Kuyini ukuqeqeshwa kwezinja futhi kuhluke kanjani ekuqeqesheni

• Ukuqeqesha ukufundisa inja imiyalo ethile. Kubandakanya imijikelezo yemiyalo eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu edingekayo emikhakheni ehlukahlukene yobungcweti. 

• Imfundo ingumqondo obanzi. Inhloso yemfundo ukugxilisa inja ukuziphatha okwamukelekayo emphakathini. 

Kukho konke ukuphila, inja ingase ihlangabezane nezimo ezihlukahlukene, ingene ezimweni ezihlukahlukene, futhi umsebenzi womnikazi ukuchazela isilwane ukuthi kufanele siziphathe kanjani ngendlela efanele. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukufundisa imiyalo kusiza kakhulu ekukhuliseni inja.

Ingqikithi yemfundo ayikona ukufundisa inja ukulandela imiyalo yakho, kodwa ukuyifundisa ukuziphatha ngendlela ethile kunoma yisiphi isimo. Eqinisweni, isimo ngokwaso sizoba umyalo wenja.

Isimiso esiyisisekelo semfundo ukuvimbela noma ukuyeka ukuziphatha okungalungile futhi ukhuthaze okulungile. Njengesikhuthazo, kungase kube nokudumisa ngezwi, futhi ukwelapha kungcono.

Ngokuvamile abanikazi bafuna ukujezisa inja ukuze badlulisele kuyo ukungamukeleki kwanoma yikuphi ukuziphatha. Kodwa isijeziso asisebenzi ngezinja njengoba kwenza kubantu. Ngoba ngeke sibachazele ngamazwi ukuthi yini ngempela ebangele intukuthelo yethu. Isilwane esifuywayo singase sihlobanise ukusabela kwakho hhayi ngokuziphatha kwaso, kodwa nesinye isici. Noma yisiphi isijeziso ngesimo somthelela womzimba esilwaneni esifuywayo, okokuqala, sizombangela ubudlelwano obungalungile nawe. 

Uma ubona ukuziphatha okungafunwa, ungakwazi ukumisa inja ngezwi eliqinile. Sekwanele.

Inqubo yokuqeqesha ngeke nje ifundise inja ukuziphatha okwamukelekayo endlini nasemgwaqweni, kodwa futhi isize ekulolongeni ubuhlobo phakathi kwesilwane esifuywayo, umnikazi namanye amalungu omndeni. 

Inja izofunda izinhlamvu zamalungu omndeni wakho futhi yakhe ubuhlobo bomuntu ngamunye.

Kubalulekile ukulawula ukusebenzisana kwenja futhi, isibonelo, izingane. Umnikazi omdala kufanele aqinisekise ukuthi ukusebenzisana kukhululekile kubo bobabili abathintekayo, kuqondise futhi kume ngesikhathi uma othile ephambuka.

Ukujezisa, ukuklabalasa kanye nokudelela ngeke kukusize uzuze inhlonipho ngesilwane sakho esifuywayo. Uyovele aqale ukukwesaba futhi akugweme, kodwa ngenxa yezinkinga zokuqondana, angakwazi "ukugangile" nakakhulu.

Ungakha ubuhlobo nenja kuphela ngokuyiphatha ngendlela efanele, imfundo engaguquki, ukuhamba ngezinyawo okuhlangene, nokuqondana. Ungakubukeli phansi ukubaluleka kokuthintana ngokomzwelo nokuzilibazisa okuhlanganyelwe komnikazi nesilwane esifuywayo. 

Ukuze uqeqeshe inja, awudingi ukudlala umholi bese ubeka inja emahlombe ehlombe. Le theory isiphelelwe yisikhathi. Kodwa udinga ukubumba ngendlela efanele futhi uklomelise ukuziphatha okufiswa yinja.

Ubudlelwano obuhle nokuqonda nawo wonke amalungu omndeni kubaluleke kakhulu ekusebenzeni okuvamile kwesimiso sezinzwa zesilwane sakho esifuywayo. Inja idinga ukuthandwa, ukudunyiswa nokunakekelwa. Kodwa udinga nezikhathi zokuphumula lapho engeke aphazamiseke khona. 

Ukuphumula ebusuku kuphela kwezinja akwanele. Kudingeka balale amahora angu-16-19 ngosuku.

Vumelana namalungu omndeni mayelana nemithetho efanayo yenja. Isibonelo, ukuthi inja akufanele inikezwe noma yini etafuleni. Ukuthi bayamfulathela uma ekweqa uma behlangana. Noma ukuthi wonke umuntu osendlini ufihle izicathulo kumdlwane. Dala imithetho ecacile. Uma izolo ufundise inja yakho ukuthi ilale inganyakazi phakathi nesidlo sakho sasemini, futhi namuhla uyiphe ucezu lokudla kwakho ngesikhathi icela ekhishini, isilwane sakho esifuywayo ngeke siqonde ukuthi kufanele siziphathe kanjani. Ungaguquguquki ekukhuleni kwakho.

Qiniseka ukuthi uyavumelana nomndeni wonke ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha kwezinja okungamukelekile ekhaya lakho. Okokuqala, zama ukwenza ukungaziphathi kahle kungenzeki. Isibonelo, ukuze isilwane singahlafuni izintambo, kufanele zifihlwe ebhokisini elikhethekile. Ungashiyi ukudla etafuleni kungagadiwe ukuze inja yakho ingakhuli umkhuba wokuzama inhlanhla. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezivivinyo ezikhethekile ezifundisa inja ukuthi ingantshontshi ukudla. Uma ubona ukuthi inja ifinyelela ukudla kuphela, memeza into ezoyiphazamisa. Ngemuva kwalokho, kufanele utshele isilwane ukuthi iyiphi into engcono kakhulu ongayenza. Ngokwesibonelo, mthumele ukuba ayophumula endaweni. Uma isilwane esifuywayo sikwazile ukweba okuthile etafuleni, ukusabela kwakho ngeke kusebenze, ngisho noma sekudlule imizuzwana embalwa.

Ukushaya inja akwamukelekile.

Lokhu ngeke kulethe inzuzo encane, futhi esimweni esibi kakhulu, kuzolimaza i-psyche yesilwane sakho. Kubonakala kubanikazi ukuthi isijeziso esinjalo siyasebenza, ngoba ngesikhathi sokujeziswa, ukuziphatha okungafunwa kuyayeka. Futhi kubonakala kwabaningi ukuthi inja ibukeka inecala futhi iyalazi icala layo. Kodwa lokho abantu abakubona njengohlobo olunecala kuwumzamo wenja nje wokukuthulisa ngezimpawu zokubuyisana nokuzithoba. Nokho, angase angasiqondi nhlobo isizathu sokucasuka kwakho. Ezinye izinja zizophendukela ekuzivikeleni nasekuziphindiseleni ekuphenduleni izenzo zakho. 

Awudingi ukufundisa inja yakho ukuthi ilwa kanjani nawe. Ngokuphambene neseluleko sokuba namandla - hlakanipha.

Cabanga ngokuthi ungayinciphisa kanjani inja ekuziphatheni okungalungile nokuthi ungayiqeqesha kanjani ukuba yenze okulungile. Uma ungenalo ulwazi olwanele - thintana nochwepheshe.

Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukudumisa inja yakho, ukudumisa kwakho kubaluleke kakhulu esilwaneni esifuywayo. Isigqugquzeli esinamandla kwezemfundo siyimpatho. Ukuze inja ihlobanise ukuphatha nokuziphatha okuthile, udinga ukusebenzisa umaka okhethekile. Lesi yisibonakaliso sokuthi inja iqeqeshelwe ukuzihlanganisa nomvuzo. Isignali ingaba idivayisi ekhethekile - ukuchofoza noma igama elithile. 

Iketango limi kanje: inja ihambisane nomyalo - umaka ukhala - uyinikeze ubumnandi.

Ungakhohlwa ukudumisa inja ngezwi elijabulisayo. Imizwa emihle iyingxenye ebalulekile yobudlelwano.

Umndeni ngamunye unezindinganiso zawo zokuziphatha nezimfuneko zesilwane esifuywayo. Kodwa kukhona amaphuzu ayisisekelo adingekayo ekukhulisweni kwayo yonke inja, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi hlobo luni lohlobo.

Abanikazi abaningi abafuni ukuthi umdlwane wabo udlale ngezandla zabo. Uma ungahambisani nemidlalo enjalo, kufanele ufundise umdlwane ukuqeda umdlalo uma usho. Eminye imidlwane kufanele ifundiswe ukuthi ingajahi izinyawo futhi idlale ngamathoyizi afaneleka kakhulu.

Fundisa inja yakho ukuthi ingagxumeli kuwe noma kwabanye abantu lapho ihlangana nawe. Yebo, yile ndlela inja ebonisa ngayo injabulo, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu oyokwazisa ukubingelela okunjalo. Uma uthanda ngempela lapho inja ikubeka ngezidladla zayo, yifundise ukukwenza ngomyalo.

Fundisa inja yakho ukuthi ingabonisi intshisekelo eyeqile kwabadlula ngendlela emgwaqeni. Uma inja igijimela kubantu abangabazi, ithopha, ingena endleleni, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu igxuma, akukho lutho oluhle kulokhu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu abaningi bayesaba izinja futhi abahambisani nezenzo ezinjalo ezijabulisayo. Ngisho noma umuntu odlula ngendlela enganaki ukuthi umdlwane ubeka izidladla zawo kuwo esimweni sezulu esomile, ngolunye usuku inja ingawungcolisa.

Inja akufanele ibalekele umnikazi wayo, igijimise amakati, abagijimi, abagibeli bamabhayisikili noma izimoto.

Endlini, inja kufanele ilinde ngokuthula ukuthi abanikazi bayo babuye, ingamoshi ifenisha, izicathulo nezinye izinto. Akufanele aququde izintambo, agxumele etafuleni (umuntu onqabela nezinja ukuba zigxumele embhedeni), akhonkothe ​​ngaphandle kwesizathu, anxuse futhi antshontshe ukudla, enze umsindo futhi akhale ebusuku. 

Endabeni yezidingo zemvelo, yonke into nayo ingumuntu ngamunye. Izinja eziningi zidinga ukuqeqeshelwa ukuya endlini yangasese ngaphandle. Ukumelana nesikhawu phakathi kokuhamba kabili ngosuku, izinja eziningi zingakwazi kuphela emva konyaka ongu-1. Kodwa abanye abanikazi bezinja eziphakathi nendawo abafuni ukuba inja ibekezele isikhathi eside, ilinde ukuba ibuye emsebenzini. Kulokhu, ungakwazi ukufundisa inja ukuzikhulula endaweni ekhethekile efulethini, isibonelo, ku-diaper. 

Uma inja ejwayele ukuhamba ngokuzumayo iqala ukuya endlini yangasese ekhaya, kufanele ucabange ngempilo yakhe.

Imidlwane kufanele futhi ifundiswe inabukeni noma ithreyi. Uma ingane iphuthelwe, kufanele uphathe icala ngokuqonda. Yena, njengengane encane, wayekwazi ukudlala kakhulu futhi angabi naso isikhathi sokugijimela ku-diaper. Noma kunjalo ungawuthethisi umdlwane ngalokhu. Lokhu akusona ngisho isijeziso, kodwa inhlekisa.

Inja ekhuliswe kahle kufanele idlule ekuqeqesheni okungenani okuyisisekelo. Ungaqala ukuqeqesha inja yakho ngokuyifundisa igama. Isiteketiso sizohlala sikusiza ukuthi udonse ukunaka kwesilwane esifuywayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuhlobanisa isiteketiso nalokho okubalulekile enja. Isibonelo, shayela inja yakho ngaphambi kokuyinikeza ubumnandi noma ithoyizi.

Isilwane sakho esifuywayo kufanele sazi imiyalo efana nale:

●        “Hheyi!”

● “Wozani kimi!”

● “Indawo!”

● “Eduze!”

Lapho ufundisa inja yakho imiyalo eyisisekelo, ungasebenzisi owodwa wayo kuzo zonke izikhathi. Isibonelo, uma ufundisa inja ukuthi umyalo uthi “eqe!” kuwukwenqatshelwa ukucosha ukudla phansi, lo myalo ngeke usebenze ukuvimbela ezinye izenzo ezingafunwa. Phakathi nohambo, inja yayikwazi ukubamba ithambo elilele phansi futhi, ngokulaya, “Hheyi!” ayikhafulele. Kodwa lapho ezwa lo myalo ngenkathi exosha ikati, cishe ngeke aqonde ukuthi yini okufanele ayenze: emva kwakho konke, akukho lutho emlonyeni wakhe futhi akukho lutho lokukhafula. 

Ekuqaleni imiyalo ayisho lutho enjeni. Inja ifunda incazelo yazo ohlelweni lokufunda.

Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukukhuliswa akukona nje ukukhishwa kwemiyalelo yomnikazi yinja, kodwa izinkambiso zokuziphatha eziqinisekisa ukunethezeka nokuphepha kwesilwane esifuywayo kanye nawo wonke umuntu ozungezile. Umsebenzi wakho ukukhombisa isilwane sakho ukuthi zonke izenzo zakho zihlose ukusinakekela. Ukuthi uyathandwa futhi wondliwe, impilo yakhe ivikelekile. Inhlanhla nesineke kuwe kule ndaba engathi sína!