuma-classics, kodwa uma ungathandi uhlobo oluthile lomculo, khona-ke umthandi womculo onemilenze emine uyasuka emthonjeni womsindo.

Ngokwehlukana, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi izinja zingakhala, zilindele izinkinga. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akukho mfihlakalo lapha. Abafowethu abancane ngokwemvelo baye bakhulisa ukuqonda nengqondo (ngokwesibonelo, umuzwa ofanayo wokuhogela), okubavumela ukuba babone ingozi ngaphambi kokuba abanikazi banake usongo. Ngokuhewula kwayo, inja ifuna ukuxwayisa abathandekayo; ngoba, lolu uhlobo lwesignali ye-SOS.

Qaphela: uma isilwane sakho sinesimo esizolile futhi sinesimiso sezinzwa esiqinile, khona-ke uma sizokhala, kuyivelakancane kakhulu.

Izimpawu ezihambisana nezinja eziklewulayo

Izinkolelo-ze eziningi zihlotshaniswa nokukhala kwenja, eqinisweni okukholelwa ngisho nabantu abakude nemfihlakalo. Bonke, njengomthetho, banomqondo ongemuhle. Njengoba zihlakulelwe amakhulu eminyaka, zisebenza ezingeni lokungazi lutho, zisibekela izwi lokucabanga. Ngakho-ke, amahemuhemu athandwayo azichaza kanjani izizathu zokukhala okudabukisayo kwenja?

Uma isilwane sakho esifuywayo sihlala singanyakazi futhi siklewula ikhanda laso lijikijelwe emuva, khona-ke lokhu kuthathwa njengesandulela somlilo. Kwenzeka ukuthi inja yenza "i-serenade" yayo ngekhanda layo lehliselwe phansi: kulokhu, amashwa abulalayo alindele. Abantu bethuka kakhulu uma naye emba umhlabathi: kusho ukuthi ukufa komuntu kuseduze kakhulu.

Imvamisa ukunakwa kuphinde kukhokhwe ngakuluphi uhlangothi, kwesobunxele noma kwesokudla, ikhanda lenja libheke lapho ikhala. Lokhu kusebenza njengesignali yokuthi inkinga kufanele ilindelwe kusukela kule ndlela. Abantu abanezinkolelo-ze bayethuka lapho, ngesikhathi esifanayo nokucula, inja inikina ikhanda. Lokhu, ngokwenkolelo evamile, kubonisa ukuthi izinkinga ngeke zize zodwa, ukuthi uchungechunge lwezenzakalo ezibuhlungu lulindele umnikazi noma umndeni wakhe.

Ngokudabukisayo, eziningi zalezi zinkolelo-ze zinikeza incazelo enengqondo ngokuphelele. Ngakho-ke, uma izinja zinomuzwa obucayi kakhulu wokuhogela, awukwazi ukuqhathaniswa nowomuntu, zingakwazi ukuzwa intuthu yomlilo amashumi amakhilomitha ukusuka endaweni yokuthungela. Lapho sihogela, isilwane siwuphakamisela phezulu umlomo waso, futhi njengoba izilwane (ngisho zasendle, ngisho nezasekhaya) ziwubona umlilo njengophawu lwengozi engokwemvelo, inja iqala ukukhala.

Izinkolelo zokuthi inja ingabona kusengaphambili ukufa kwelungu lomndeni nazo azinasisekelo, kodwa kuphela uma kungokwemvelo, okungukuthi, ukufa okungenabudlova. Nalapha futhi, ayikho imfihlakalo, futhi incazelo ilele kumqondo ofanayo othuthukisiwe wokuhogela. Ngokuvamile, ngaphambi nje kokufa, isimiso somzimba somuntu siyancipha futhi iphunga lomzimba wakhe liyashintsha. Izinguquko ezinjalo ziyamethusa umngane onemilenze emine, futhi uqondisa umlomo wakhe phansi ukuze iphunga lomhlaba liphazamise ukuphuma kumuntu ofayo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, inja iqala ukukhala, kancane futhi ngokudabukisayo, iphendukela ekukhaleni futhi inikine ikhanda. Ngokuvamile inja igwema ngisho nomnikazi ogulayo nofayo, ezama, ngomsila wakhe phakathi kwemilenze yakhe, ukumfihla kude.

Kungenzeka yini ukulumula inja ukukhala futhi kanjani?

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani isilwane sakho siqala ukukhala, "ukuzilibazisa" okunjalo akujabulisi muntu, ngakho-ke isifiso sokumisa "izingoma" zokulila siyaqondakala. Kodwa kanjani lokho? Yilapho abanikazi abaningi bezithola sebexabene, bejikijela izandla bengazi ukuthi benzeni. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ungayithethisi inja, ungayisongela, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu ungasebenzisi isijeziso somzimba. Uma inkinga ixazululiwe, khona-ke kuphela isikhathi esifushane kakhulu, bese ubuyela futhi. Indlela ephumelela kakhulu yokulwa nalesi simo kungaba kuphela ukuqedwa kwezimbangela ezibangele - ayikho enye indlela.

Kuvamile ukuthi izinja zikhale ngemisindo ethile, njengomculo wezipikha, izinhlabamkhosi, noma ukukhala kwezinye izinja. Ezimweni ezinjalo, asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka. Ngokushesha nje lapho umthombo wangaphandle obangele ukukhala uyeka ukukhala, inja nayo izothula.

Kungenye indaba lapho inja iqala ukukhala bengekho abanikazi bayo. Uma imindeni ingabantu abamatasa, abasebenza kusukela ekuseni kuze kuhlwe, kungaba usizo ukucabanga ngokuzijabulisa kwesilwane sakho. Ungakwazi ukwenza isibonelo, ushiye umsakazo uvuliwe ukuze inja icabange ukuthi ayikho yodwa ekhaya. Noma umnikeze uhlobo oluthile lwama-squeakers, amathoyizi enjoloba. Ngemva kokubuya emsebenzini, qiniseka ukuthi uzungeza isilwane sakho ngokunaka, usiphulule, udlale ngaso.

Uma inja ikhala, ungaqhamuka nesijeziso sesitayela sokuqeqesha sayo. Kumele uyicacise inja ukuthi uma iqhubeka nokukhala, uzohamba futhi ngeke uvele isikhathi eside. Kwenziwa kanjani? Kulula kakhulu. Ngokushesha nje lapho inja iqala "ukucula", phuma ngokushesha emnyango futhi ungabuyi kuze kube yilapho ima. Ngakho kudingeka uqhubeke kuze kube yilapho ethola engqondweni yakhe ukuhlobana phakathi kokukhala kwakhe nokungabi khona kwakho. Ukuze ungabe usamshiya, inja izoyeka ukuhhewula.

Kwesinye isikhathi ukuhhewula kuba yindlela yokuheha ukunaka. Uma zingekho izizathu ezinhle zalokhu, zama ukungazinaki ukuziphatha okunjalo kwenja. Akufanele aqeqeshelwe ukuthola lokho akufunayo ngezindlela ezinjalo. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ukuqeqeshwa okufanayo kungasiza. Inja, eyaqala ukukhala, kufanele iyalwe ngokucacile: "Khuluma!", Ukuhambisana nomyalo ngokudumisa. Khona-ke umyalo kufanele uzwakale: “Thula!” - inikezwa ngephimbo elifanayo. Ekuqaleni, ungathembeli ekulaleleni okuphelele, kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho ufinyelela ukulalela, udinga ukuthi enja: "Kuhle!", Ukuhlanganisa impumelelo ngokuphatha okuthandayo. Ngesikhathi sokuqeqeshwa, zama ukwandisa isikhathi ngokusho umusho wokugcina kamuva nakamuva.

Abanye abanikazi bezinja abanaso isikhathi noma ukuthambekela kokulumula isilwane sabo emkhubeni wokuhhewula. Ukuze baxazulule inkinga, basebenzisa ikhola ekhethekile esabela ekukhaleni noma ekukhonkotheni ngokushaqeka kukagesi. Ukukhishwa, nakuba kubuthakathaka, kuyabonakala. Amanye amakholomu nawo akhiqizwa: alawulwa ukude, kusukela kumanothi okuqala “e-aria” yenja afafaza ijethi lamanzi emlonyeni wenja. Ukushaqeka kukagesi namanzi kuyamdikibalisa, futhi okwesikhashana uyakhohlwa ngezinhloso zakhe. Ngemva kokumisa isikhashana, uphinde aqinise "ingoma endala", futhi aphinde athole ukushaqeka kukagesi noma apholiswe ngamanzi. Lezi zindlela zinokhahlo kodwa ziyasebenza. Okuwukuphela komphumela wabo isimo sengqondo esincishisiwe sesilwane sakho esifuywayo.

Inqubo yokufundiswa kabusha kwesilwane kumele ilawulwe ngumnikazi. Lesi sakamuva kufanele sibe eduze, futhi lapho inja iyeka ukukhala isikhathi esingaphezu kwesigamu sehora, kufanele ize kuye, idumise, inikeze ithoyizi entsha futhi ihambe futhi. Le nqubo iyaqhubeka kuze kube yilapho kutholakala umphumela ozinzile, ngezinye izikhathi othatha isikhathi esingaphezu kosuku olulodwa.

Okubalulekile: uma imbangela yokukhala kwenja yinoma yisiphi isifo (isibonelo, i-hip dysplasia noma isimila), ungachithi isikhathi ekufundiseni kabusha, okuyinto kulokhu akudingekile, kodwa vakashela umtholampilo wezilwane ezinemilenze emine. umngane. Ngokushesha nje lapho inkinga yezempilo isixazululiwe, inja izoyeka ukukhala.

Kuyadabukisa ikakhulukazi lapho inja iqala ukukhala ebusuku, iphazamisa ubuthongo bemizi kuphela, kodwa nomakhelwane endlini noma emgwaqweni. Izindlela zokufundisa kabusha zingamkhipha "emakhonsathini" asebusuku, kodwa, njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, kancane kancane, ngakho-ke, ngokukhala kwenja ngemva kokushona kwelanga, udinga ukuxhumana nochwepheshe we-cynologist. Lo chwepheshe ujwayelene ne-psychology yenja, futhi esebenzisa amasu akhethekile, ngeke kube nzima kuye ukukhomba imbangela yokukhala nokuyiqeda. Kodwa cishe azikho izindlela zokubhekana nezinja ezilahlekile ezikhala emagcekeni ezakhiwo zokuhlala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zombili izinja ezihlala kuleli gceke nabantu abangabazi bangavota, bese bezama ukuqagela ukuthi “ubani.”

Phakathi kwabanikazi bezinja kukhona abantu abangaboni inkinga ethile ngokwabo eqinisweni lokuthi isilwane esifuywayo siye saba nesithakazelo "kumazwi", ikakhulukazi ebumnyameni. Nokho, lesi simo singadala ukuphazamiseka komakhelwane. Uma umnikazi obudedengu engakuphenduli ukuphawula kwabo futhi engathathi isinyathelo maqondana nenja yakhe, ungathintana nephoyisa lendawo noma ufake isikhalazo ngokuhlanganyela kubaphathi bendlu. Ngokomthetho wamanje, noma yimuphi umsindo ngemva kuka-22:XNUMX (ngaphandle kokukhala kwenja, kungaba umculo ozwakalayo noma umsindo wokubhoboza ngesikhathi sokulungisa) kuhilela umthwalo wemfanelo wokuphatha ngokubekwa kwezinhlawulo. Umphumela walesi sinyathelo cishe uzoba ubuhlobo obunzima nomnikazi wenja, kodwa kuthiwani uma yena ngokwakhe engakwazi ukuthulisa isilwane sakhe?

Enye indlela yokuxazulula inkinga - mhlawumbe enomusa kakhulu futhi enenzuzo kuzo zombili izinhlangothi - ivimbela umsindo. Phakamisa kumakhelwane okuhlala inja “eculayo” endlini yakhe, vala izindonga ngezinto ezivimbela umsindo. Uma umuzi wakhe usulungisiwe futhi engafuni ukushintsha lutho, cela ukuxhasa ngezimali ukufakwa kokuvikela umsindo efulethini lakho. Abanikazi bezinja abenele, njengomthetho, bayawazi umthwalo wemfanelo futhi bazimisele ukuhlangana nawe phakathi nendawo.

Inja ayilokothi ikhale ngaphandle kwesizathu, futhi ukuze uyisungule, udinga ukubekezela futhi uthole indlela yokuphuma kulesi simo. Kwesinye isikhathi kwanele nje ukushintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ngomngane onemilenze emine bese uqala ukuhamba naye kaningi ukuze ayeke ukuhlupha ngale ndlela.