Ingabe amakati ayacasuka?

Bathi amakati azihambela futhi azithandela wona kuphela. Kodwa ama-purrs anothando, angasuki emadolweni abanikazi, akuphikise lokhu. Banamathela kubantu abangekho ngaphansi kwezinja, bazame ukuchitha yonke iminithi eduze nomnikazi futhi badabuke kakhulu lapho bebodwa. Amakati anjalo azwela, imizwa yawo ngokuyinhloko incike kumnikazi, futhi kulula kakhulu ukuwacasula. Kodwa amakati azimele futhi abonakala ezimele nawo acasukile. Mhlawumbe abakudingi ukunakwa njalo kwekhaya, kodwa noma isiphi isenzo esingalungile singabalimaza kangangokuthi kuzothatha isikhathi eside ukubuyisela indawo yesilwane esifuywayo!

Ikati ngalinye lingumuntu ngamunye, njengabanikazi balo. Futhi wonke umuntu usabela ngendlela ehlukile ekulinyazweni. Abanye bayahoxa kubo futhi bangabi nobudlelwane, bayeke ukwethemba futhi bagweme abanikazi babo, kanti abanye bakhe uhlelo lokuziphindiselela.

Ingabe uke wezwa izindaba mayelana nobubi bekati: ukungcola okuhleliwe noma ama-puddles ashiywe phakathi negumbi? Konke lokhu kuyiqiniso. Amakati "angalimaza" ngempela ekuphenduleni inhlamba. Kodwa yini ebaqhubayo - ukucindezeleka noma ukubala okubandayo - umbuzo omkhulu!

Kodwa into eyodwa eqinisekile: amakati awazizwa enecala. Ungalindeli ukuthi aqale ukukhala ngokuziphatha kwakhe “okubi” futhi angaphinde akwenze. Ngokuphambene nalokho, zonke izenzo ezenziwa ikati zingokwemvelo ngokuphelele kuye. Ukukhuliswa ngesineke kuphela nothando lwakho kuzosiza ukuxazulula inkinga. 

Izizathu ezingu-6 eziphezulu zokucasuka kwezilwane:

• Ukujeziswa ngokomzimba.

Ulinyakazise ikati ngokuklinya kwentamo noma ulijikijele nge-slipper? Siyashesha ukukudumaza: ngeke uzuze lutho oluhle. Ukujeziswa ngokomzimba (ngaphandle kokuqhweba okungokomfanekiso ekhaleni noma ukushaya iphephandaba ngaphansi) ngeke kwenze isilwane esifuywayo siziphathe kangcono. Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi zizomenza angakuhloniphi futhi aqale ukukwesaba.

• Kumemeza kakhulu.

Amakati amaningi esaba imisindo emikhulu. Futhi uma umnikazi wakho othandekayo ekhala kuwe, izinga lokucindezeleka liyahamba. Ikati lingase licasuke kakhulu ngokuphakamisa izwi, futhi kuzodingeka ulincenge ukuba liphume ngaphansi kukasofa isikhathi eside.

• Ukuntula ukunakwa.

Kumakati azwelayo anobuhlobo, isimo sengqondo esibandayo somnikazi siyinhlekelele yangempela. Bangase bahlupheke ngobuqotho ngenxa yokunganakwa, bazizwe benesizungu, futhi babe nesithukuthezi kakhulu. Uma umnikazi eqhubeka enganaki ikati, uzoyeka ukuba nothando futhi aqale ukugwema inkampani yakhe.

• Ukudonsa i-Scruff.

Amakati (asendle nasekhaya) avame ukubamba amakati ngokuwashaya entanyeni: ngokusabisa ukuwafundisa imikhuba, noma ukuwanyakazisa. Kodwa uma ikati lizizwa lijwayelekile ngokuphelele ngesikhathi esifanayo, khona-ke ikati elidala elidonsa ikhola liyinhlamba yangempela. Ungalenzi leli phutha!

• Ukungahloniphi indawo yomuntu siqu.

Akuwona wonke amakati athambile. Abaningi bamane bazonda ukwanga, ikakhulukazi komuntu abangamazi. Noma yikuphi ukugxambukela endaweni yomuntu siqu yezilwane ezidla ezinye ezifuywayo kungabangela imihuzuko nokulunywa. Futhi uma kubhekwa ukuthi amakati anikeza izimpawu eziningi eziyisixwayiso ngaphambi kokuhlaselwa, akulona neze iphutha lawo!

• Ukungabikho kwabanikazi isikhathi eside.

Lapho bebuyela ekhaya bevela ohambweni, abanikazi bajahile ukuyogona isilwane sabo esifuywayo, futhi uhlangana nabo ngokunganaki! Noma engahlangani nhlobo. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi phakathi nokungabikho kwakho, ikati lalilangazelela kangangokuthi lakwazi ukukucasula izikhathi eziningana zilandelana futhi lize lihambe kancane. Amanye amakati abhekana nokungabikho kwabanikazi bawo kakhulu kangangokuthi alahlekelwa isifiso sawo sokudla futhi aqale ukugula.

Indlela yokwenza ukuthula nekati uma ecasukile? Umthetho oyinhloko awukona ukumjezisa, hhayi ukwandisa ukucindezeleka. Uma ikati "liziphindiselela" futhi "lidlala ububi" ngokubhikisha, futhi walithethisa ngakho, ukucasuka kwalo kuzokwanda kuphela. Ubeka engcupheni yokonakalisa ngokuphelele futhi ngokungenakulungiseka ubuhlobo bakho nesilwane sakho osithandayo.

Iqhinga elilungile yindlela emnene, ukunaka nokunakekela, ukukhuliswa ngobungane ngesineke. Bonisa isilwane esifuywayo esicasuliwe ukuthi usamthanda, siphathe ngokumnandi, dlala naye. Ngisho nesifiso esinamandla kakhulu sizovuma ngokushesha noma kamuva, futhi ubungane benu buzobuyiselwa!

Qiniseka ukuthi uthola ukuthi yiziphi izenzo ezicasula isilwane sakho futhi uzame ukungaziphindi esikhathini esizayo. Ikati liyisitha esesabekayo, futhi kungcono ukungalwi nalo!

Awungitshele, uxabene nama-purrs akho? Bacasulwa yini futhi kuqhubeka kanjani ukubuyisana?