Indlela yokukhetha umfuyi wekati?

Kunezibonakaliso eziningana ezingabonakala ngazo abalimi abangenanembeza.

Umfuyi wenqaba umhlangano womuntu siqu

Ukuze wenze isinqumo mayelana nokuthenga izinyane lekati, akudingekile ukuthi ubone isithombe sakhe kuphela, kodwa futhi ukhulume nomfuyi, ukhulume nekati, ubheke izimo zokuboshwa, ufunde imibhalo. Uma umfuyi ekugwema ngokucacile ukuhlangana mathupha, maningi amathuba okuthi amanye ala maphuzu (noma wonke) awahambisani kahle.

Indawo engcono kakhulu yokubheka abalimi kusemibukisweni yamakati. Lapho ungaxoxa nomfuyi nezilwane ezifuywayo.

Inqaba ukukhombisa imibhalo kanye nezitifiketi zezempilo zekati

Kulokhu, umuntu akanakuqiniseka hhayi kuphela ngempilo yengane nabazali bakhe, kodwa futhi nezinhlobo ezihlanzekile. Ngaphambi kokuthenga isilwane, kuyadingeka ukuhlola nomfuyi ngokutholakala kwemibhalo eqinisekisa ukuba khona kwekati lakhe, kanye nepasipoti yozalo kanye nezilwane zekati.

Ungaphansi kwengcindezi yokuthenga

Abafuyi bekati abangathembekile abathandi ukuhlehlisa nokuphuthelwa yinzuzo. Uma ungabaza, bangase baqale ukukunikeza izaphulelo, bethi lokhu ukunikezwa okungcono kakhulu, noma ukusabisa nokufaka ingcindezi engokwengqondo. Akufanelekile ukuqhubeka nokuxoxisana nabalimi abanjalo.

Ayiwabonisi wonke amakati, abazali bawo kanye nalapho ehlala khona

Yiqiniso, izakhi zofuzo zidlala indima ebalulekile ekubumbeni umlingisi, kodwa indawo lapho ikati likhula khona ibalulekile ekuthuthukiseni isilwane. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi izilwane ezingaphansi kwesibopho salo mfuyi zihlala ngokuhlanzeka nokunethezeka.

Awukwazi ukusho mayelana nohlobo, izici zokunakekelwa nokugcinwa

Abafuyi bamakati abawazi wonke ama-nuances okunakekela uhlobo oluthile cishe bakhathazeka kuphela ngenzuzo yezinto ezibonakalayo, futhi bangagcini ukuhlanzeka kohlobo. Umfuyi omuhle uzokwamukela imibuzo mayelana nendlela yokunakekela isilwane nokuthi yini okufanele uyibheke, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi uzimisele ngokwenza umngane omusha. Uzokwazi ukukweluleka ngemigomo edingekayo kanye nezinye izici zokunakekelwa kwezilwane ezifuywayo.

Inikeza ikati elincane kakhulu

I-Socialization yinqubo ende kakhulu, kodwa izisekelo zayo zibekwe ebuntwaneni. Ngokudlala nabafowabo nodadewabo, ukubukela umama nokuxhumana nabantu, izinyane lekati lifunda ngokuphila, lifunda ukuxhumana nezwe langaphandle, abantu nezilwane, futhi lizinakekele. Uma izinyane lekati lilunyulwe kunina kusenesikhathi futhi likhuliswe endaweni yabantu, lizothola ubunzima ekukhulumisaneni nasekuziphatheni, lingabonisa ulaka noma, ngokuphambene, lesabe kakhulu yonke into.

Yini enye okufanele ukuyinaka?

Uma uhlela ukuthenga izinyane lekati ukuze uphinde ubambe iqhaza emibukisweni, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi umfuyi uyabamba iqhaza kuyo. Imibukiso idinga ukuzinikela okukhulu, isikhathi nemali, ngakho-ke labo bafuyi bekati abanolwazi oluningi emibukisweni kungenzeka baqaphele. Cela ukubona imiklomelo nezinkomishi, cishe uzokhuluma ngokuziqhenya ngokunqoba kwezintandokazi zakhe.

Akufanele uthenge izinyane lekati esikhangisweni esisephephandabeni. Abafuyi abahlonishwayo abakudingi ukukhangisa okunjalo ezindlini zabo. Emakati adumile, ngezinye izikhathi kukhona ngisho nokubhaliswa kwangaphambili kwamakati angakazalwa.

Khumbula ukuthi akekho onganikeza isiqinisekiso esiphelele sokuthi isilwane ngeke sigule. Angase abe nanoma yiziphi izifo azalwa nazo ezingatholakali esemncane. Kodwa-ke, abalimi bekati abaqotho, njengomthetho, basiza amakhasimende abo nganoma yiziphi izinkinga, ngoba lokhu kubalulekile nasesithunzini sabo.