Kungani ikati lizinwaya futhi lilume nokuthi lilunyulwa kanjani

Ikati elihle alikwazi nje ukugobhoza njengemoto encane bese lizihlikihla ezandleni zalo ngoboya obupholile, kodwa futhi liyanwaya futhi lilume. Futhi uma ukulunywa okumbalwa kokuqala kubonakala cishe ngothando, khona-ke ngophawu ngalunye olusha kuphakama umbuzo wokuthi ungalunyulwa kanjani ikati kusuka ekunwayeni nasekulumeni.

Kungani ikati liqala ukunwaya nokuluma

Isinyathelo sokuqala ekuxazululeni le nkinga elumayo ukuqonda izizathu zalokhu kuziphatha. Ngezinye izikhathi zifana nezizathu zesimo esibi sabanikazi:

• Ukucindezeleka, ukwesaba, ulaka. Isibonelo, ngenxa yokuthuthela efulethini elisha - noma ukuhlela kabusha ifenisha. I-kitten ingathuka futhi ayivumeli ukushaywa, ukulunywa, ngoba indawo engavamile iyamethusa futhi iyamcasula. Umntwana udinga isikhathi ukuze ehlise umoya futhi aqonde ukuthi kuphephile lapha.

• Ukunaka kakhulu, iphunga elibi, imisindo ephezulu: lezi nezinye izinto eziningi akukho kati elizozithanda. Mhlawumbe izinyane lekati liyaluma futhi lihlasele, okwenza kucace ukuthi kukhona okungajabulisi kulo.

• Umuzwa omubi. Uma i-kitten iklwebha futhi iluma, udinga ukunaka isimo sayo. Awukuthandi ukudla, ukukhuluphala noma ukuncipha, izinkinga zokuchama, ukuphuma okuxakayo, amabala anempandla noma ezinye izimpawu zezinkinga zempilo? Kufanele uxhumane nodokotela wakho wezilwane ngokushesha.

• Ukushintsha kwamazinyo. Ngalesi sikhathi, izinsini ngisho zabangane abanemilenze emine ziluma kakhulu, ngakho-ke ikati liluma futhi liklwebhe kakhulu. Okufanele ngikwenze? Amathoyizi akhethekile nokudla okulula okungahlafunwa isikhathi eside kuzosiza ukugcina izandla zakho nefenisha.

• Umdlalo, umzwelo wokuzingela. Lapho udlala, isilwane esifuywayo sivame ukulingisa ukuzingela: silandelela phansi "inyamazane", engase ibe imilenze nezandla zamalungu omndeni kalula, igijimele kuyo, ibambe, iyilume, bese iyayiyeka futhi. Akaqondi nje ukuthi yini enikeza umnikazi ukungakhululeki. Into eyinhloko lapha ukuthi ungaphuthelwa isikhathi lapho umdlalo ojabulisayo uphenduka ubudlova obungenampilo.

• Ukunganaki, isithukuthezi. Ikati lifana nengane. Ngeke ahlale phansi, alinde umniniyo ukuthi athole isikhathi sokumnwaya ngemuva kwendlebe. Bese ubuza nje "Dlala ngami!" akakwazi, bese esebenzisa amazinyo nezinzipho.

• Izici zengqondo. Lokhu kungase kube ukucaciswa kohlobo oluthile noma leli kati noma ikati, ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo noma ukungakwazi ukuxhumana nabantu nezinye izilwane. Isazi se-zoopsychologist esinolwazi sizokusiza ukuthi uqonde ukuziphatha komuntu onomsila futhi akutshele ukuthi ungayilumula kanjani ingane ekujikijeleni nasekulumeni.

Okufanele ukwenze uma ikati lizinwaya futhi liluma

Ngokushesha lapho uthatha ukukhuliswa kwesilwane sakho, kungenzeka ukuthi esikhathini esizayo lokhu kuluma nokunwaya ngeke kube umkhuba kuye. Okokuqala udinga ukuhlaziya ukuziphatha kwesilwane bese uzama ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ikati liluma, yini ekhathazayo noma ejabulisayo kuye. 

Uma egula, udinga ukubonana nodokotela wezilwane. Uma isizathu sihlukile, kungcono ukuqeda izici ezicasulayo ezivela emkhakheni wombono wesilwane esifuywayo. 

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kufanele umemeze kitten, uphakamise isandla sakho kuye, uphonsa izinto kuye. Lokhu kuwumkhuba wangempela ekukhulisweni ngendlela efanele kwekati noma ikati elikhulile. Kubalulekile ukuthi umniniyo azole futhi abekezele: kuzothatha isikhathi ukulumula isilwane ekuzinwayeleni nasekulumeni. Akufanele ugwebe kakhulu futhi uzame ukukhipha ingalo noma umlenze - ukuziphatha okunjalo kuzomcasula umzingeli kuphela.

Elinye iphuzu elibalulekile endleleni yokulumula izinyane lekati ekulumeni ukukhombisa ukuthi ukuziphatha okunjalo akwamukelekile. Isilwane kufanele sakhe ubudlelwano obungebuhle obucacile nemizamo yaso yokukunwaya noma ukukuluma. Ungazama ukumbambatha izinyane lekati nge-scruff - lena yindlela ikati elivame ukujezisa ngayo. Udinga ukwenza lokhu njalo lapho izinyane lekati lihlasela futhi liluma. Udinga ukuhambisana nesenzo ngegama elivimbelayo, isibonelo, ngokuthula uthi: "Awukwazi!".

Kubalulekile ukuthatha inqubo yemfundo ngokungathi sína, ukunaka izicelo nezidingo zesilwane esifuywayo futhi usiphathe ngenhlonipho. Khona-ke kuyoba lula kakhulu ukulumula kitten ekuzinwayeleni nasekulumeni.

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