Ukuqeqeshwa kwekati okulula ekhaya

Ukuze ufunde ukuqeqesha ikati ekhaya, qala ngezinyathelo ezilula - ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhle nokuvimbela okubi. Kodwa ingabe ikati lingaqeqeshwa ngendlela efanayo nenja? Yebo futhi cha. Ngenxa yokuthi amakati ayizilwane ezizimele kakhulu, angase abonakale engenasithakazelo noma engenasithakazelo ekubeni nawe. Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi ngeke baqeqeshwe. Okudingekayo ukubekezela nokuqonda okuncane, futhi ungakwazi ukufundisa ngokushesha imiyalo ekati lakho lekati noma elidala.

Yini ofuna ukuyiqeqesha ikati lakho?

Okokuqala, nquma ukuthi yini ongathanda ukuyifundisa ikati lakho njengomqeqeshi wekati osaqalayo, bese udlulela kulo mgomo ngezinyathelo ezincane nsuku zonke. Kodwa-ke, ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuqeqesha isilwane sakho, cabanga ukuthi yimiphi imiyalo ozomnika yona nokuthi yimaphi amakhono ofuna ukuwazuza. Khumbula ukuthi uke wabuza imibuzo ngaphambili: indlela yokufundisa ikati ukusebenzisa ithreyi, indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuzola kwayo phakathi nohambo oluya kudokotela wezilwane, indlela yokuyeka ukunwaya okhaphethi noma ifenisha? Lena imisebenzi ozoyixazulula ngesikhathi sokuqeqeshwa.

Nayi imigomo evamile:

• Qeqesha ikati lakho ukulahla udoti.
• Fundisa isilwane sakho ukuthi size kuwe uma usibiza ngezwi noma ngokuthinta.
• Fundisa ikati lakho ukuthi lizole lapho ulixubha.
• Mfundise ukuxhumana nawe, abanye abantu noma izilwane.
• Fundisa ingane yakho ukudlala ngamathoyizi, nawe noma elinye ikati.
• Fundisa isilwane ukuthi sihlale sizolile phakathi nohambo (ngesikhathi sokufika nokushayela imoto).

Kunezizathu eziningi ezibalulekile zokuqeqesha isilwane sakho. Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu, uma ufundisa ikati ukuthi liziphathe kahle, ngeke ligweme abantu nezinye izilwane. Ukuqeqeshwa nakho kubalulekile ekuthuleni kwakho kwengqondo: uma isilwane sizolile lapho usike izinzipho, noma phakathi nohambo, wena noma yena ngeke abe nesizathu sokukhathazeka. Uma ikati likhuliswa kangcono, ubuhlobo bakho nalo buseduze.

Iseshini ngayinye yokuqeqesha kufanele ibe mfushane futhi ibe ngokwemvelo.

Uma usunqume ukuthi yimiphi imiyalo okufanele ikati lakho liyifunde, qala ukuqeqeshwa. Into yokuqala okufanele icatshangelwe ukuthi isikhathi sokunaka kwekati sifushane kunesakho. Akufanele ulindele ukuthi njalo uma umqeqesha, uzobonisa isithakazelo kulokhu. Yeka ukuqeqeshwa ngokushesha lapho isilwane sikhathala.

Ngenxa yokuthi amanye amakati aqeqeshwa ngokushesha (noma mhlawumbe asevele akhona ngaphambi kokuba uwalethe ekhaya), lolu hlobo lokuqeqeshwa lungathatha isikhathi eside. Kodwa kungase kudingeke ulethe ikati lakho ebhokisini likadoti okwesikhashana ukuze ulikhumbuze ukuthi likuphi. Uma ufundisa ikati ukudlala ngamathoyizi (kanye nawe), lokhu kuqeqeshwa kufanele kwenziwe ngezigaba. Amakati akhetha ukufunda amathoyizi amasha eyedwa, okusho ukuthi indima yakho yinto eyodwa kuphela - hhayi ukuphazamisa isilwane futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ungamshiyi yedwa. Khona-ke, lapho eyazi into entsha, ungadlala naye.

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Uma uthanda ukuqeqesha ikati lakho, ungaqala ukufundisa imiyalo ngokushesha. Ukuze uthole impumelelo, kungcono ukufundisa into eyodwa ngesikhathi. Uma ikati lakho selikwazi kahle lokho olifundisa khona, ungadlulela kumsebenzi olandelayo. Isibonelo, uma uletha ikati ekhaya, ungalahla udoti ngokushesha. Uma usuqedile lokho, qala ukwethula ikati kwezinye izilwane ezifuywayo, bese uyifundisa ukuhlala ithule ngenkathi uxubha uboya bayo, njalonjalo.

Ungazibekeli endaweni eyodwa

Uma ikati lakho seliwufundile umyalo, uwulolonge ekhaya lakho. Uma wethula ikati ezilwaneni ezihlala endlini kakade, uzihlanganisa ndawonye kuphela ekamelweni lokuphumula, angase acabange ukuthi esinye isilwane sihlala kule ndawo kuphela. Ayikho inkinga uma esinye isilwane sakho siyinhlanzi, kodwa uma ikati lithandana nenja, kufanele iqonde ukuthi ingahlangana nayo kunoma yiziphi ezinye izindawo endlini.

Njengasebhokisini likadoti, ukufunda eminye imiyalo kufanele kwenzeke ezindaweni ezihlukene endlini. Lapho ulahla udoti uqeqesha ikati lakho, ungase udinge amabhokisi kadoti angaphezu kwelilodwa. Lapho ukhipha ikati lakho ekuklanyeni amakhaphethi kanye nefenisha, udinga ukwenza lokhu ezindaweni ezahlukene endlini yakho, njengoba ezothola izinto ezinjalo emakamelweni amaningana.

Hlanganyela abanye abantu

Uma kunguwe kanye nekati lakho elihlala endlini, akudingekile ukuba ukhathazeke kakhulu ngokufaka abanye abantu ohlelweni lokuqeqesha. Futhi uma usafuna ukuthi ikati lakho libe nobudlelwano nabanye, ngemuva nje kokuthi ulilethe ekhaya, mema abangani noma amalungu omndeni ukuze uxoxe nesilwane esisha. Nokho, bakhumbuze ukuthi bangabonisi ukuphakama kwabo kulesi singeniso. Njengamaseshini akho amafushane, nikeza isilwane sakho amandla okulawula mahhala.

Uma uletha ikati emndenini omkhulu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubandakanya wonke umuntu ohlelweni lokuqeqeshwa. Ziningi izizathu zokuthi kungani umndeni wonke kufanele ubambe iqhaza ekuqeqesheni, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu ukuxhumana nokwakha ubuhlobo. Phela, ikati lizobona ubuso obujwayelekile nsuku zonke! Wonke amalungu omndeni kufanele acace ngezinjongo zokufunda nezindlela ozozisebenzisa ukuze uphumelele.

Sebenzisa isistimu yokuklomelisa

Imivuzo yokuziphatha okuhle iyisikhuthazo esikhulu, ikakhulukazi phakathi nokuqeqeshwa. Kunezinhlobo ezimbili zemiklomelo yomngane wakho onoboya ongayizama. Okokuqala, yazi ukuthi ikati lizothanda noma yikuphi ukudumisa kwakho. Khuluma ngezwi elinomusa, elijabulisayo futhi ukhumbuze ikati lakho ukuthi uyaziqhenya ngalo. Ithi, “Yeka ikati elihle” futhi “Wenze kahle!” ngenkathi ephulula uboya ukuze aqonde ukuthi lezi zimpawu zisho ukuthi wenze konke ngendlela efanele.

Futhi, amakati ayakuthanda ukuphatha. Uma kungazelelwe isilwane sakho senze lokho obufuna sikwenze, sinikeze ukudla koHlelo Lwesayensi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungasebenzisa uhlelo "lokuchofoza". Uma ikati lakho likhipha umyalo ngendlela efanele, vula ithuluzi elichofayo, bese unikeza ubumnandi - isignali yokuthi umyalo ukhishwe ngendlela efanele. Uma ikati lizwa lokhu ngokuchofoza njalo lapho lenza isenzo ngendlela efanele, lizofunda ukwenza lokho olifundisa ukukwenza kahle.

Uma kungasebenzi

Ukufunda akwenzeki ngokuphazima kweso, futhi ngezinye izikhathi isilwane esifuywayo sizokwenza amaphutha. Ungakwazi yini ukufundisa ikati ukulungisa amaphutha? Kunjalo. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuthi uqale, kufanele uqhamuke nesu lokulungisa iphutha noma ubeke ikati lakho emgudwini ofanele lapho libonakala lingafuni. Isijeziso ngeke sisebenze lapha, ngoba isilwane asiqondi ukuthi kungani into ethile ingamphumeleli. Futhi ngenxa yesijeziso, ikati lingaba yedwa futhi livele lihambe.

Ungalokothi ungqongqoze, uxhawule izandla noma usebenzise ukujezisa izinyane lekati ngesikhathi sokuqeqeshwa. Gcina izwi lakho lizolile. Uma isilwane sizizwa sisongelwa nguwe, ukuqeqeshwa ngeke kube nalutho, futhi ikati lizokwesaba.

Uma udinga ukulungisa ukungaziphathi kahle kwesilwane (njengokunwaya ifenisha), zama ukudala umsindo wesikhashana. Ngeke kube yize uma uphinda umusho ofanayo njalo: “Bam!” "Hewu!" noma “Meow!” Iphuzu ukuthi uthole ikati lakho liqaphile futhi liphazamiseke kulokho elikwenzayo njengamanje. Gwema amagama owasebenzisa njalo, njengokuthi “cha!” noma "hey!", Njengoba ikati lingase lidideke ngokuzizwa ngaphansi kwezinye izimo.

Ukuqeqeshwa kwekati kungaba umsebenzi ojabulisayo womndeni wonke. Yiba nesineke futhi ube nomusa futhi uzofinyelela umgomo wakho.