Lapho Ukuqeqeshwa Kwezinja Akusizi

Abanye abanikazi bezinja, lapho bebhekene nezinkinga zokuziphatha kubangane babo abakhulu, baya endaweni yokuqeqesha, bekholelwa ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kuzosiza ukulungisa ukuziphatha kwezilwane ezifuywayo. Nokho, ukuqeqeshwa akuyona ikhambi lazo zonke izifo. Kwezinye izimo kungasiza, kanti kwezinye akusizi ngalutho. Ukuqeqeshwa kwezinja kusiza nini futhi akusizi nini? 

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Kunini lapho ukuqeqeshwa kwezinja kuwusizo?

Yiqiniso, noma iyiphi inja idinga ukufundiswa okungenani imiyalo eyisisekelo. Lokhu kuzosiza ukwenza kube nokuziphatha okuhle nokunethezeka ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, ungakwazi ukuhamba ngokuphepha emgwaqweni wena nabanye futhi ulawule ukuziphatha kwenja.

Ukuqeqeshwa kobuntu nakho kucebisa ukuphila kwenja, kwenezela ukuhlukahluka kuyo, kunikeza inselele yobuhlakani, futhi kungasindisa umngane wakho onemilenze emine ekuthunjweni nasezinkingeni zokuziphatha ezihlobene.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuqeqesha inja ngendlela yobuntu kusiza ukusungula ukuxhumana nomnikazi futhi kuthuthukise ukuqondana phakathi kwakho nesilwane esifuywayo.

Okusho ukuthi, kuyasiza ukuqeqesha inja. Kodwa ukuqeqeshwa kunemingcele yakho. Yena, maye, akusizi ukubhekana nezinkinga zokuziphatha. Ngakho-ke, uma inja inabo, ungayilawula ngosizo lokuqeqesha kuphela ngezinga elithile (uma ungakwazi nhlobo).

Lapho Ukuqeqeshwa Kwezinja Akusizi

Kunezimo lapho ukuqeqeshwa kwezinja kungasizi.

Ngisho noma inja yakho iyilalela ngokuphelele imiyalo ethi “Hlala” kanye “Vala,” lokhu ngeke kuyisize ibhekane nokuziphatha okulimazayo, ukukhonkotha ngokweqile nokuhewula, inqobe amahloni, inqobe ama-phobias, noma ingabi nolaka nezinye izinkinga ezihlobene nezimo zokuphila, impilo. kanye nesimo senja ngokwengqondo.

Uma uhlangabezana nezinkinga ezifanayo zokuziphatha kwenja, udinga ukubheka imbangela bese usebenzisana nayo ngqo, kanye nesimo senja (isb, ukuvuka inkanuko ngokweqile). Ezimweni ezinjalo, ngezinye izikhathi kuyadingeka ukushintsha izimo zokuphila kwenja (okokuqala, ukuqinisekisa ukugcinwa kwenkululeko engu-5) futhi, uma kunesidingo, ukusebenzisa izindlela ezithuthukisiwe ezihlangene nenkambo yokuqeqesha.

Okusho ukuthi, ngisho nokuqeqeshwa ngezindlela zobuntu ezimweni ezinjalo akusizi. Futhi ukuqeqeshwa ngezindlela ezingenabuntu noma ukusebenzisa izinto ezingenabuntu kwandisa lezi zinkinga.