Akubona bonke abaqeqeshi abafanayo...

Kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nabanikazi abakahle baba nobunzima ngokukhuliswa nokuqeqeshwa kwezinja. Futhi isisombululo esinengqondo kuleli cala ukuxhumana nochwepheshe - umqeqeshi, noma umfundisi. Kodwa umnikazi omuhle uyahluka kulowo ongemuhle ngoba ukhetha ngokucophelela ukuthi ubani ozophathisa isilwane sakhe esifuywayo esithandekayo. Ngoba akubona bonke abaqeqeshi abafanayo.

Esithombeni: okuthiwa "umhumushi wezinja" uCaesar Millan nezinja, ezingakhululekile ngokucacile. Isithombe: cnn.com

Isibonelo, ake sithathe umuntu oyedwa okungenzeka ukuthi, bonke abathanda izinja bezwe ngaye. Lona "umhumushi wezinja" u-Caesar Millan, isihlabani se-National Geographic Channel. Kodwa-ke, labo abamethembayo lo muntu noma umlandeli wakhe wezinja zabo, futhi futhi bagxile eselulekweni sakhe, bavame ukubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa kwezinkinga ezingokwengqondo zesilwane esifuywayo kanye nokubukeka kwezinto eziphilayo. Futhi lokhu kulula kakhulu ukukuchaza.

Ukuntula ulwazi komqeqeshi 

Iqiniso liwukuthi uCaesar Millan uyindoda engenamfundo emkhakheni we-cynology noma i-zoopsychology, futhi izindlela azisebenzisayo zisekelwe olwazini oluphelelwe yisikhathi futhi, ukubeka kancane, hhayi ubuntu.

Enye yezinganekwane uCaesar Millan ayihlakulela futhi ayilondoloze ngenkuthalo kangaka iyinganekwane “yokubusa”, ukuthi umnikazi kumelwe nakanjani abe umholi futhi acindezele isifiso senja sokuhola.

Kodwa-ke, lesi simiso sasisekelwe ekuqapheliseni ukuthi izimpisi ezingajwayelene zabekwa kanjani ezimweni ezingezona ezemvelo ngokuphelele ezinendawo elinganiselwe kakhulu kanye nokuntuleka kwezinsiza. Emuva ku-1999 (!) Udokotela Wesayensi Yezinto Eziphilayo L. David Mech wafakazela ukuthi inkolelo yokubusa ayinasisekelo. Lokhu akwenzeki kuphakethe lempisi elivamile.

Kodwa lokho akubavimbi abaqeqeshi abathile ekuhumusheni ubudlelwano balezo zimpisi ezivalelwe ngeshwa, eziqokwe ngokungahleliwe (okungaqhathaniswa kuphela nejele elinokuphepha okuphezulu) ebuhlotsheni benja nomnikazi wayo.

Lona umbono oyiphutha osabiza inani elikhulu lezinja ezihlushwa ukucindezeleka okungapheli ngenxa yempatho engafanele, engenabuntu ngabanikazi. Ngenxa yalokho, isibonelo, i-puppy enezinyanga ezimbili engenangozi noma i-labrador lumberjack enemvelo enhle, engachazwanga imithetho yokuziphatha, ihlukunyezwa futhi ihlukunyezwe.

Ukube lo “mhumushi” noma abalandeli bakhe bazihlupha nangokufunda imiphumela yocwaningo lwesimanje, kungenzeka babenamahloni. Kodwa abayidingi. "Ukubusa" kuyinganekwane elula eshintsha umthwalo wemfanelo "wokwehluleka" ekwakheni ubudlelwano enjeni kuphela futhi ikuvumela ukuthi ubuyisele kukho.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo - into embi kakhulu - zonke izibonakaliso ezivela enja azinakwa ngokuphelele, ulimi lomzimba walo alunakwa. Izilwane zicasulwa ekuziphatheni "okubi" isikhathi eside nangenkuthalo, bese "ilungiswa" ngokumangazayo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubuntu benja abunakwa, kanye neqiniso lokuthi izinkinga eziningi zokuziphatha zihlotshaniswa nezinkinga zempilo noma ukugcinwa okungalungile.

Izindlela ezingenabuntu 

Izindlela “zokufundisa” uCaesar Millan nabalandeli bakhe azikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi zingabantu. Lokhu kuwukwesabisa ngokwamukela izimo ezisongelayo, ukushaywa, ukuklinywa, ukuxhuzula intambo, ukusetshenziswa kwezintambo eziqinile, amakholomu aqinile, “alpha-coup”, ukubamba ubunile - yonke izikhali okufanele zidluliselwe eMnyuziyamu Wokuqulwa Kwamacala Ezihlubuki. Wezilwane futhi ukhohliwe njengephupho elibi ...

Futhi lapho izinja zibonisa ukucindezeleka okwedlulele, lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi noma izimpawu zokubusa (uma isidalwa esineshwa sisahamba ngezinyawo), noma ukuphumula (uma singasekho ezinyaweni zaso).

Umbuzo wokuthi inja izobona kanjani umnikazi usebenzisa izindlela ezinjalo, ukuthi uzomethemba yini futhi abambisane naye ngokujabula, kubonakala kungathandeki kubaqeqeshi abanjalo. Kodwa kusesimweni esinjalo lapho inja ephelelwe ithemba, isikhathele zonke izindlela zokuxoxisana ngokuthula, noma igula ngenxa yokucindezeleka okungapheli, noma ithatha isinyathelo esinzima - ibonisa ulaka. Ngenxa yokuphelelwa yithemba, hhayi ngoba enqume ukuthatha isihlalo sobukhosi.

Isijeziso singaba nomphumela wesikhashana - lapho inja yethuswa futhi idemoralized. Nokho, kunemiphumela engemihle kakhulu. Kodwa "lapha futhi manje" kungase kubonakale kuphumelela, okukhanga abantu abangenalwazi nabangafuni ukuhlolisisa i-psychology yabanikazi bezilwane ezifuywayo.

Yebo, yebo, amazwi anjengokuthi “ukwanelisa izidingo zenja” ngezinye izikhathi aye azwakale, kodwa avumelana kanjani neqiniso lokuthi isilwane esineshwa siyahlukunyezwa? Ingabe inja iyayidinga ngempela? Ingabe uyi-masochist?

Isithombe: google.ru

Ngibhala ngoCaesar Millan ngoba uyisibonelo esicacile somqeqeshi ongenalusizo, kodwa oyingozi. Ngenhlanhla izinja ezihlala emazweni aseNtshonalanga Yurophu, izindlela ezinjalo azihlonishwa lapho futhi kungenziwa izinkinga eziningi ngomsebenzi onjalo. Izindlela ezinjalo zagxekwa kakhulu abaqeqeshi abadumile nabasebenza ngengqondo yezilwane njengo-Anne Lill Kvam, Turid Rugos, Barry Eaton, Anders Hallgren, Patricia McConnell nabanye.

Phela namuhla kunenye indlela yonya. Inja ingakwazi (futhi kufanele) ikhuliswe futhi iqeqeshwe ngaphandle kobudlova futhi ibhekane nezinkinga zokuziphatha ngendlela yobuntu. Kodwa-ke, lokhu akunikezi imiphumela esheshayo futhi kudinga isineke nesikhathi. Nakuba umphumela kuwufanele.

Yiziphi izindlela ezingasetshenziswa emfundweni nasekuqeqesheni izinja

Kukhona indlela enhle yokuqonda ukuthi ngabe usebenzisana nomqeqeshi onekhono noma lowo olwazi lwakhe ngokuziphatha kanye nokusebenza kwengqondo kwezinja osekudlule amashumi eminyaka ambalwa.

Uma umqeqeshi esebenzisa lezi zindlela ezilandelayo ukuze afundise ukulalela, ukuqeqeshwa naye ngeke kuzuzise (okungenani ngokuhamba kwesikhathi):

1. Ukubangela ubuhlungu enja (ukushaya, ukuncinza, njll.)
2. Izinhlamvu ezingenabuntu (ikhola eqinile - insimbi enezikhonkwane ngaphakathi, i-noose, ikhola yokushaqeka kagesi).
3. Ukuswela ukudla, amanzi noma ukuhamba ngezinyawo.
4. Izinhlanzi ze-leash.
5. Ukuphenduka kwe-alpha (ukuphonswa kwe-alpha), ukukhuhla, ukubamba umlomo.
6. Ukuhlukaniswa kwenja isikhathi eside.
7. Ukuzivocavoca okujulile ukuze "uthobe" inja ("inja enhle inja ekhathele").

Ngeshwa, endaweni yakithi, “abahumushi” abanjalo banabalandeli abaningi abakwazi ngisho ukucasha ngemuva kophawu lwemfundo “engenazingxabano”. 

Ngakho-ke, umthwalo wemfanelo wokukhetha umuntu ongakwazi (noma ongakwazi) ukuvunyelwa enja ulele kumnikazi kuphela. Phela kumele ahlale nalenja.

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