Kungani inja itshekisa ikhanda lapho ukhuluma nayo?

Uma ngibuza i-Airedale yami umbuzo okhohlisayo othi “Ubani umfana olungile?” noma “Kufanele siyephi manje?”, cishe uzogobisa ikhanda lakhe eceleni, engibuka ngokucophelela. Lo mbono othinta inhliziyo unikeza injabulo enkulu. Futhi, ngicabanga, cishe wonke umnikazi wezinja ukubonile lokhu kuziphatha kwesilwane esifuywayo. Kungani izinja zitshekisa amakhanda azo lapho ukhuluma nazo?

Esithombeni: inja inyakazisa ikhanda. Isithombe: flickr.com

Kuze kube manje, ayikho impendulo eqondile yalo mbuzo, kodwa abacwaningi bokuziphatha kwezinja babeka phambili imibono eminingana.

Kukuziphi izimo lapho inja itshekisa ikhanda layo?

Impendulo yalo mbuzo, yebo, incike ekuziphatheni kwenja ethile. Nokho, ngokuvamile inja inyakazisa ikhanda lapho izwa umsindo. Kungaba umsindo ongavamile, ongajwayelekile enjeni (isibonelo, phezulu kakhulu), futhi ngezinye izikhathi inja isabela ngale ndlela egameni elithile elivusa ukusabela ngokomzwelo (isibonelo, “yidla”, “hamba”, “hamba” , "imoto", "leash" njll.)

Izinja eziningi zitshekisa amakhanda azo lapho zizwa umbuzo obhekiswe kuzo noma omunye umuntu ezixhumene naye ngokomzwelo. Nakuba ezinye izinja ziziphatha ngale ndlela lapho zizwa imisindo engavamile ku-TV, emsakazweni, noma ngisho nomsindo othile okude ongezwakali neze kithi.

Esithombeni: umdlwane utshekisa ikhanda. Isithombe: flickr.com

Kungani izinja zigebisa amakhanda azo?

Njengoba sekushiwo kakade, ayikho impendulo eyodwa kulo mbuzo, kodwa kunemibono eminingana okufanele icatshangelwe.

1. Vala ukuxhumana kwemizwa nomuntu othize. Abanye abathandi bezilwane bakholelwa ukuthi izinja zitshekisa amakhanda azo lapho abanikazi bazo bekhuluma nazo ngoba zinesibopho esiqinile ngokomzwelo nabanikazi bazo. Futhi, betshekisa amakhanda abo, bazama ukuqonda kangcono ukuthi yini umuntu afuna ukuyidlulisela kubo. 
2. Ilukuluku. Enye inkolelo-mbono ukuthi izinja zisabela ngokutshekisa amakhanda azo kumsindo othakazelisayo kakhulu kuzo. Isibonelo, imisindo engavamile evela ku-TV noma umbuzo womnikazi, ebuzwa ngezwi elingavamile.
3. Learning. Izinja zihlala zifunda, futhi zakha izinhlangano. Futhi mhlawumbe inja yakho ifunde ukutshekisela ikhanda layo kumisindo ethile noma imishwana, ibona ububele bakho, okuwukuqinisa kuyo. 
4. Ukuzwa kangcono. Enye inkolelo-mbono ukuthi ngenxa yokutsheka kwekhanda, inja ingakwazi ukuzwa futhi ibone imisindo kangcono.

Uma inja izama ukuqonda umuntu, iphinde izame ukumbheka. Iqiniso liwukuthi izinja zithembele olimini lomzimba futhi zizama ngaphezu kwalokho "ukubala" ama-microcues thina ngokwethu esingawaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Esithombeni: inja inyakazisa ikhanda. Isithombe: wikimedia.org

Nokho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani izinja zitshekise amakhanda azo, kubukeka kuhlekisa kangangokuthi ngezinye izikhathi abanikazi bazama ukwenza imisindo engavamile ukuze bancome isilwane esifuywayo esigxilile, esitshekise ikhanda. Futhi-ke, thatha isithombe esihle.