Indlela yokumisa inja ekuhlafuneni yonke into?

Sonke siwabonile amavidiyo abanikazi bezilwane behlambalaza izilwane zabo. Uyabazi: umnikazi ufika ekhaya, futhi emnyango uhlangabezwa inja ejabule etshikizisa umsila. Bangena egumbini lokuphumula futhi - oh cha! - usofa udatshulwe ngendlela engaqondakali waba yizicucu! Ukugcwala kusakazeke yonke indawo! Umnikazi uthukile nje. Kwakungenzekani? Ubani okufanele asolwe? Kungani izinja zihlafuna yonke into?

Thola ukuthi kungani inja yakho ihlafuna izinto eziseduze kwayo nokuthi ungayethemba kanjani ngokuphephile ngamasokisi akho (kanye nezitshalo, izincwadi, ifenisha, namaroli ezindlu zangasese).

Ukukhathazeka kokuhlafuna nokuhlukana

Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukuthola ukuthi kungani inja yakho inokuziphatha okulimazayo. Esinye sezizathu eziyinhloko ukwesaba ukuhlukana. Iningi lezilwane ezifuywayo likubheka ngamehlo adabukisayo omdlwane lapho uphuma endlini, kodwa inja yokukhathazeka ngokuhlukana ngeke nje ikhiphe futhi ikhale lapho umshiya yedwa.

Inja enokukhathazeka ngokwehlukana ingase ibangele ukonakala endlini noma icekele phansi yonke into ezungezile, njengokuwisa umgqomo kadoti noma ukuklebhula okombhede wayo. Angase alimale ngenkathi ezama ukubaleka. Izinja ezikhathazekile zisengase zikhonkothe, ziconse amathe, noma zenqabe ukudla noma ukuphuza. Imidlwane eminingi enokukhathazeka ngokwehlukana ayithandi ukuboshelwa. Khuluma nodokotela wakho wezilwane mayelana nendlela yokusiza isilwane sakho ukuba sinqobe ukukhathazeka ngokuhlukana.

Kungani izinja zihlafuna yonke into?

Esinye isizathu kungaba isithukuthezi. Cabanga nje: usemsebenzini usuku lonke, futhi inja yakho ihlezi ekhaya yodwa futhi ilinde ukuthi ubuye. Ubungeke ube nesithukuthezi?

Ukulwa nesithukuthezi sakhe, ungamnika amathoyizi okuhlafuna noma amathoyizi anokudla okufihlwe kuwo. Zigcine zingafinyeleleki kwenja yakho ukuze umangaze ngokuthile okusha noma ukhiphe ithoyizi alithandayo lokuhlafuna ngaphambi kokuthi uhambe. Njengekati lakho, ungathenga ithoyizi lephazili eligcwele ukudla elizogcina inja yakho isebenza futhi imatasa ngenkathi ikugcina uzolile. Khumbula nje ukugcwalisa amathoyizi ngokuphakelwa kwansuku zonke kokudla kwenja okunempilo, hhayi ukwelapha.

Ekugcineni, imidlwane enamazinyo ihlafuna yonke into, ngaleyo ndlela ikhulule ubuhlungu. Njengoba nje abantwana abancane befaka yonke into emlonyeni, imidlwane inambitha yonke into. Ukuthungwa okusha! Amakha amasha! Okuvelayo okusha! Injabulo enkulu! Ukuze uvimbele ingane yakho encane enemilenze emine ekubukeni ngokuhlambalazayo isiliphu sendlu esidatshulwe saba yizicucu, mnike amathoyizi anele okuhlafuna aqinile futhi afanele iminyaka yakhe futhi uzame ukungamshiyi isikhathi eside engagadiwe.

Amathiphu Wokuhlafuna

Ungayimisa kanjani inja yakho ekuhlafuneni izinto? Kukhona ezinye ezimbili ongakhetha kuzo - mfake ekhejini noma umnikeze ikamelo elihlukile angeke alilimaze. Udinga ukuqala ukuqeqesha inja yakho ngekheji ngenkathi isencane. Yenza ngokungaguquki. Qiniseka ukuthi umdlwane wakho ophilayo uthola isikhathi esanele sokuhamba ngezinyawo. Uma ehlafuna noma yiziphi izinto eziphambi kwakho, ngaphezu kwamathoyizi akhe, ungamfundisa umyalo olula othi "cha" noma "fu".

Uma ungekho isikhathi eside, cabanga ukuqasha inja noma ukuhambisa isilwane sakho ehhotela lezinja. Ngalezi zinketho ezimbili, inja yakho izohlala isebenza futhi ikwazi ukuxhumana nabantu ngenkathi ungekho, futhi uzogcina izindonga zendlu yakho ziqinile isikhathi eside esizayo.

Uma kungekho kulokhu okusizayo, ungazama ukwenza isifutho esinambitheka kabi ukuze umise inja yakho ekuhlafuneni izinto ezithile (njengomlenze wesitulo esiwuthandayo). Iwebhusayithi ye-Cuteness iphakamisa ukuxuba isisombululo esibuthakathaka sikaviniga omhlophe nejusi kalamula noma uviniga we-apula cider. Ungalokothi ufafaze umkhiqizo emzimbeni wesilwane! Qhubeka ulungisa ukuziphatha kwenja yakho ukuze uqinise lokho ofuna ukuyifundisa khona.

Thinta inja

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ongayenza ukuze uvimbele inja yakho ekuziphatheni okulimazayo ukuyinikeza ngokuzivocavoca okuningi futhi uyizungeze ngothando! Ukuzivocavoca ngokwanele nokusebenzisana nenja yakho lapho usekhaya kungenza umehluko omkhulu endleleni eziphatha ngayo lapho ungekho. Phela, ubani ongafuni ukulala futhi athathe isihlwathi esiphumuzayo ngemva kokuhamba okumatasa eduze kwendlu noma ukuzivocavoca ngemuva kwendlu?

Okungafanele ukwenze ukujezisa inja yakho ngemva kwesenzo esibi. Inja yakho ingase ibukeke inamahloni kuvidiyo yakho enegciwane, kodwa empeleni isabela ezwini nasekuziphatheni kwakho. Ukujezisa inja ngesikhathi "sobugebengu" bakhe kungasebenza, kodwa uma umtshela ukuthi "cha" ngemva kwamahora ambalwa ngemuva kwecala, ngeke akwazi ukuxhuma isijeziso ngokuziphatha kwakhe okubi.

Siyazi ukuthi izinja ezinokuziphatha okulimazayo zingadala umonakalo ekhaya. Cabanga ukuthi kungani inja yakho yonakalisa yonke into, futhi uyinikeze ezinye izindlela ezizoyisiza ukuthi ikhiphe amandla ayo angenamkhawulo ngaphandle kokukulimaza.