Ukukhonkotha kwenja okweqile: izindlela zokulungisa

Kungani kufanele inja ikhonkothe

Ukukhonkotha kuwuphawu olubalulekile. Futhi kuyadingeka ngokuphelele kunoma iyiphi inja evamile. Ukuvinjelwa kokukhonkotha kuyefana nokwabantu ukuvinjelwa kwezingcingo zosizo ezimeni eziphuthumayo.

Ukukhonkotha, kunalokho, akuyona indlela yokuxhumana, kodwa kuyindlela yokuxwayisa ngokuthi “Kukhona okungalungile!”

 Izimfanelo zokuvikela zenja zifakwe ezakhini zofuzo ezingenakuchotshozwa ngomunwe. Ngakho-ke, uma inja ikhonkotha lapho ingqongqoza emnyango noma insimbi, ungayijezisi. Into eyinhloko ukukhuthaza "ama-woofs" okuqala futhi hhayi ukukhuthaza ukukhonkotha isikhathi eside futhi "okungenamsebenzi". Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi inja ikhonkotha ebhizinisini hhayi ebhizinisini, okuyinto engakwazi nje ukungena emithanjeni yomnikazi, kodwa futhi ibe umthombo wokungqubuzana nabanye, ikakhulukazi nomakhelwane.

Isithombe: inja ikhonkotha

Ukulungiswa kokukhonkotha ngokweqile ekhaya

Okokuqala, thola ukuthi kungani inja ikhonkotha futhi uzame ukuqeda imbangela. Kungaba okuningi kubo: ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba, ukuntuleka kokukhulumisana nokunaka, injabulo ngokweqile noma izinga eliphansi lomsebenzi womzimba. Mhlawumbe inja ikhonkotha ngoba yesaba okuthile. Fundisa umdlwane wakho imisindo ehlukene, hamba ezindaweni ezintsha, uxhumane nezinye izilwane nabantu.

Ngaphansi kwezimo akufanele inja ijeziswe ngokomzimba ngokukhala noma ukukhonkotha. Sebenzisa umyalo onengcaphuno (isibonelo, “Lala”) noma “Cha” kanye “Cha”.

 Ngaphambi kokushiya inja yodwa, hamba kahle, uyinike ithuba lokugijima ukuze kusele amandla amancane okukhonkotha. Iswishi ingase isebenze. Uma inja yakho ikhonkotha, memeza kakhulu, shaya izandla zakho, futhi ngokushesha uhambe ngenye indlela. Uma isilwane sakho esifuywayo sikusukela, sidumise.