Ungawufundisa kanjani umdlwane umyalo othi “Indawo”

Umyalo othi "Indawo" uwumyalo obalulekile empilweni yenja. Kuyinto elula kakhulu lapho isilwane singaya kumatilasi wakhe noma esitokisini futhi sihlale lapho ngokuthula uma kunesidingo. Nokho, abanikazi abaningi banobunzima bokufunda lo myalo. Ungawufundisa kanjani umdlwane umyalo othi "Indawo"? Izeluleko zomqeqeshi wezinja odumile emhlabeni uVictoria Stilwell zizokusiza ngalokhu.

Amathiphu ayi-7 ka-Victoria Stilwell Okufundisa Umdlwane Wakho Umyalo "Wendawo".

1. Beka intandokazi yomdlwane wakho kumatilasi wakhe noma kukhreyithi lakhe. Lapho nje umdlwane ususendaweni, ithi “Beka” bese udumisa umntwana.
2. Isho umyalo othi “Indawo” bese phambi komdlwane, ujikijele okuthile ekhejini noma uwubeke kumatilasi ukuze ukhuthaze umdlwane ukuba uye lapho. Ngokushesha nje lapho enza lokhu, dumisa isilwane.
3. Ngokushesha khipha izingcezu eziningana zokwelashwa eyodwa ngesikhathi kuze kube yilapho umdlwane uphuma ekhejini noma uphumile kumatilasi ukuze umntwana aqonde ukuthi kunenzuzo ukuhlala lapha! Uma umdlwane usuyishiyile indawo, ungasho lutho, kodwa yeka ukunikeza ukudla nokudumisa ngokushesha. Bese wengeza izikhawu zesikhathi phakathi kwezingcezu zokukhipha.
4. Qala ukusebenzisa imivuzo ngendlela yokuthi umdlwane akazi ukuthi ngasiphi isikhathi lapho ehlala khona ezothola ukwelashwa: ekuqaleni noma ngemva kwesikhathi esithile.
5. Thenga ukuziphatha okufanele. Ngisho noma ungazange ucele umdlwane ukuba uye endaweni, kodwa yena ngokwakhe waya emgodini noma embhedeni, qiniseka ukuthi uthi "Indawo", mdumise futhi umphathe.
6. Ungalokothi usebenzise ikheji ukujezisa inja! Futhi ungamthumeli endaweni yakhe njengesijeziso sesenzo esibi. "Umhume" wenja awulona ijele, kodwa indawo lapho kufanele izizwe kahle, lapho izizwa iphephile, futhi kufanele ihlotshaniswe nemizwelo emihle.
7. Ungalokothi uphoqe inja yakho ekhrethini noma uyibambe embhedeni. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuvuza lapho ekhona: ukuphulula, ukupha ukudla, ukuhlafuna amathoyizi, kuye ngokuthi isilwane sakho esifuywayo sithandwa kangakanani.

Ungafunda kabanzi mayelana nendlela yokukhulisa nokuqeqesha umdlwane ngendlela enobuntu esifundweni sethu sevidiyo “Umdlwane olalelayo ngaphandle kokuhlupheka”.