Kungani inja ingaba nolaka?

Kukholelwa ukuthi igama lasekhaya elithi "ubudlova" livela egameni lesiLatini elithi aggredi, elisho ukuhlasela, futhi lisuka ku-French aggressif, elichaza isihloko njengokuhlasela nokuthanda impi.

Ngakho-ke, ngaphansi kobudlova, okungukuthi, ukuhlasela noma ukuziphatha kwezempi kusho inhlanganisela ethile yokubonisa (ubudlova obungabonisi) kanye nezenzo ezingokomzimba (ukuhlasela ngokomzimba) okuhloswe kubameleli bomuntu siqu (ukuhlasela kwe-intraspecific) noma okunye (ubudlova obuphakathi) nezinhlobo zezilwane, kancane kancane izinto ezingaphili (ukuhlasela okuqondiswe kabusha noma okugudluziwe).

Kuyini ulaka?

Ulaka olukhombisayo ulaka olungathinteki - uhlobo lokuziphatha okusabisayo nokuxwayisayo. Eqinisweni, uma usaba umphikisi, angathola izinyawo ezibandayo futhi ahlehle, ngakho-ke ngeke kudingeke ulwe.

Inja ezithembayo ngokuvamile ibonisa ubudlova obubonisa ngezindlela ezilandelayo: umsila uqinile (uphakanyiswa, izinwele ezikuyo ziyanyakaziswa), kodwa ingase ithuthumele noma inyakaze; i-nape (ngezinye izikhathi i-sacrum) i-bristled; izindlebe ziphakanyiswa futhi ziqondiswe phambili, imibimbi eqondile ingase ivele ebunzini, ikhala lishwabene, umlomo uvulekile futhi uvulekile ukuze kubonakale amazinyo nezinsini, izidladla ziqondile futhi ziqinile, ukubukeka kuqondile futhi kubanda.

Ukuhlukunyezwa okuboniswa kwenja engavikelekile akuyona into esabekayo njengokuziphatha okuyisixwayiso: uma inja imile, khona-ke igoqa kancane, izidladla zigobile, umsila uboshwe, kodwa unganyakaza; i-nape iyaqhaqhazela, izindlebe zibekwe emuva, abafundi bavule; Umlomo uvulekile, kodwa awuvuleki kakhulu ukuze kubonakale amazinyo, ikona lomlomo libheke emuva naphansi.

Uma zibonisa ulaka, izinja ngokuvamile zizobhodla noma zibhonge ngokukhonkotha, futhi zingase zijike zibheke komelene nazo bese zihlehla ngokushesha.

Uma kungenakwenzeka ukuxazulula inkinga ngosizo lobudlova obubonisayo, izinja zisuka "emazwini kuya ezenzweni", okungukuthi, ekuhlukumezeni ngokomzimba.

Ngokuvamile ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba kuqala ngokucindezela ngehlombe, umzamo wokubeka izidladla zangaphambili ekubuneni komphikisi noma ukufaka umlomo kuye. Uma ophikisana naye engathathi isimo sokuzithoba futhi engayeki ukumelana, kusetshenziswa umlomo ohlome ngamazinyo.

Kodwa-ke, izinja zazi kahle ukuthi amazinyo "ayizikhali zokubhoboza ezibandayo", futhi ziwasebenzisa ngokulandela imithetho ethile. Okokuqala nje, bangavele bashaye ngamazinyo, bese-ke - ngokuqhubekayo - babambe, bakhame futhi bakhulule, balume, balume kakhulu, balume futhi badlidlize, babambe futhi banikine ngapha nangapha.

Ngokuvamile impi yenja “embi” yenza ngaphandle kokulimala nhlobo.

Kungani inja ibonisa ulaka?

Futhi kungani kudingeka lokhu kuziphatha okubonakala kungcolile emphakathini ohloniphekile? Ngizodalula imfihlo embi: ngamunye wethu uyaphila kuphela ngoba okhokho bethu babengaba nolaka lapho kudingekile. Iqiniso liwukuthi ubudlova buyindlela yokwanelisa isidingo esithile okwamanje esibaluleke kakhulu esilwaneni lapho kukhona isithiyo - ngokuvamile ngesimo sembangi, imbangi noma isitha.

Zibone ngeso lengqondo uyinja futhi ucabange ukuthi uhamba, yonke into enhle futhi enhle, kodwa nokho ulambile njengempisi, endleleni. Futhi ngokuzumayo ubona: kukhona ummbila wenyama wokuthakazelisa ngokweqile nokukhangayo, futhi lo mmbila ungakusindisa endlaleni. Futhi ubheke kule mosl endaweni yokudansa ukuze wenze indlela enokuthula yokukhiqiza ukudla nokuziphatha okuphazamisayo. Kodwa-ke into engcolile futhi e-tangles iwela emahlathini futhi yenza izimangalo zayo ekuphatheni cishe i-moss yakho. Futhi uqonde kahle ukuthi uma ulahla ithambo ngenyama, uzofa futhi abazukulu bakho ngeke bahambe emhlabeni.

Kodwa kuyingozi ukugijimela empini ngokushesha, ikakhulukazi njengoba le "into ehlangene" ibonakala inkulu futhi inonya. Ekulweni, ungalimala, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kubi futhi akuhambisani njalo nokuphila. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, uvula indlela yokubonisa ubudlova ekulweleni i-mosol yakho. Uma omelene nawe esaba futhi ehlehla, konke lokhu kuzophela: uzohlala uphelele, ungalimele futhi wondle, futhi ngokuvamile uhlala phansi. Futhi uma umphikisi engeyena oyedwa kwabayishumi abesabekayo futhi eqala ukuzisongela, khona-ke kuzodingeka unikeze, noma uvule indlela yokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba.

Ake sithi lapho uphuthuma kulowo ophethe amacansi wamluma esidladleni, waphenduka wabaleka. Ungumnqobi! Manje ngeke ubulawe yindlala futhi ufuzo lwakho olunesibindi luzogqokwa abazukulu bakho ngokuziqhenya! Lesi isibonelo sodlame lokudla.

Izinhlobo eziningi zokuziphatha ezinolaka zifana nempi yomqhudelwano enemikhonto ebuthuntu. Lokhu kuwumkhuba noma ubudlova obungokomfanekiso. Umgomo walo awukona ukubulala ophikisana naye, inhloso ukucindezela izimangalo zakhe futhi amkhiphe endleleni.

Kodwa kunezinhlobo ezimbili zokuziphatha okunolaka, lapho inhloso kuwukubangela umonakalo, njengoba besho, “okungahambelani nokuphila.” Lokhu ukuhlasela kokuzingela, kubuye kubizwe ngokuthi ukuhlasela kweqiniso noma okudliwayo, okuphawulwa lapho kubulawa isilwane esiwukudla. Futhi futhi esimweni esibucayi sokuziphatha kokuzivikela, lapho usuzobulawa, uthatha, isibonelo, kuleso silwane esifanayo sokudla.

Kungani inja iba nolaka?

Ukuziphatha okunolaka kunqunywa ngofuzo. Okusho ukuthi, uma izakhi zofuzo eziningi zihlobene ngokungafanele nobudlova, isilwane sinolaka nakakhulu. Futhi kunjalo ngempela. Njengoba wazi, kunezinhlobo zezinja, phakathi kwazo inani labantu abaziphatha kabi likhulu kunabantu bezinye izinhlobo. Izinhlobo ezinjalo zenzelwe lokhu ngokukhethekile. Nokho, kungase kube nezilwane ezinolaka olwengeziwe futhi ezingakhuliswanga ngokukhethekile, kodwa ngenxa yohlobo oluthile lokuzalanisa okuhlobene eduze. Futhi, yiqiniso, phakathi kwazo zonke kukhona zonke izinhlobo. Ukuthambekela kobudlova kanye nokuqina kwawo kumuntu ngamunye, futhi ama-muzzles asocial angatholakala phakathi kwezinja zanoma yiluphi uhlobo.

Nokho, amathuba okuba nolaka anqunywa indlela akhuliswe ngayo nezimo zokusebenzelana kwamalungu omndeni nenja. Okubaluleke kakhulu umkhawulo wokuziphatha okunolaka, okungukuthi, isikhathi, lelo sethi yolwazi, amasignali, izisusa kanye nezisusa ezitshela inja ukuthi isikhathi sesifikile sokuvula indlela yokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba. Futhi unenhloso impela, ngakho-ke umhlaba awunalo ulaka njengoba ungaba njalo ngokwethiyori.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lo mkhawulo ubuye uncike ekubalulekeni okuzimele (ukubaluleka) kwesilwane sesidingo esivinjelwa ukuba saneliswe. Ngakho-ke kukhona izinja "ezivulayo" lapho ezinye izinja ziziphatha ngokuzolile noma zikhawulelwe ekuboniseni ulaka. Isibonelo, ezinye izinja zingase zengeze ingozi ezisongelayo futhi zivule ngokushesha ulaka lokuzivikela, noma zicabange ngokweqile amathuba okulamba futhi ngokushesha ziqale ukuvikela isitsha sokudla kumnikazi osanda kukufaka.

Baphinde bahlukanise ulaka olunesimo, olwakhiwe ngokuya ngendlela ye-reflex ye-classical conditioned. Ngaphambili, ubudlova obunjalo baqalwa “i-Fas!” umyalo. Ekhaya, kuvame ukwakhiwa ngokwalesi simo. Umnikazi ubamba umdlwane ngokuziphatha okungafanele nangemva kwenkulumo ethi “Manje ngizojezisa!” amshaye kabuhlungu. Ngemva konyaka, ngemva kokuthola amandla, inja encane, ekuphenduleni le nkulumo, ayisaphenduli ngezibonakaliso zokuthobeka nokubuyisana, kodwa ngokuziphatha okunolaka okubonisayo, noma ngisho nokuhlasela umnikazi.

Futhi ngokuvamile, uma ushaya inja yakho kakhulu, iqala ukucabanga ukuthi lena yindlela evamile yokuxhumana emndenini wakho, futhi iqala ukukushaya. Futhi angashaya ngamazinyo kuphela. Yifunde.

Futhi ngokuqhubekayo. Inja ivame ukubonisa ulaka kumuntu engacabangi ukuthi unelungelo lokulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe, ukukhawulela noma ukukulungisa. Ngaphambilini, ukuze kukhishwe ukuziphatha okunolaka kwenja ngakuyo, umnikazi wayetuswe ukuba abe isihloko “esibusayo” ngokuphathelene nenja. Manje kutuswa ukuba ube yilungu lomndeni lezinja "elihlonishwayo" noma "umlingani othembekile".

Ngokuvamile inja iqala ukuba nolaka lapho iphoqwa ukuba yenze into engafuni ukuyenza ngaleso sikhathi, noma lapho ivinjelwa ukwenza into esuke ifuna ukuyenza ngempela. Lapho bemzwisa ubuhlungu, lapho bethatha okubalulekile kuye, noma anqume ukuthi bangangena kukho, futhi aqale ukukuvikela. Kodwa, cishe, akunakwenzeka ukubhala wonke amacala, ngoba akukhona ukuthi uTolstoy omkhulu wayevame ukusho ukuthi yonke imindeni engajabulile ayijabuli ngendlela yayo.

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