Indlela yokunquma ubulili begundane: sihlukanisa umfana entombazaneni (isithombe)

Lapho uthenga igundane elihlobisa, abanikazi abaningi abafaki ukubaluleka kobulili begundane. Kodwa labo abahlela ukuzalanisa lezi zilwane kudingeka bazi ukuthi banganquma kanjani ubulili begundane nokuthi bangayihlukanisa kanjani insikazi neduna.

Ukunqunywa kocansi kwamagundane amadala

Lapho eneminyaka eyinyanga nengxenye ubudala, izitho zangasese zamagundane ziyakhiwa, futhi ngemva kwalesi sikhathi izilwane zivuthwa ngokobulili futhi zilungele ukuzala. Ngakho-ke, indlela elula yokuthola ubulili begundane elidala ukufunda ngokucophelela ukwakheka kwezitho zayo zangasese.

Umehluko wobulili phakathi kowesifazane nowesilisa:

• isici esiyinhloko esihlukanisayo sabesilisa abadala kunamasende amakhulu, angabonakala noma azwe ngokuphakamisa kancane umsila wesilwane;
• insikazi ingabonwa ngemigqa emibili yezingono esiswini, kanti kumagundane abesilisa izindlala zebele azikho ngokuphelele;
• thola ubulili bamagundane kanye nebanga phakathi kwe-urethra ne-anus. Kwabesifazane, lezi zitho zitholakala eceleni futhi ibanga phakathi kwazo alidluli amamilimitha amabili kuya kwamathathu. Kwabesilisa, ibanga phakathi kwe-urogenital ne-anus cishe amamilimitha amahlanu kuya kwayisithupha.

Okubalulekile: lapho unquma ubulili begundane, akukhuthazwa ukuphakamisa isilwane ngomsila. Phela, le ndlela inikeza isilwane ukungakhululeki futhi iyamcindezela. Akunzima ukuhlola isitho sangasese sesilwane uma usibeka entendeni uphakamise isisu sakho futhi usibambe ngesinye isandla ngekhanda ukuze igundane lingapholi.

Indlela yokunquma ubulili bamagundane

Ngokungafani nabantu abadala, akulula ukuhlukanisa ubulili bamagundane asanda kuzalwa futhi lokhu kungenziwa lapho imidlwane inezinsuku ezine kuya kweziyisihlanu ubudala. Njengoba amagundane amancane engenabo uvolo, ungakwazi ukunquma ubulili begundane ngezingono ezisesiswini, ezifana nezinduna ezincane. Ukuba khona kwezindlala zebele kubonisa ukuthi lena intombazane, ngoba abafana, kokubili ebusheni babo nasebudaleni, abanazo izingono.

Futhi, ezinganeni zabesilisa, ungabona izindawo ezincane ezimnyama ezitholakala phakathi kwezitho zangasese kanye ne-anus, esikhundleni salokho, lapho isilwane sikhula, ama-testicles azokwakhiwa.

Umehluko phakathi kwamagundane esifazane nabesilisa ngokubukeka nangesimilo

Abanikazi abanolwazi abagcina amagundane amathathu noma ngaphezulu bathi intombazane ihlukaniswa nomfana hhayi kuphela ngezibonakaliso zomzimba, kodwa nangokuziphatha. Futhi ekubukeni kwezilwane ezifuywayo ezinomsila, ungabona nezici ezihlukile ezikuvumela ukuthi unqume ukuthi insikazi ikuphi nokuthi owesilisa ukuphi:

• abesilisa bakhudlwana kancane kunezinsikazi futhi banomzimba onamandla futhi oqinile;
• amantombazane anomzimba omuhle oyi-oblong, kanti abafana banomzimba omise okwepheya; Uma siqhathanisa isakhiwo soboya, khona-ke kwabesifazane ingubo ibushelelezi, i-silky futhi ithambile, kanti kwabesilisa ijazi linzima futhi liqinile;
• abesifazane bathanda ukwazi futhi abaphumuli futhi bahlola ngenkuthalo izinto ezizungezile, bezama zonke izinto "ngezinyo". Abafana baziphatha ngokuzolile, bangahlala endlini yabo isikhathi eside futhi bachithe sonke isikhathi sabo samahhala belele;
• ezinsikazi zinolaka kunabesilisa futhi zivame ukuluma abanikazi bazo, ikakhulukazi uma isilwane sesaba noma sivikela inzalo yaso;
• ukuhlukanisa igundane lomfana entombazaneni, uyakwazi nokunuka indle. Kwabesilisa abadala, umchamo unephunga elibukhali nelingemnandi ukwedlula kwabesifazane.

Okubalulekile: uma umnikazi ehlela ukugcina amagundane amabili ekhejini elilodwa, kodwa engafuni ukuwazalanisa, ngakho-ke kungcono ukuthenga abesifazane ngale njongo. Amantombazane azwana futhi azwana kahle, kuyilapho abafana ababili bangase baxabane ngezindawo nokudla.

Ukuze ulawule ukukhiqizwa kwezilwane ezifuywayo ezinomsila, kungakuhle ukuthi unqume ubulili bamagundane kungakapheli inyanga eyodwa, bese uhlalisa abesilisa nabesifazane emakhejini ahlukene.