Ukuthi amagundane aklolodela kanjani futhi “akhulume”, incazelo yemisindo ayenzayo

Kokubili amagundane asendle kanye nokuhlobisa akhulumisana hhayi kuphela ngosizo lokunyakaza nokuthinta, kodwa futhi asebenzise izibonakaliso ezihlukahlukene zomsindo ngale njongo. Ngokukhipha izimpawu ezihlukahlukene, amagundane axwayisana ngengozi engaba khona, ngokulungela ukukhwelana, noma amemezele ukungaphulwa kwemithetho yendawo yawo. Izilwane ezifuywayo ezinomsila nazo zixhumana nabanikazi zisebenzisa imisindo, ukuveza, ngale ndlela, uthando lwabo, ukubonga noma ukunganeliseki.

Isho ukuthini imisindo yamagundane?

Isilwane sibonisa ukwesaba, ubuhlungu, intukuthelo noma injabulo kumnikazi, sisebenzisa inkulumo kuphela etholakalayo kuye - izimpawu zomsindo. Futhi ukuze uqonde ukuthi yini ngempela isilwane esifuywayo esizama "ukusho", udinga ukwazi ukuthi ungazichaza kanjani izimpawu ezikhishwa isilwane:

• ukuklabalasa isikhathi eside noma ukukhala kwenhliziyo igundane kuthiwa lisezinhlungwini ezinzima. Kulesi simo, umnikazi kufanele ahlole isilwane, mhlawumbe isilwane salimala entweni ebukhali noma salimala ngenxa yokulwa nomphikisi. Uma kungekho amanxeba angaphandle, kufanelekile ukubonisana nodokotela wezilwane, ngoba kungenzeka ukulimala kwezitho zangaphakathi;
• ukukhala okuhoshozayo isilwane sibonisa intukuthelo nolaka, okuklanyelwe ukwesabisa isitha. Ngezinye izikhathi igundane liyakhala uma lingafuni ukuphazanyiswa, ngakho-ke ngezikhathi ezinjalo kuhle ukuthi ungathinti isilwane;
• lamagundane akhombisa ubutha kanye nolaka ngokuphimisa imisindo eheyizayo. Isilwane esifuywayo esinomsila siyahayiza lapho singena endaweni yaso noma sixosha isitha kude nensikazi;

• ukutshiyoza kwesilwane libonisa ukwesaba futhi kanjalo uxwayisa abantu bezizwe zakubo ngengozi engase ibe khona;
• injabulo nenjabulo igundane elincane libonisa ukububula okuthulile;
• iqiniso lokuthi isilwane sanelisekile futhi sihlangabezana nemizwa eyakhayo kufakazelwa yi ukugedla amazinyo;
• izwakala ingenasici samagundane, njenge ukukhwehlela nokuthimula khombisa ukuthi isilwane singenwe umkhuhlane futhi sidinga ukwelashwa ngokushesha.

Okubalulekile: umnikazi kufanele alalele ngokucophelela imisindo eyenziwa yigundane lokuhlobisa, ngoba lena yindlela kuphela yokubona lapho isilwane sifuna nje ukuxhumana, futhi lapho sihlushwa ubuhlungu futhi sidinga usizo.

Indlela yokukhipha umsindo wegundane

Naphezu kwezinhlobonhlobo zezimpawu zomsindo ezikhishwa amagundane anomsila, ngokuvamile lezi zilwane ziveza imizwa yazo kanye nemizwa yazo ngosizo lwe-squeak. Ungaqagela ukuthi isilwane esifuywayo sisho ukuthini ngokulalela ukuthi amagundane aklolodela kanjani futhi ngaliphi izwi:

• uma igundane likhala uma uliphulula, khona-ke mhlawumbe unenxeba emzimbeni wakhe, elithintayo elimnika ubuhlungu;
• ukuncwina okuthule kwesilwane ngenxa yokuphulula noma ukukhotha izandla kungase futhi kusho ukuthi isilwane sithola injabulo nenjabulo ngokuxhumana nomnikazi;

• ngezinye izikhathi amagundane afuywayo, ikakhulukazi intsha squeak express ukugunyaza futhi ujabulele ukubuka imidlalo kanye nokuphikisana kwabafowabo abanomsila;
• ukunswininiza kwesilwane nakho kukhomba ukuthi siyesaba. Ngokwesibonelo, ukukhala okukhulu kwe-staccato igundane lazisa umnikazi ukuthi ikati lingene ekhejini lakhe, futhi lidinga ukuvikelwa;
• uma igundane likhala uma uliphakamisa, khona-ke kungenzeka ukuthi isilwane ngalesi sikhathi asikho esimweni sokudlala nokuxhumana, futhi ngaleyo ndlela isilwane sibonisa ukunganeliseki ngokuphazanyiswa.

Ukufunda ukuqonda "ulimi" lwegundane akunzima. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga nje ukunaka ngokwanele futhi unakekele isilwane esihle, ngoba umnikazi uzoqonda kalula lokho isilwane esincane esifuna ukumtshela sona.