Uyifundisa kanjani inja yakho imiyalo ethi “Nika” kanye “Thatha”

Abanye abanikazi banobunzima ekufundiseni inja ukunikeza umyalo ithoyizi noma into oyidingayo, kodwa hhayi nhlobo ewusizo enja, isilwane esifuywayo esiyibambe ngephutha. Indlela yokufundisa inja imiyalo ethi "Thatha" futhi "Nikeza"?

Amathiphu angu-7 ka-Victoria Stilwell Okufundisa Inja Yakho Ukuthatha Futhi Unikeze Imiyalo

1. Bandakanya inja emdlalweni, ithi “Nikeza” futhi uyivumele ibambe ithoyizi.
2. Vumela inja yakho idlale nethoyizi isikhashana.
3. Thatha elinye ithoyizi elibaluleke ngokulinganayo enjeni (okungcono uma lifana ncamashi nethoyizi).
4. Dweba ukunaka kwenja yakho ethoyizini elisesandleni sakho, ulenze lithandeke kakhulu kumngane wakho onemilenze emine.
5. Lapho inja ikhulula ithoyizi lokuqala emazinyweni ayo, ithi "Nikeza" futhi udumise isilwane.
6. Ithi “Thatha” bese uvumela ithoyizi lesibili libanjwe.
7. Qhubeka udlala kanje isikhashana, “ushintshanisa” ithoyizi elinganyakazi emlonyeni wenja ukuze uthole ithoyizi “eliphilayo” ezandleni zakho. Isikhathi ngasinye inja ikhulula ithoyizi emlonyeni wayo, ithi "Nikeza", futhi lapho ibamba eyodwa ezandleni zakho - "Thatha".

Ngokushesha inja izofunda ukuthi kunenzuzo kuye ukukhulula okukhona emlonyeni wayo ngomyalo othi "Nikeza" - ngoba lokhu kusho ukuthi unokuthile okukhangayo kuye!

Khumbula ukuthi lokhu kungumdlalo, hhayi ukulwa. Awudingi ukuyithethisa inja noma ukuyicindezela. Dlala ngesilwane sakho! Khona-ke inja ngeke ibone umyalo othi "Nikeza" njengengozi yokulahlekelwa okuthile okubalulekile. Ungakhathazeki uma kuthatha isikhashana ukuthi umngane wakho onemilenze emine ahlukane nento esemlonyeni wakhe ekuqaleni – ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukusabela kumyalo othi “Nikeza” kuzoshesha kakhulu.

Lo mdlalo futhi uwukuvimbela okuhle kwenkinga yokuziphatha njengokuvikelwa kwezinsiza. Isilwane esifuywayo siyaqonda ukuthi ukwabelana kuhle futhi kunenzuzo!

Ungafunda kabanzi mayelana nendlela yokufundisa nokuqeqesha izinja ngendlela enobuntu ngokusebenzisa izifundo zethu zevidiyo.