Ungalumula kanjani umdlwane ekukhaleni ebusuku?

Imidlwane ifana nezingane. Ingane encane iqala ukukhala ukuze abazali bayo bayinake, kanjalo nomdlwane. Muva nje, ngaphambi kokuba athuthele emzini omusha, ubelala ngaphansi kohlangothi olufudumele lukanina, phakathi kwabafowabo nodadewabo. Futhi manje umntwana uzithole esendaweni entsha ngokuphelele, enephunga elingajwayelekile nabantu, futhi kufanele alale yedwa, esofeni namanje esingajwayelekile. Yiqiniso, umntwana uyesaba futhi unesizungu, futhi uqala ukukhala ukuze adonse ukunaka, shayela unina noma (njengenye indlela yakhe) inkosikazi entsha. Futhi lapha umsebenzi wakho oyinhloko awukona ukunqotshwa ukucasulwa.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane ibuhlungu kangakanani, akunakwenzeka neze ukugijima kuye ngokuphendula ukukhala futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, umyise embhedeni nawe. Ngemva kokubona ukuthi indlela yakhe iyasebenza futhi ugijimela ucingo, umdlwane awusoze wayeka ukukhala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mkhuba uzohlala kuye ngisho nalapho ephenduka inja endala. Futhi ngempela, ngeke uthathe umuntu omdala i-Great Dane emcamelweni wakho?

Imithetho elandelayo izosiza ukulumula umdlwane ekukhaleni:

• Khetha umbhede othambile, ofudumele, onethezekile womdlwane wakho, okungcono kakhulu onezinhlangothi ezimbili. uhlangothi oluthambile, ngokwezinga elithile noma kwelinye, lusebenza njengokulingisa uhlangothi lukamama.  

• Lapho ucosha umdlwane esibayeni, bamba okuthile okucwile ephunga likanina noma ezinye izingane. Kungaba, isibonelo, noma iyiphi indwangu noma ithoyizi. Ekhaya elisha, beka le nto embhedeni womdlwane wakho ukuze ezwe iphunga elijwayelekile. Lokhu kuzomehlisa umoya.

• Uma kungekho into enjalo, faka into yakho embhedeni, isibonelo, i-sweater. Ingane yakho nayo izojwayela iphunga lakho maduze nje.

• Uma umdlwane usheshe walunyulwa, wubeke embhedeni eduze nombhede wakho okokuqala ngqa. Lapho umdlwane usuqala ukukhala, beka isandla sakho kuye, uwuphulule bese uwuthulisa ngezwi lakho. Ngabunye ubusuku obusha, susa usofa uye kude nombhede, uye endaweni yawo efanele.

• Kunoma yikuphi, ungavali umdlwane wedwa ekamelweni elihlukile, lokhu kuzokwandisa isimo. Kufanele akwazi ukuhlola ngokuthula ifulethi futhi ajwayele indawo entsha.

• Ebusuku, dla ngenhliziyo yonke (hhayi ukudidaniswa nokudla ngokweqile!) Umdlwane uthathe uhambo naye. Isidlo sakusihlwa esinenhliziyo yonke kanye nokuhamba okumatasa kuyizishoshovu ezinamandla zokulala okuzwakalayo nokunempilo.

• Gwema ngokuphelele ukudla ngokweqile. Ngezinye izikhathi imbangela yokububula yizinkinga zokugaya ukudla kanye nokudla okunzima kakhulu. Yondla ingane yakho ukudla okunomsoco okulinganiselwe ngenani elinconywayo futhi ungaphazamisi ukudla.

• Nika ingane yakho ukunaka okwengeziwe phakathi nosuku! Ngokuvamile umdlwane ukhala ngenxa yokuntula ukuxhumana. Uma isidingo sokuxhumana nomnikazi sinelisekile ngokugcwele emini, umntwana uzolala ngokuthula ebusuku.

• Ngaphandle kwalokho, umdlwane ungase uvuke ebusuku futhi ukhale ngenxa yesithukuthezi esingavumelekile. Ukuze lokhu kungenzeki, beka amathoyizi akhe awathandayo embhedeni wakhe. Isibonelo, inketho enkulu amathoyizi agcwele izinto ezinhle. Nakanjani banamandla okuphazamisa ukunaka komntwana ongaphumuli!

• Kunoma yikuphi, ungajezisi umntwana ngokukhala. Okokuqala, ukuqala ukwazana kwakho ngokujeziswa ngokomzimba kuyinto embi kakhulu ongayenza. Futhi okwesibili, ukujezisa umdlwane owesabayo futhi onesizungu okungenani unonya.

• Uma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi umdlwane ungashiyi umkhuba wakhe, qala ukufundisa umntwana umyalo "Fu".

Uma ngobusuku bokuqala umdlwane ungakuvumeli ukuba ulale nhlobo, akufanele wethuke ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, ngisho nomdlwane ongaphumuli kakhulu ujwayela ngokuphelele indawo entsha evikini lokuqala futhi umkhuba wakhe wokukhononda uhlala usesikhathini esidlule!

Sikufisela inhlanhla ngokukhulisa abangani bakho abanemilenze emine!