Ungawutholaphi umdlwane

Ungawutholaphi umdlwane

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha luphi uhlobo, maningi amathuba okuthola isilwane sakho. Izikhangiso emaphephandabeni endawo, izindawo zokukhosela izilwane kanye nezinhlangano ezisiza umphakathi, abangani, umndeni, abafuyi bezinja ezifuywayo - yilapho ongabheka khona isilwane esifuywayo. Kodwa uma kwenzeka ufuna inja ehlanzekile, kungcono ukhethe abafuyi noma izincwadi ezikhethekile ezibhekene nalolu hlobo. Abafuyi: Kufanele nakanjani ubheke umama kanye nawo wonke udoti wakhe. Futhi, uma kungenzeka, kungcono ukubheka uyise wezingane. Phakathi nokuvakasha kokuqala, ungajahi, buza yonke imibuzo yakho; ungathatha ngisho namanothi. Uma kudingeka ukuhlolwa okuthile kuhlobo lwakho, cela umfuyi ngemiphumela. Thola ukuthi imidlwane egcwele udoti yadliswa ini, igcine nini ukuthi ikhishwe izikelemu, nokuthi yayiswa yini kudokotela wezilwane. Naka isimo sikamama futhi ungasheshi ukukhetha umdlwane othuthumela kakhulu edoti - lokhu kungaba uphawu lokungahlali kahle komphakathi. Futhi, ungafuni ngokuhawukela ukukhetha umdlwane omncane futhi obuthakathaka. Thola ukuthi imidlwane ikhule kanjani futhi kuphi - lokhu kuzosiza ukubikezela ukuthi izoba njani esikhathini esizayo. Isibonelo, uma uthathwa ukuyobheka imidlwane esibayeni esikude nasekhaya, qaphela, njengoba imidlwane ingase ingabi nolwazi oluningi kubantu. Amaviki okuqala angu-16 okuphila kwawo abaluleke kakhulu ekwakhiweni kokuziphatha okufanele kanye nokuxhumana nabantu. Imidlwane engakujwayele ukubuka, iphunga nemisindo yokuphila kwansuku zonke ingaba nezinkinga ezinkulu esikhathini esizayo.

Ungathanda ukuthatha i-mestizo? Uma ufuna ukuthola umdlwane oxubile, ukubheja kwakho okuhle ukuqala ukubheka izindawo zokukhosela izilwane zendawo, izikhungo zokuhlenga, kanye nezinhlangano ezisiza umphakathi. Kepha noma iyiphi indawo yokukhosela ehloniphekile izofuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi isigceme sabo siya ezandleni ezinhle, ngakho-ke lungiselela abasebenzi ukuthi bafune ukuhlola ikhaya lakho.