Indlela yokwethula ikati nekati

“Bingelela udadewenu!”

Ukubonakala kwekati entsha endlini yisikhathi esikhethekile nesimangalisayo somndeni wonke .. ngaphandle kwekati lakho elidala!

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlamvu lwakhe lumnene kangakanani, useyikati ngakho-ke ubonisa ngokuqinile indawo, okubonisa ukuthi indawo yendawo yokuhlala isesandleni sakhe. Ukubonakala kwesinye isidalwa esinoboya endleleni yaso yokubona kungase kubangele ukusabela okungekuhle. Umona, njengoba osanda kufika ethatha konke ukunakwa kwababungazi. Ukungakhululeki, ngoba amakati azwela kakhulu ekuhlanzekeni kwethreyi alisebenzisayo. Ulaka nokudangala, ngoba umfana omncane ocasulayo uhlala ezungeza phambi kwekhala lakhe.

Nokho, ngokuhlela yonke inqubo kusenesikhathi futhi ufunde mayelana nokusebenza kwengqondo yezilwane, ungenza inqubo yokuqomisana ibe nzima kakhulu futhi ubeke isisekelo sokwakhiwa kobungani nokubambisana phakathi kwezilwane okuzokuvumela ukuba udale “umndeni. namakati amabili”.

Isinyathelo 1: Lungiselela Indlu

Uma kungenzeka, ngaphambi kokuba kuvele izinyane lekati elisha endlini, thatha ithoyizi elisha noma ingubo yokulala uze nayo kumfuyi, ulihlikihle ngayo ukuze iphunga layo lihlale kulezi zinto. Bese ushiya lezi zinto ekhaya ukuze ikati lakho lizazi. Lapho ikati nekati lihlangana okokuqala, ngeke lisabona iphunga layo njengento esongelayo kuye.

Lungiselela ikamelo eliseceleni (mhlawumbe ikamelo lokulala eliyisipele noma igumbi lezinsiza) ozosetshenziswa yizinyane lekati entsha phakathi nezinsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala zokuhlala kwazo endlini, ubeke izitsha zamanzi nokudla, amathoyizi kanye nezingubo zokulala. Futhi ungakhathazeki, lezi yizinyathelo zesikhashana nje.

Isinyathelo sesi-2: Vumela izilwane zijwayelane nephunga lomunye nomunye

Ngosuku lokufika kwekati lakho, gcina ikati lakho ekamelweni elihlukile elinezinto ezijwayelekile nezijwayelekile. Letha ikati endlini, ngokushesha umbonise wonke amakamelo ukuze aqale ukujwayela indawo entsha, bese umbeka ekamelweni elilungiselelwe yena.

Kuphela manje ungavumela ikati liphume ekamelweni lapho lalikhona (kodwa qiniseka ukuthi alihlangani nekati). Mvumele ahogele izandla zakho ezinephunga elimnandi futhi umphathe ngendlela ethokozisayo ukuze aqinise ukuxhumana okuhle phakathi kwephunga elisha nokuzizwisa okujabulisayo.

Kancane kancane usakaze iphunga lekati endlini yonke ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zokuqala ngokushintsha izitsha zokudla namanzi. Uma zombili izilwane sezijwayele iphunga lomunye, zivumele zihlole indawo yazo ngokuhlukana, kodwa ungazivumeli ukuthi zihlangane.  

Isinyathelo sesi-3: bavumele bahlangane ekugcineni

Kungcono ukuhlela umuntu omaziyo "osemthethweni" ngesikhathi sokuncelisa, lapho indlala izodlula zonke ezinye izinto ezicasulayo. Lapho izilwane ziqala ukuhlangana, ungalindela ukuthi zihayize futhi zibubule - lokhu kuvamile futhi kuzivumela ukuba zinqume indawo yazo ekubuseni. Gcina ingubo ilungile uma kwenzeka kuqubuka impi egcwele. Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi uthembe ukuthi amalungiselelo akho azoba nomthelela futhi izilwane zizokwazi "ukuqaphela" ngokwanele ukuze zibe seduze ngokuthula okungenani isidlo sakusihlwa.

Isinyathelo sesi-4: Yakha Empumelelweni Futhi Ubancome Ngokulinganayo

Ngokushesha ngemva kokudla kokuqala ndawonye, ​​zalanisa izilwane futhi uzigcine zihlukene kuze kube yilapho zidla ngokulandelayo, kuyilapho kancane kancane zandisa isikhathi ezisichitha ndawonye. Lapho bendawonye, ​​yabelanani ngokuphathana nokunaka phakathi kwalokhu okubili ngokulinganayo, hhayi nje ukuqinisa isipiliyoni esihle sokukhulumisana, kodwa futhi ukukhombisa ukuthi awukhethi oyedwa wabo.

Khumbula ukuthi "ungumholi wepakethe", akufanele usungule ukuthi ubani kubo othatha indawo "yekati eliyinhloko", futhi elalelayo - bayothola ngokuzimela lokhu ngendlela evamile emvelweni. Kufanele nje ubonise ukungahloniphi nokwethembeka ngazo zonke izindlela.

Wonke umuntu uthanda ama-kittens athambile, futhi ingxenye ebalulekile yokuba nekati lesibili endlini injabulo ezungeze ingane entsha. Kodwa ngokuhlala uzolile lapho wethula izinyane lekati emalungwini omndeni, ubeka isisekelo sobuhlobo obuhloniphekile phakathi kwezilwane, nokwabelana ngothando lwakho ngokulinganayo phakathi kokubili, uzothola uthando olwengeziwe kuzo zombili izilwane ezifuywayo ngokubuyisela.

Nansi iresiphi yomndeni ojabulayo namakati amabili!