Ukuze ikati nenja ziphile ngokuzwana okuphelele

Izinja namakati zivame ukungahlukaniseki futhi zize zidle esitsheni esisodwa. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi imizwa engokwemvelo (noma mhlawumbe umona ngomnikazi othandekayo ongafuni ukwabelana nanoma ubani) ithatha izintambo, futhi izilwane ezifuywayo azikwazi ukuzwana. Yini okufanele umnikazi ayenze kuleli cala? Siza izilwane ezifuywayo zithole ulimi oluvamile! Kunezimfihlo eziningana ezingase zisize ukubuyisana (futhi wenze abangane) "izitha zegazi" ezihlala ngaphansi kophahla olufanayo.

Kodwa ngaphambi kokudlulela kubo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi akuzona zonke izinhlobo zezinja ezinobungane kumakati. Futhi ngisho nangaphakathi kohlobo, imvelo yokuzingela inamandla kwezinye izinja kunakwezinye. Lokhu kufanelekile ukucabanga ngakho, ikakhulukazi uma uzokwengeza ikati enja endala kakade. Xhumana nomfuyi mayelana nezici zohlobo. Uma ungaqiniseki ngobunjalo besilwane sakho, thintana ne-zoopsychologist.

• Ngokushesha nje lapho ilungu lomndeni elisha selivele endlini yakho, kufanele unakekele ukuhlukaniswa kwesikhashana kwendawo kanye nokuhlelwa kokunethezeka kwesilwane ngasinye esifuywayo. Akufanele uthembele ukuthi ikati nenja zizohlangana ngokushesha futhi ziqale ukulala embhedeni ofanayo kusukela ngosuku lokuqala. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ukwazana okusha kuyacindezela izinhlangothi zombili. Kudingeka uqiniseke ukuthi "omusha" akaphambuki endaweni yomuntu siqu "yendoda endala", futhi akamcasuli, ezama ukubuyisela izindawo zangaphambili. Akufanele uhlele izilwane ezifuywayo ukuthi uzazi ngenkani. Baqale bajwayelane kude. Ukuze izilwane ezifuywayo zibonane, kodwa zingesabi, ungasebenzisa amasango afakwe emnyango. Kwezinye izimo, ngisho nemihlangano enjalo ekude kufanele yenziwe kuphela ngaphansi kokuqondisa ukuze kulawulwe ukuziphatha kwezilwane. Futhi phakathi kwamaseshini vala ngokuphelele umnyango.

• Khuthaza zombili izilwane ezifuywayo ukuthi zisabele ngokuzola lapho zibonana. Ukuze udale ukuhlangana okujabulisayo, sebenzisa ukudla kokubili kwekati nenja. Yehlisa ibanga phakathi kwezilwane ezifuywayo kancane kancane, ugxile ekusabeleni kwemizwa yazo.

• Ukuzijwayeza kuzoba ngokushesha uma isilwane esifuywayo esisha siseyiwundlu. Kodwa-ke, uma uthola umdlwane onekati elidala, uzodinga ukumfundisa ukuhlonipha isilwane esifuywayo esidala. Kuyoba nzima ukuthi ikati lijwayele umuntu osanda kufika uma ewumthombo wokungakhululeki. 

• Isilwane ngasinye kufanele sibe nendawo yaso yokuphumula, lapho kungekho muntu ozosiphazamisa. Kulokhu, kukhulunywa kakhulu ngekati. Mthengele indlu azocasha kuyo aphumule kumakhelwane wakhe odinwa imidlalo. 

• Futhi elinye iphuzu lokuzola kwekati. Ithreyi kufanele libekwe endaweni ethokomele, kude nenja, ukuze umakhelwane angaphazamisi izindaba zomuntu siqu zekati.

• Yondla ikati futhi inja kuzofanele ibe sendaweni ehlukene. Izinja zidla sonke isitsha sokudla esidlweni esisodwa, kanti amakati adla izingxenye ezincane usuku lonke. Ucabanga ukuthi inja izokwenzani lapho iqeda isidlo sayo sakusihlwa? Kunjalo, anqume ukuthulula isitsha sikamakhelwane. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukubeka isitsha sekati endaweni engafinyeleleki kuyo inja.

• Nikeza inja yakho nge-mocin edingekayo. Ukuze angahlukumezi ikati ngokunaka ngokweqile, hamba naye kaningi futhi uthenge amathoyizi akhethekile azothatha inja lapho ungekho. Uma esimweni sakho ikati lisebenza kakhulu kunenja, kuzodingeka ubeke isikhathi esengeziwe sokudlala nalo.

• Uma izilwane ezifuywayo sezikhululekile ngokwanele ukudlala ndawonye, ​​qiniseka ukuthi ukusebenzisana kwazo kucocekile. Zama ukubamba isikhathi lapho esinye sezilwane ezifuywayo singakhululeki futhi sifuna ukuphumula. Ezimweni ezinjalo, mvumele "abambe iqhaza", futhi atholele umshoshozeli umsebenzi ofaneleka kakhudlwana.

• Ikati elihlala efulethini kuphela kufanele lisikwe izinzipho ukuze lingalimazi ngephutha umlomo wenja, ikakhulukazi amehlo. Nakekela impilo yezilwane ezifuywayo!

• Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu. Ukwakha ubudlelwano bobungani phakathi kwenja nekati lula kakhulu ukunaka kwakho. Kunoma yikuphi, ungashintsheli esifuyweni esisodwa, unqande ukunakwa kwesibili: ngale ndlela uzokwandisa ukucindezeleka kwesilwane "esikhohliwe" ngezinye izikhathi. Qaphela zonke izilwane ezifuywayo ukuze zingabi nasizathu sokukuhawukela.

Futhi, khumbula ukuthi izinja namakati zihluke kakhulu. Inja ikhonkotha ngenjabulo futhi itshikizisa umsila, ibingelela umniniyo emsebenzini. Ikati lihlangana nomuntu one-purr ethule, futhi litshikizisa umsila walo kuphela uma kwenzeka linganeliseki ngokwedlulele. Kubonakala sengathi kunzima kakhulu ukuthi izidalwa ezinjalo ezihlukene zihambisane ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa, kodwa umkhuba ubonisa okuphambene.

Amakati nezinja ababi nje omakhelwane abamangalisayo, kodwa futhi babe abangane abakhulu: badlala ndawonye, ​​badla ndawonye, ​​balala esofeni elifanayo, bagezane ngokucophelela futhi bakhathazeke kakhulu uma behlukaniswa isikhashana noma omunye wabo egula. . Uma ubheka abangane abanjalo, ukhumbula ngokuzenzakalelayo inkulumo ethi: "Bahlala njengekati nenja" ... Futhi uyazi, wonke umuntu kufanele aphile kanjalo!