Indlela yokulumula inja ukuze yesabe izivakashi nabantu emgwaqweni?

Kungani inja isaba abantu?

Cabangela isimo esivamile: inja isabela kabi kubangani bakho noma izihlobo ezidlulayo ukuze ziphuze inkomishi yetiye. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?

Uyaqonda ngengqondo yakho ukuthi izivakashi azikufiseli okubi, kodwa awukwazi ukuchaza lokhu enja. Kuye, abantu bangaphandle bangabafokazi abaye bahlasela indawo yakhe, ngakho badinga ukuxoshwa ngokuphuthumayo ngokukhonkotha noma, okubi nakakhulu, balume imilenze yabo.

Inja ingaphansi kwengcindezi enkulu. Umhlangano ngamunye nomuntu ongamazi ubonwa ngumlindi onemilenze emine njengokuhlasela kwemingcele yomuntu siqu kanye nenhlalakahle yomndeni.

Kwenzeka ukuthi inja yesaba ngisho nelungu lomndeni wayo elinezimfanelo ezithile. Isibonelo, unomzimba omude, izwi elinamandla, iphunga elingathandeki noma izingubo zesilwane esifuywayo.

Umqondo wengozi ungakhula lapho abanikazi ngokwabo beqala ukuziphatha ngokomzwelo lapho izivakashi zifika: baqala ukuphakamisa izwi labo enja, badonsa intambo yayo, futhi bayijezise. Akumangazi ukuthi inja ayifundisi kabusha, kodwa iyaqhubeka nokubona wonke umuntu ongamazi onyathela embundwini njengesitha.

Cabanga ngalokhu: kuthiwani uma wena ngokwakho ucasula inja ekuziphatheni okunolaka? Yiqiniso, akunakwenzeka futhi ukudumisa, ukushaywa futhi ukukhuluma ngothando nenja ekhonkothayo: ingase icabange ukuthi uyavumelana nokuziphatha kwayo. Kungcono ulalele izincomo zethu futhi wenze konke ngendlela efanele.

Umnikazi kufanele aziphathe kanjani?

Kungcono ukungavumeli izivakashi nabantu ongabazi emgwaqeni ukuba bacindezele, baphathe inja, bazame ukudlala nayo, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu ukuyinikeza imiyalo. Uma kungenjalo, inja ingase ilahlekelwe imingcele yayo: ubani ozolalela ekugcineni?

Ukuziphatha okuhle yilapho inja ihlezi futhi ibukele buthule abantu abazokuvakashela. Umnikazi kuleli cala umnika umyalo othi "Owakhe" (kule ndawo kungase kube nelinye igama elifanele isimo).

Uma uvumela inja yakho ukuthi igone nawo wonke umuntu, usengozini yokuthola inja enobungane kakhulu, ethembayo. Esikhathini esizayo, uzoziphonsa kuwo wonke umuntu "ngokugona" kwakhe futhi ngeke abone umehluko phakathi "kowakhe" kanye "nabafokazi". Lokhu futhi kuyinkinga enkulu.

Kubalulekile ukulinganisa phakathi kokuthi “Ngesaba wonke umuntu” nokuthi “Ngithanda wonke umuntu.”

Izindlela zokufundisa inja kubantu ongabazi

Yiba nesineke, uphikelele futhi uphikelele. Ukukhulisa inja kuyindaba enomthwalo wemfanelo futhi edingekayo uma ufuna ukuhlala nesilwane esifuywayo esinomusa nesilalelayo.

• Qiniseka ukuthi inja yakho ijwayela abantu ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.

Umdlwane kufanele uqale ukwazi amalungu omndeni nabanye abantu ngaphambi kwezinyanga ezi-3 ubudala. Uma uphuthelwa isikhathi, inja izobona kuphela umnikazi, futhi yenqabe abanye abantu. Kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane ukuthi udokotela wezilwane kanye nomkhwenyana, isibonelo, abamfiseli ukulimaza, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, bangakwazi ukunwaya isisu sakhe futhi baze bamphathe okuthile okumnandi.

• Yehlisa umoya

Uma umnikazi ethukile, ikuphi ukuziphatha okufanele kwenja? 

Lapho inja ikhonkotha izivakashi, akubonisi neze ukucasuka nokucasuka. Zola futhi ube nomusa. Bonisa inja ukuthi akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuvakashela abanye abantu, ukuthi uzigcina ulawula, ngakho inja idinga ukulandela isibonelo sakho.

• Yakha ubudlelwane obuhle

Izinja zinokucabanga okuhlangene, okusho ukuthi zingafakwa kalula ngokuhlangana okuhle ngocingo olufanayo noma ukungqongqoza emnyango.

Ngokwesibonelo, lapho inja izwa insimbi, iyesaba futhi ikhathazeke. Msize asuse ukungabi nandaba - nikeza isilwane sakho ubumnandi ngokushesha lapho izivakashi zizizwa zizizwele. Noma bonisa inja yakho ithoyizi layo eliyintandokazi ethanda ukuchitha isikhathi nalo. Aphazamiseke umdlali wasemuva onemilenze emine.

Khumbula: udinga ukunikeza ithoyizi noma ukudla lapho kungekho neyodwa yezivakashi ezobona inja, isibonelo, kwelinye igumbi. Uma kungenjalo, isilwane esifuywayo sizonquma ukuthi abantu abangabazi bangathatha "i-charm" yayo futhi bazovikela impahla yaso ngomhawu.

• Khuluma nezivakashi

Ngokuvamile izivakashi ngokwazo zingase zivuse inja ukuba ibe nolaka. Omunye uyahleka noma akhulume kakhulu, othile uzama ukukhama inja noma uziphonse ezingalweni zomnikazi. Konke lokhu inja ingakubona njengokucasuka nokuhlasela.

Cela izihambeli ukuthi zigcine iphrofayili ephansi futhi ungazinaki isilwane esifuywayo endlini.

• Vikela abantu

Uma inja inomfutho kakhulu, udinga ukuhlukanisa izivakashi nenja. Gcina isilwane sakho ekamelweni elihlukile kuze kufike izivakashi. Ukuphepha kwabanye kuseseqhulwini.

Kodwa yenza konke ukuze inja ingaboni ukukhiya ekamelweni njengesijeziso. Mshiyele ukudla namanzi, umnike inqwaba yamathoyizi. Uma seziningi izinja endlini, aziphelezele umfowabo ziyokhanyisa isizungu sakhe kancane.

• Ungephuli imingcele yomuntu siqu yenja yakho

Mayethi inja ibaleka ikhala insimbi yasemnyango yacasha ngemuva kukasofa. Uzokwenza iphutha elikhulu uma uzama ukudonsa ngenkani isilwane esifuywayo endaweni yaso yokucasha ukuze ujabulise izivakashi.

Okokuqala, uzolulaza ukwethenjwa kwenja. Uzonquma ukuthi ngeke athembele kuwe esimweni esinzima. Okwesibili, ngokukhipha inja futhi wephule imingcele yakhe yomuntu siqu, ngeke umkhulule ekwesabeni, kodwa uyomenza akhathazeke nakakhulu. Okwesithathu, ekuqaleni kuwumsebenzi obuhlungu - ukukhipha inja "endlini" yayo. Ngisho nomnikazi wayo ngeke ayithole incane.

Uma imilenze emine ifihliwe - ungakhuphukeli kuye. Ungashayela ngothando, unikeze ukunambitheka okumnandi. Ayihambi? Shiya isilwane sakho sodwa. Kamuva, uzobona ukuthi akukho ngozi, futhi uzophuma ngokwakhe.

• Fundisa ukuziphatha okuhlukile

Ukuqeqeshwa okumbalwa kwanele - futhi esikhundleni sokugijimela emnyango ukukhonkotha, inja izoya kwelinye igumbi, ithathe ithoyizi emazinyweni akhe noma ilale embhedeni wayo oyintandokazi. Kukuwe ukuthi unqume ukuthi inja yakho kufanele iziphathe kanjani uma kukhala insimbi yasemnyango.

Ungakhohlwa ukuncoma futhi, yebo, uphatha lapho onekhala elimanzi ethola kahle.

• Hamba ezindaweni zomphakathi kaningi

Ukusuka ezigcawini ezingenalutho nangaphandle, hamba kancane uye ezindaweni eziminyene. Inja mayiqonde ukuthi abantu abangabazi abanandaba nayo nokuthi akekho ozoyilimaza.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, noma kunjalo, ungasithethisi isilwane sakho, ungabonisi ubutha kuso. Isimo esizolile senja siyisihluthulelo sempumelelo.

Uma inja yakho ingesabi kuphela abantu ongabazi, kodwa futhi nezindawo ezingajwayelekile, qala ukumthatha uhambo, uhambo, ama-picnics, njll. Ukuthuthukiswa kwezindawo ezintsha kubaluleke kakhulu kunoma iyiphi inja. Vumela igwala libone ukuthi leli zwe elikhulu nelibi alesabisi nhlobo, kodwa liyathakazelisa kakhulu futhi linezici eziningi.

Ngokwenza kancane kancane, ngesineke futhi kancane kancane, ungaqinisekisa ukuthi inja isabela ngokuthula kubantu ongabazi endlini nasemgwaqweni.

Uma uzame zonke izindlela ezingenzeka, kodwa awukwazi ukubhekana nokwesaba inja nganoma iyiphi indlela, kungcono ukuxhumana ne-zoopsychologist. Futhi uma ungumnikazi wenja enkulu kodwa enobutha, kufanele uthinte ngokushesha i-cynologist. Sikufisela impumelelo!