Indlela yokunakekela inja endaweni yokukhosela?

Umbono wokuthi izilwane ezifuywayo ezihlala endaweni yokukhosela zihlala zinezinkinga zempilo azihlangene neqiniso. Uma uthatha inja endaweni ekahle yokukhosela, umphathi uyazi kahle isimo sayo futhi udlulisela lonke ulwazi kuwe. Imvamisa izilwane ezifuywayo sezinayo yonke imigomo edingekayo, zilashelwa izimuncagazi futhi kungenzeka zibulawe amagciwane.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukusondela ngokucophelela ekukhethweni kwesilwane esifuywayo, ngoba ukubuyela endaweni yokukhosela kungaba ukuwa kwawo wonke amathemba nokholo kubantu ngenja ekholelwa ekusindisweni kwayo.

Cabangela kusengaphambili ukuthi hlobo luni lwesilwane esifuywayo oludingayo. Ingabe ufuna ukuthatha umdlwane noma inja endala? Isilwane esifuywayo esikhulile sivame ukuqeqeshwa kakade emithethweni yokuphila endlini, kodwa umdlwane uvumelana kalula nezimo ezintsha nendawo entsha. Khumbula ukuthi imidlwane ingayiswa ekhaya elisha kuphela lapho inezinyanga ezimbili nengxenye noma ezintathu, hhayi ngaphambili.

Cabangela ukuthi isilwane sakho kufanele sibe nesimo sengqondo esinjani. Uma une-phlegmatic futhi uthanda ukuhlala ekhaya nencwadi, bhekisisa izinja ezolile, ezizolile. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukucabanga impilo yakho ngaphandle kokugijima ekuseni, ukukhetha kwakho inja enamandla. Cabangela izici zohlobo. Abamele izinhlobo zezinja zokuzingela akunakwenzeka ukuba bajabule ngendima yamabhanisi osofa basekhaya.

Izinja eziningi ezisezindaweni zokukhosela ziyizinja ze-mongorel. Kodwa banezinzuzo ezinkulu: ukungatheleleki okunamandla kakhulu nokubukeka okuyingqayizivele.

Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuhambisana nenja ngohlamvu. Kuyadingeka ukuvakashela indawo yokukhosela njalo, ukuxhumana nezinja, ukudlala ndawonye. Ngikholwe, uzoqonda ngokushesha ukuthi iyiphi inja "eyakho". Ngesikhathi uqala ukuhlela ukuthutha kwenja ekhaya elisha, kufanele wenze abangane kakade, kufanele akubone, ujabulele umhlangano omusha. Ukusungula ukuthintana nokwethembana kuyizici ezibalulekile zobudlelwano nomngane womndeni onemilenze emine wesikhathi esizayo.

Khumbula ukuthi ukunakekela inja kudinga izinsiza ezibalulekile. Ingabe usukulungele ukwenza izinguquko endleleni yakho yansuku zonke? Ingabe usukulungele ukunikeza isilwane sakho ukunethezeka kwasekhaya, ukudla okufanele, ukuhlolwa okufika ngesikhathi okwenziwa udokotela wezilwane, izifundo zokuqeqesha, ukuhamba okuvamile? Uma ungumfuyi wezinja osaqalayo, uhlobo oludinga ulwazi oluningi ekunakekelweni kwezinja akulona olwakho.

Ingabe usukulungele ukujwayela inja ngemva kwendawo yokukhosela? Izinsuku zokuqala zenja ekhaya elisha ngisho nezinyanga zokuqala zingaba uvivinyo olunzima lwemizwa. Kuvamisile ukuthi izinja zokukhosela zikuthole kunzima ukwethemba abanikazi bazo abasha ngoba abanikazi bangaphambili bebeziphethe kabi. Lokhu kuzodinga sonke isineke sakho nokuzola.

Indlela yokwenza ukuhambisa inja ekhaya elisha kusuka endaweni yokukhosela kungabi nengcindezi? Hlela ukuvakasha kusenesikhathi. Vumela inja iholwe kumnikazi wesikhathi esizayo yivolontiya lokukhosela noma omunye umuntu omaziyo, kodwa ngokuvamile umuntu ongathathi hlangothi, umhlahlandlela. Kungcono ukuhlangana nesilwane esizayo egcekeni, uhambe kancane ndawonye futhi uhambe ukukhombisa inja indlu.

Le nqubo iwusizo kakhulu uma usunayo inja eyethulwa kangcono kumuntu odlala naye omusha kusengaphambili. Uma ulindele isilwane esifuywayo esisha, hlangana naso epaki eliseduze nendlu nenja ehlala nawe kakade. Ungaphusheli abantu abasha abajwayelene nabo, kuzoba lula ukuthi bazane uma behamba endleleni behambisana, behogela.

Bonisa isilwane sakho esifuywayo ukuthi manje kuzofanele acabangele ukuba khona kwelinye ilungu lomndeni, kodwa lokhu ngeke kukwenze umthande kancane. Qala ngokupha isilwane esisha esifuywayo, bese uphatha umngane omdala. Yenza lokhu izikhathi eziningana. Kancane kancane, isilwane sakho esidala sizoqonda ukuthi uma uphatha umuntu omaziyo omusha, khona-ke masinyane unikeze naye ukwelashwa, okungukuthi, ungamnciphisi ukunakwa. Bese nibuyela ekhaya ndawonye. Gcina izinja zakho emigqeni ukuze ubonise isilwane sakho esisha endlini njalo. Nikeza umngane wakho omusha nomdala ubumnandi futhi ukuze uqinise umuzwa wokuthi akukho mncintiswano phakathi kwabo, uzonaka kokubili. Ngokuvamile, ekupheleni komhlangano onjalo oyisingeniso nekhaya elisha, isilwane esivela endaweni yokukhosela asisathuki, kodwa sihlala ngokuthula endaweni ethile ukuze silale.

Yibuphi ubunzima bokujwayela inja ngemva kwendawo yokukhosela? Ngemva kokubhekana nokucindezeleka okukhulu noshintsho lwendawo, isilwane esifuywayo asikwazi ukujwayela ikhaya elisha, indawo entsha isikhathi eside, siyi-hooligan, futhi siyesaba ukuba sodwa. Ukuziphatha kwenja kuzinza ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala wokuphila nabanikazi abasha.

Ezinsukwini zokuqala zenja ekhaya elisha, uzobe engenandaba noma engasebenzi kahle, angase enqabe ukudla. Kungcono ukuthi ungayithinti inja futhi futhi uyinike isikhathi sokuzinza endaweni entsha. Ngemuva kwamaviki ambalwa, okunamathiselwe kumnikazi omusha kuyavela. Akukho okuhle mayelana nenja ekulandela yonke indawo, kodwa uma inganamatheli kuwe ngokuqinile, kodwa imane ikhetha ukuhlala ekamelweni elilodwa nomnikazi, konke kuhamba ngokuhlelekile.

Ungashiyi inja yedwa ekhaya okokuqala, ngokuvamile ezimweni ezinjalo, lezimanga ngendlela yokunqotshwa kwekhaya akude ukufika. Ngemuva kwamaviki ambalwa, qala ukushiya inja yakho yodwa kancane kancane. Okokuqala, shiya indlu imizuzu emihlanu, bese ukwandisa lesi sikhathi. Uma kule mizuzu embalwa inja ingazange iziphathe kabi, dumisa isilwane futhi usiphathe ngokuphatha. Khulisa kancane isikhathi ongekho ngaso. Maduze kuzofika usuku lapho ungahamba khona ngebhizinisi isikhathi eside futhi ungakhathazeki ngokuthi isigceme sakho siqhuba kanjani.

Inja, ngemva kokuvela emndenini omkhulu, ngokushesha yabela umnikazi wayo, kodwa kancane kancane iqala ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nawo wonke umndeni kuphela ngemva kwezinyanga ezintathu. Ake sithi futhi izinja zokukhosela zivame ukuba nesipiliyoni esibi sokuxhumana nabantu, ngakho-ke ezinyangeni zokuqala emva kokuvela komngane omusha onemilenze emine emndenini, ungase udinge usizo lwe-cynologist kanye ne-zoopsychologist. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungazinaki izinkinga ekuziphatheni nasesimo somzwelo sesilwane esifuywayo, kodwa uzame ukuthola indlela yokuphuma ngosizo lochwepheshe.

• Thola ukuthi yini futhi kanjani isilwane sakho esisha safuywayo endaweni yokukhosela. Ngisho noma lolu hlelo lokudla lubonakala lungafaneleki kuwe, namathela kulo izinsuku ezingu-10 zokuqala zokuhlala komngane wakho omusha. Ushintsho olubukhali ekudleni akukazuzi muntu, futhi ukwenza izinguquko ekondleni ngokumelene nesizinda sezinguquko eziphelele empilweni kuzoba ukucindezeleka nakakhulu kusilwane esifuywayo. Ngemva kwezinsuku eziyishumi, kancane kancane ungaqala ukushintshela ekudleni okunconywe udokotela wakho wezilwane.

• Kwenzeka ukuthi abalimi bezinja abangenalwazi, okokuqala ngqa babhekana neqiniso lokuthi inja abayithola endaweni yokukhosela, yaphanga indlu noma yazivala ngokwayo futhi ingafuni ukuxhumana, ilahle. Baze bacabange ukuthi bazosibuyisela yini isilwane endaweni yokukhosela, uma bejabule. Kodwa inja ayilona ithoyizi, njengoba usuyitholile emndenini, akufanele uvumele ubunzima, kodwa unqobe ndawonye. Kungenzeka ukuthi zonke izinkinga zingaxazululwa ngezikhathi ezimbalwa nje nge-zoopsychologist. Ungalilahli ithemba, uzophumelela nakanjani!

• Kusukela ngosuku lokuqala lokuphila ekhaya elisha, inja kufanele ibe nakho konke okudingayo - imikhiqizo yokunakekelwa kwamazinyo, amathuluzi okuzilungisa, imibhede, amathoyizi, ukudla nezitsha zamanzi. Nikeza isigceme sakho ithokheni-ikheli ukuze uhlale uthola umngane wakho weqiniso uma elahleka. Nakekela lezi zici ezibalulekile zokunethezeka nokunethezeka kusenesikhathi.

• Zama ukuvikela inja yakho entsha ekucindezelekeni okungadingekile. Ukulungiswa kungenziwa ngonyaka, izihlobo ezinomsindo zingafika isonto ngesinye isikhathi, ukuhlela kabusha endlini nakho kungahlehliswa.

• Fundisa inja yakho imidlalo ezimele, yivumele ibe namaphazili athakaselekayo, amathoyizi okuthola ukuphatha kufihlwe ngaphakathi. Imisebenzi ejabulisa kakhulu isilwane esifuywayo esiba nayo, iyancipha ukudabukisa kanye nobubi lapho ungekho.

Ukwamukela inja endaweni yokukhosela kuyingxenye yempi. Ukwenza ubungane naye nokucacisa ukuthi useyilungu lomndeni eliphelele kuyisenzo esibhalwe ngosonhlamvukazi. Yiba nesineke, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzophumelela ekwenzeni umngane wakho omusha onemilenze emine ajabule. Isilwane esifuywayo sizokuzwa ukunakekelwa kwakho nomusa futhi sizokuphendula ngokuzinikela nobungane iminyaka eminingi.