Indlela yokumisa inja ekuhlafuneni izinto?

Ufike ekhaya, futhi kwavela isithombe esidabukisayo phambi kwamehlo akho: ifulethi lifana nenkundla yempi, lapho inja ihlezi njengomnqobi oziqhenyayo enqwabeni yezitha ezinqotshiwe - izinto ezigayiwe. Kungani inja ihlafuna izinto nokuthi ilunyulwa kanjani?

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Ungamisa kanjani umdlwane ekuhlafuneni izinto?

Uma uke wabuka ukuziphatha kwemidlwane, uyazi-ke ukuthi ifunda umhlaba ngosizo lwamazinyo. Futhi bafunda konke okungafinyelelwa yila mazinyo. Futhi abaqapheli ngokuphelele ukuthi ezinye izinto azishintshwa ukuze uxhumane namazinyo omdlwane.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho amazinyo enqunywa, kudala umuzwa wokungakhululeki, ngakho-ke imidlwane, njengezingane ezincane, ibeka yonke into emlonyeni wabo ngalesi sikhathi.

Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza uma ushiya umdlwane wodwa ekhaya iwukuba ulahle zonke izinto ezithandekayo enhliziyweni yakho ukuze umntwana angafinyeleli kuzo.

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Uma usekhaya futhi ungakwazi ukulawula isilwane sakho, kufanele usebenzise indlela ethi "Rope" ehlongozwe nguSofya Baskina. Bopha intambo kukhola yomdlwane ezodonsa ngokukhululeka ngemva komntwana (kodwa ungalokothi uyishiye intambo uma uphuma endlini). Uma umdlwane ubamba into okungeyona eyakhe, yithi “Fu!”, landela umdlwane, nyathela ekugcineni kwentambo, donsa (ungadonsi!) umntwana uye kuwe, thatha into bese uphinda: “ Funa!” Bamba ingxabano ngesandla sakho, kodwa ungayikhiphi emlonyeni wakho. Ngokushesha umdlwane uzoyikhafula leyo nto. Dumisa umdlwane, kodwa qhubeka uzibambe ukuze “ithambo lokuxabana” libe phambi kwakhe. Uma isilwane esifuywayo sizama ukubamba into enqatshelwe futhi, ithi “Fu!” Futhi njalo kuze kube yilapho umdlwane ufulathela into engalungile. Sekwenzeka lokhu, dumisa umdlwane, uyekele uthathe into uyibeke endaweni yayo. Uma umdlwane ubamba into futhi (futhi uzoyibamba ekuqaleni, ungangabazi!), Yonke inqubo iphindaphindiwe.

Le ndlela ngeke ithuthukise ukwesaba komdlwane kumnikazi (ngemuva kwakho konke, ingane ayizange yethuke, ishaywe noma iklabalale), kodwa izonikeza ukuqonda ukuthi kukhona ukuvinjelwa, futhi bahlala bengashintshi. Kuzothatha isikhathi ukuthi umdlwane ufunde lokhu, ngakho yiba nesineke.

Yiqiniso, esikhundleni sezinto ezinqatshelwe, umdlwane kufanele ube namathoyizi akhangayo anele, kuhlanganise namathoyizi okuhlafuna. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungcono ukushintsha amathoyizi (okungukuthi, ukufihla lezo ebeziyizolo futhi unikeze ezimbalwa "ezintsha" - ngokwesibonelo, ngayizolo) ukuze ingane ingabi nesithukuthezi ngabo.

Indlela yokulumula inja endala ukuze iququde izinto?

Ukulumula inja endala ekuhlafuneni izinto, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi kungani enza lokhu, futhi usebenze ngokuqondile nesizathu.

Uma inja ingahlafuni kuphela izinto ezingenakudliwa, kodwa futhi izigwinya, thintana nodokotela wezilwane ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka - lokhu kungase kube enye yezimpawu. izifo zomgudu wamathumbu.

Esinye isizathu esenza inja ihlafune izinto ukucindezeleka. Ukuhlafuna kuthulisa inja, futhi ngaleyo ndlela kukhulula isimo sengqondo. Uma ujezisa isilwane sakho ngalokhu kuziphatha, kubangela ukucindezeleka okwengeziwe ("okubi"), okusho ukuthi inkinga iba yimbi kakhulu. Umbuthano ononya.

Esinye isizathu okungenzeka ukuthi isithukuthezi. Yebo, izinja nazo ziyacikeka, ikakhulukazi uma zizodwa ekhaya futhi zingawuvivinyi ngokwanele umzimba nengqondo.

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Yini okufanele uyenze uma inja idla izinto? Okokuqala, qonda ukuthi kuyadingeka ukusebenza hhayi ngesifo, kodwa ngesizathu - kuphela kulokhu umphumela omuhle ungenzeka.

Kudingekile ukuhlaziya ukuthi ngabe izinkululeko ezinhlanu zenja zanelisekile. Futhi uma kungenjalo, yini okudingeka yenziwe ukunikeza umngane onemilenze emine ngezimo zokuphila ezamukelekayo.

Uma ungakwazi ukuxazulula inkinga ngokwakho, kungase kudingeke uthintane nochwepheshe.