Indlela yokwenza ubungane nekati?

Lapho sithola ikati, sicabanga ukuthi lizolala kahle kangakanani emathangeni ethu futhi lisivuse ekuseni nge-purr emnene. Kodwa iqiniso lilungiselela isimo esihlukile: izinhlayiya zothuli zishaywa ngokoqobo esilwaneni esifuywayo, futhi sikhula singahlalisani futhi sithanda ngaphezu kwanoma yini emhlabeni ukukhuphuka lapho singeke sifinyelelwe khona. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?

Ikati ngalinye lingumuntu ngamunye, ngalinye linesimo salo nesimo sengqondo. Ezinye izilwane ezifuywayo zinothando kakhulu, ezinye kancane, kanti ezinye azikudingi nhlobo ukuthandwa. Ngeke wazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi yiziphi izimfanelo isilwane sakho esizoba nayo, kodwa izici zohlobo zizosiza ukunciphisa amathuba okudumazeka. Zifunde ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokuhlala ohlotsheni oluthile.

Uma ikati libagwema ngokwezigaba abanikazi, liyabesaba futhi libonisa ulaka, cishe liyalimala futhi kuzothatha isikhathi esiningi ukuzivumelanisa nezimo. Ezimweni ezinjalo, awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kosizo lwe-zoopsychologist ezokusiza ukuthi uthole indlela yokubhekana nokubi futhi ulungise ukuziphatha kwakhe.

Lapho ukuziphatha "okubandayo" kwesilwane esifuywayo kubangelwa izici zomlingiswa, futhi hhayi ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo, ungakwazi ngokuphepha, kodwa ngokucophelela, ukuqala ukuhlasela! Amathiphu ethu azokusiza.

• Hlonipha inkululeko yakhe!

Into embi kakhulu ongayenza ngesilwane esifuywayo esingahlalisekiyo ukusithonya ngokomzimba: sibambe ezingalweni zakho, usishaye ngokungafuni kwakho, noma usebenzise amandla ukuze usijezise. Konke lokhu kuzoholela eqinisweni lokuthi ikati lizoba nenkani nakakhulu ukukugwema.

Uma ubona ukuthi isilwane asifuni ukuxhumana nawe okwamanje, ungasiphoqeleli ukuba senze kanjalo. Usekhaya, futhi kufanele akhululeke. Ukucindezeleka akusizi ubungane. Kodwa ikati elizolile, elizethembayo lizoqala ukukhombisa ilukuluku futhi lixhumane.

• Zazise!

Sikhetha abangani ngokusekelwe kulokho esikuthandayo, kanjalo namakati.

Umzingeli wasekhaya uzofuna ukwenza ubungane nomnikazi onobulungisa, onesineke nonakekelayo, okuthi, ngisho nasenkambweni yemfundo, abonise ubungane kanye nokuqina. Amakati awakubekezeleli ukuphakamisa amazwi awo nokujeziswa ngokomzimba. Ungalindeli ukuba umngane wesilwane osikhiphayo.

Khuluma nesilwane sakho ngothando, sibizele kuwe (ngisho noma singasheshi ukugxumela emathangeni akho), simeme ukuthi sidlale (amathoyizi ajabulisayo amakati azosiza kakhulu ngalokhu). Ungadangali uma ekuqaleni imizamo yakho ingalethi imiphumela ebonakalayo. Ngenkathi unakekela ikati, kancane kancane liyakujwayela. Ukubekezela nomsebenzi kuzogaya yonke into, uyakhumbula?

• Yenza ikati lakho lifune ukuza kuwe

Umgomo wethu awukona ukuphoqelela uthando ekatini, kodwa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi lona ngokwalo liza kuye. Akuwona umsebenzi olula, kodwa uma uthi nhlá nje!

Okokuqala udinga ukwakha izinhlangano cat ezimnandi kusukela ukuxhumana nawe. Isikhuthazo sibalulekile lapha, futhi isikhuthazo esihle kakhulu ukuphatha, njengoba isikhuthazo sokudla siqine kakhulu. Nikeza isilwane sakho ubumnandi entendeni yesandla sakho. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lapho ikati liqala ukuthatha ukwelapha ezandleni zakho ngokuzethemba, qala ukuliphulula ngobumnene.

Kuyenzeka ukuthi isilwane sonakaliswe izibiliboco futhi asijahile ukugijima silandele kumnikazi. Senza i-knight's move futhi sithole ubumnandi obukhethekile ngokunambitha okusha kwekati. Lokhu kufanele kube ukudla okukhethekile kwekati okunempilo, hhayi ukudla kwetafula! Izinti "I-Delicacy" kanye ne-liquid cream treats "Ama-Mnyams" azibonakalise kahle: lena imigqa emisha enama-flavour acebile agqamile kanye nokwakheka okuhle.

• Ungaphoqi imicimbi

Ukuxhamazela kuyisu elibi. Nikeza ikati lakho isikhathi esiningi njengoba lidinga. Phikelela, kodwa ungaphazamisi. Ubungane, obakhelwe endaweni enethezekile isinyathelo ngesinyathelo, yibo obuqine kakhulu!

• Nakekela ubungane bakho

Kulula kakhulu ukudumaza nokusabisa isilwane esifuywayo. Uma izinja, isibonelo, zihlakaniphile ngokushesha, khona-ke amakati akhumbula ukuthukwa. Phatha isilwane sakho ngokucophelela, funda ukusiqonda futhi ungalokothi usicasule. Ngokuqinisekile uyokwazisa!