Ungayimisa kanjani inja ukuthi ingakhonkothi?

Ukukhulisa umdlwane

Ngokushesha umnikazi eqala ukuqeqesha nokukhulisa umdlwane, kuyoba lula ukuxhumana nenja esikhathini esizayo, hhayi kuye kuphela, kodwa kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni. Kufanele unake amaphuzu alandelayo:

• Umdlwane kufanele ubone imiyalo yakho egameni elilodwa. Ngokuqondene nokukhonkotha, ungakumisa ngokusebenzisa imiyalo ethi “thula” noma “fu” (abanye bakhetha elithi “cha” ende).
• Kukholelwa ukuthi ukuqiniswa okuhle kuyindlela ephumelela kakhulu evumela umnikazi ukuthi afinyelele imigomo yabo. Indlela osebenza ngayo: Uma umyalo ukhishwe ngendlela efanele, inja iklonyeliswa ngokuphathwa kahle.

Uma inja ithule, kufanele ikhuthazwe. Lokhu kuzokwakha kancane kancane ukuqonda kwakhe ukuthi ukulalela umnikazi kuhle futhi kumnandi.

• Izilwane kufanele zijeziswe ngendlela efanele. Endabeni yokukhonkotha komdlwane, ungachofoza iminwe yakho ekhaleni izikhathi eziningana ngenkathi uphinda u-“fu” (noma “cha”). Ukusetshenziswa kwamandla omzimba angenalutho akusizi ngalutho, ngoba, ngemva kokuthola ukuzithoba kwenja, ukuyesabisa, awukwazi ukuthola ukulalela kuphela, kodwa futhi nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo yesilwane futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ukuziphatha okungalungile okungenzeka esikhathini esizayo.

Izimbangela

Izinja zivame ukukhonkotha ukuze zithole ukunakwa. Umnikazi kufanele anake izimo lapho umdlwane uqala ukukhonkotha ngaphandle kokuyeka. Ngokuvamile zihlotshaniswa namaphuzu amabili:

• Ukubonakaliswa kwenjabulo. Umnikazi wayesehambile isikhathi eside, noma kufike izivakashi. Kulokhu, ukukhonkotha okungafunwa kufanele kuyekwe kusetshenziswa izindlela ezichazwe ngenhla.
• Ukwenzeka kwesimo esicindezelayo. Isibonelo, umdlwane ukhonkotha emnyango uma umshiya yedwa endlini. Ezimweni ezinjalo, isilinganiso esiphumelela kakhulu sizoba ukunciphisa ingozi yezimo ezinjalo futhi kancane kancane ujwayele umdlwane ngesidingo sokuba yedwa. Kulokhu, umnikazi (nomakhelwane bakhe) kufanele abekezele.

izinja ezindala

Lapho inja endala ibonakala endlini nemikhuba yayo kanye nomlingiswa ovele wakhiwe, umnikazi kufanele aqonde ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kungenzeka, kodwa kuzodinga isikhathi esiningi nokubekezela kunokuba bekungumdlwane. Izimiso zokusebenza eziyisisekelo zihlala zifana ne-puppy. Lokhu kufundisa inja ukulandela imiyalo yomnikazi ngosizo lokuqiniswa okuhle nokubi kokuziphatha.

Iphuzu elibalulekile: ngezinye izikhathi, ukukhipha izinja ezindala ekukhonkotheni, kunconywa ukusebenzisa amadivaysi afana namakholomu akhethekile aphikisana namagxolo, futhi ukusika imigqa yokuhlinzwa kungase futhi kuxwayiswe. Akukhuthazwa kakhulu ukwenza lokhu, ngoba esimweni sokugcina kugcwele izinkinga zempilo yenja, kuze kufike ukuvuvukala.

Umnikazi kufanele aqonde ukuthi ngesineke nangomusa angakwazi ukufeza umphumela oyifunayo ngokuphumelelayo kunokusebenzisa noma yisiphi isijeziso.

11 2017 Juni

Kuvuselelwe: Disemba 21, 2017