Indlela yokulumula inja ukuze igxumele kumnikazi

Empeleni, akunzima ukulumula inja ukuze igxumele kumnikazi. Into esemqoka: ukubekezela, ukukhuthazela okuhlelekile nokunobungane. Akubalulekile kangako ukuthi isilwane esifuywayo sineminyaka emingaki: umdlwane noma inja endala. Izindlela kuzo zombili izimo zizocishe zifane.

Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukushintsha ukuziphatha kwakho. Lapho uhlangana nenja ngemva kokuhlukana, ungabonisi imizwa eyeqile. Awuhlangani namalungu omndeni nsuku zonke njengokungathi usunonyaka ungababoni.

Qala ukuqinisa ukuziphatha okufunayo. Ngemva kokuhlukana, noma yikuphi ukunaka kwakho kuyoba umvuzo wesilwane esifuywayo. Ngisho nokunganeliseki kwakho nokusola kungase kuqinise ukuziphatha okungafunwa. 

Ungayinaki inja ngenkathi igxuma. Ngaphezu kwalokho, zama ukufulathela isilwane esifuywayo uma sizama ukufeza ukuxhumana ngokugxuma. Lesi siginali izoba enembile ezinjeni eziningi. Kanjalo nezinja zicela izihlobo ukuthi zehlise umoya uma sezihlakazeke kakhulu.

Lapho inja izolile futhi izoma phansi nazo zonke izidladla ezine, yinake ngokushesha: yidumise ngezwi elipholile bese uyishaya kancane. 

Emzamweni wokuthulisa isilwane, ungamsusi. Ama-caudate amaningi azobona isenzo esinjalo njengesimemo kugeyimu - futhi ajabule nakakhulu. Ukuziba kuyindlela ephumelelayo esebenzela izinja eziningi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Ezilwaneni ezifuywayo eziphikelelayo nezizwelayo, kungase kudingeke ukuthi usebenzise imiklomelo yokudla. Ungagcina ukuphatha, isibonelo, ngaphambi kokungena endlini. Ukuze uphambukise ukunaka kwenja ejabulile, phonsa izingcezu ezimbalwa ezixegayo phansi ngokushesha nje lapho uvula umnyango. Ngenkathi isilwane siqoqa amaswidi, sizophazamiseka kancane futhi sizole. Lapho eseqedile, mcele ukuthi ahlale phansi futhi umnikeze ezinye izindebe ukuze aziphathe ngendlela ezolile.

Abanye abanikazi bathanda lapho inja ibeka izidladla zayo kubo. Akukho lutho olungalungile. Kodwa khumbula ukuthi isilwane esivunyelwe ukugxuma singangcolisa izingubo noma sidale ukulimala ngengozi. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ezinhlotsheni ezinkulu. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukufundisa inja ukwenza lesi senzo ngomyalo, hhayi lapho ifuna.

Uma ufuna ukumisa inja yakho ekugxumeni kwabanye abantu, uzodinga ukuyilawula ngentambo nehhanisi noma ikhola. Isibonelo, wena nenja yakho nihamba phansi ngomgwaqo futhi nibona umngane. Kuleli qophelo, uzodinga ukubiza inja futhi uyinikeze ukudla ukuze isondele kuwe. Uma inja yakho iqeqeshelwe ukuhlala, yitshele ukuthi ihlale futhi uyivuze ngokuziphatha kwayo okuzolile.

Akufanele ulindele umphumela ophelele ngemuva komzamo wokuqala, kodwa indlela ehlelekile izothela izithelo nakanjani.