Inja ayifuni ukuhamba emvuleni

Abanye abanikazi bathi izinja zabo azifuni ukuphuma emvuleni. Ngalokho okungaxhunywa futhi yini engenziwa?

Isixazululo sokuqala esifika engqondweni ukufinyeza ukuhamba esimweni sezulu sezulu. Nokho, inhlalakahle yenja ihlanganisa inkululeko yokuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuvamile kwezinhlobo zezilwane, okusho ukuthi inja idinga ukuhamba okungenani amahora angu-2 ngosuku kuzo zonke izimo zezulu. Yiqiniso, uma kungekho ukuphikisana kwezempilo, kodwa lesi yisihloko sengxoxo ehlukile.

Kungani inja ingafuni ukuhamba emvuleni?

Izizathu zingaba eziningana:

1. Uma lina, iphunga liyaqina, okungase kuphazamise futhi kuphazamise isilwane sakho. Ngakho-ke, uzokhetha ngokucophelela indawo yendlu yangasese. Futhi kungacasula umnikazi. Acasuke, aqale aphuthume inja. Isilwane naso siqala ukwethuka. Kuyini ubumnandi bokuhamba?
2. Inja (ikakhulukazi enezinwele ezimfishane) ingabanda. Noma isilwane sakho asithandi ukuthi sithelwe ngamanzi.
3. Inja yesaba umbani nokuduma, ngezinye izikhathi okuhambisana nemvula.
4. Kodwa-ke, isizathu esivame kakhulu siwukuthi umnikazi ngokwakhe akathandi ukuhamba emvuleni. Kulesi simo, ukuhamba emvuleni kuba yisicefe futhi kushesha - ngokwemvelo, inja ayithandi (kodwa yilokho, hhayi imvula). Futhi umnikazi uthola izaba zokuthi “inja ayikuthandi,” futhi ngenjabulo ubuyela ekhaya.

Yini engingayenza ukuze ngenze inja yami izimisele kakhulu ukuhamba emvuleni?

Izixazululo zincike kuzizathu ezingenhla, futhi kukhona futhi eziningana zazo.

1. Ungajahi inja yakho. Mnikeze ithuba azolile ahogele yonke into futhi athole indawo eyamukelekile yokuzikhulula. Ngisho noma uhambo lwakho lude kancane.
2. Uma inja ibanda, kufanelekile ukuthola izingubo ezifanele futhi uhlele ukuhamba okusebenzayo. Kodwa izingubo kufanele zikhululeke enja!
3. Uma inja yesaba ukuduma noma umbani, udinga ukuthola imbangela futhi usebenze nayo ngqo. Kungase kudingeke ukuthintana nochwepheshe onekhono ozokusiza.
4. Umsebenzi wakho ukuthanda ukuhamba kunoma yisiphi isimo sezulu futhi ubenze bakhululeke kuwe. Isibonelo, ukuthola izingubo nezicathulo ezifanele, ngisho noma zinganelisi izidingo zakho eziphakeme zobuhle. Nokwenza ukuhamba kuthakazelise futhi kube nemicimbi yenja. Kulesi simo, isilwane sizojabula ukuhamba kunoma yisiphi isimo sezulu.