Yini ebangela ulaka lwekati?

Khumbula ukuthi isihluthulelo se-psyche yesilwane esizinzile siwubuntwana obujabulisayo. Ezinyangeni ezimbili zokuqala zokuphila, ikati linakekela ikati - umama uhlala eduze kwakhe. Bese kuba noshintsho olubushelelezi olusuka obisini lukamama luye ekudleni okukhethekile. Uma izinyane lekati laliphathwa kahle lisemncane, lokho kuyothinta yonke impilo yalo yakamuva.

Ulaka lwesilwane lungahluka, kanye nezici ezisibangela ukuba siziphathe kanjalo.

Ukuhlasela umsingathi

Uma ikati liba nolaka, isibonelo, ngesikhathi sokuncelisa, uma liluma futhi liklwebha izandla nezinyawo zomnikazi, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi ebuntwaneni yayilunyuliwe ebisi likamama ngokungalungile. Inguquko enjalo yayingeyona eyemvelo, iphoqelelwe esilwaneni. Kuyafaneleka ukulungisa ukuziphatha okunjalo ngempama elula noma ngokuchofoza ekhaleni, kodwa hhayi ngamandla anonya. Ngemuva kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuqala ukufunda i-cares nokudlala. Isilwane kumele sikubone njengowukuphela komthombo wokudla, wemvelo nolungile. Mthokozise ngokuphatha - khona-ke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukwesaba nokungakhululeki ekondleni kuzodlula.

Umzwelo wemvelo wokuzingela

Uma ubona ukuthi ikati likuzingela, izingane, noma izivakashi, ungakukhuthazi lokhu kuziphatha, ukubheka njengomdlalo. Eqinisweni, imvelo yakhe yokuzingela yavuka, okuyinto engokwemvelo kulezi zilwane. Ungakwazi ukubhekana nalesi simo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukubheka isilwane emehlweni isikhathi eside, futhi uma isilwane ngowokuqala ukubheka kude, khona-ke unqobile. Ngokunokwenzeka, uzoyeka ukukubona njengesisulu sakhe.

Akufanele wenze ukuthinta okusebenzayo ekatini: yile ndlela olikhuthaza ngayo umuzwa walo wemvelo futhi ulikhuthaza ukuthi liqhubeke nokuzingela.

Uma isilwane sakho sisebenza ngokweqile, sinikeze amathoyizi ukuze sibe nethuba lokukhipha amandla aso ekudlaleni ngalezi zinto, hhayi ekuzingeleni abantu.

Iqondisa kabusha Ulaka

Izilwane ezifuywayo nazo zibonakala ngesici somlingiswa esiqondisa kabusha ulaka. Uma ikati lingakwazi ukuqondisa intukuthelo yalo kulokho elicasulayo, lingayiqondisa kabusha kulowo oseduze kakhulu. Isibonelo, lapho isilwane sakho sibona elinye ikati efasiteleni, sizokhathazeka ngobuqotho bendawo yaso futhi sithukuthele. Ngalesi sikhathi, angakwazi ukukhipha imizwa kumnikazi, isibonelo, ukunamathela kuye, futhi lokhu kuzoba ukusabela okungokwemvelo. Ngakho-ke, uma ubona ukuthi isilwane sithukuthele futhi sithukuthele, kungcono ukumshiya yedwa.

Ulaka lwekati lungacasulwa ezinye izilwane ezihlala nalo endlini eyodwa. Kulesi simo, kungcono ukuwagcina okwesikhashana emakamelweni ahlukene kuze kube yilapho izinkanuko ziphela. Konke lokhu kuzosiza izilwane ezifuywayo ukuba zivumelane nomunye nomunye, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zizothola ulimi oluvamile.

15 2017 Juni

Kuvuselelwe: Disemba 21, 2017